There are many reasons for this. It seems that they all graduated from college, but everyone has their own opportunities. Some people have seized their opportunities, some people have not been able to seize their opportunities, and some people have not.
Opportunities, but he creates opportunities for himself through his own efforts. Of course, many people may also rely on some family connections and family power. These are the reasons for the gap. Everyone is on the same starting line.
But some people start by plane, some by car, some by bicycle, some by their own No. 11 bus, and some even crawl forward. How can this not create a gap?
We are all in the same university, in the same class, or even in the same dormitory. Even so, we cannot avoid our various differences.
Some people participate in club activities at the university, some people participate in the student union at the university, some people help teachers with some things at the university, and some people will only concentrate on their studies. Everyone’s knowledge accumulation, different levels of knowledge and understanding, everyone’s experience in making friends, and social skills
They will not be at the same level. These will be their respective competitive advantages in society after graduation. Since everyone is different, how can the speed and height of development be the same?
Sometimes there may be someone living in the bunk bed below you all day long as a poor guy who lives as a fraternity with you in a dozen houses. Sometimes it may be a brother who drinks and goes crazy with you. His father is the director of the department. Sometimes he may fail the exam all day long without your efforts.
My buddy owns a Fortune 500 company.
Everyone has different backgrounds, so their development directions are different, and their development methods are different, which creates various gaps. I think these should be normal. People are different, and gaps will inevitably arise.