1. Especially good at taking care of others.

Before I was with my boyfriend, but when my colleagues were out for fun, I got a minor illness and was hospitalized for appendicitis.

Before I was with him at that time, he started busy. When I left the operating room at 4 o'clock in the morning, he stayed there from 1 o'clock in the morning to 4 o'clock in the morning. Until I left the operating room and entered the ward, the nurse asked me

He went back before he left.

Then I got seriously ill again. In May of this year, I got a tumor. This is also the origin of my personalized signature. I was very ill.

He woke up at around five o'clock in the morning. The first thing he did when he woke up was to go to the hospital cafeteria to buy breakfast for me. He also slept on the hospital recliner at night. When I got up to go to the toilet and drink water, he took care of me the whole time without letting my dad do it.

Mom, please be careful.

2. Bring everything with you before traveling and prepare a strategy in advance.

Both of us love traveling. We don’t have much money, but we save money to travel once a year.

Every time before he goes on a trip, he will pack all the things he should bring, and our suitcases, because I have obsessive-compulsive disorder, will be packed neatly and arranged in categories.

When I finally left, he would always think of the things I didn’t bring. Making travel guides is a hobby of both of us. He and I would make travel guides a week before departure, ranging from which subway lines to which ones.

Hotel to stay in, food to eat.

3. Always look at me with a smile and wait for me to finish speaking before expressing my opinion.

Because I talk a lot sometimes and am a little talkative. I will always chatter next to him or express my opinions on current affairs, but he will not rush to talk every time. He always waits for me to finish speaking.

Will continue.

4. He has such a good character that all the leaders, colleagues and friends around me recognize him.

He will not slander someone easily, nor speak ill of anyone, nor offend anyone easily, nor let anyone bully him easily.

He has a strong working ability and is willing to help those who need help. When we first met, I felt that he was kind to everyone, but after getting to know me, he would only be particularly kind to me.

5. Prepare surprises in advance for special holiday birthdays.

Whether it’s Chinese Valentine’s Day or a birthday, surprises will be prepared in advance.

There are flowers and a big meal, which all reflect his sense of ritual in life.

6. He has good cooking skills and is willing to introduce me to all his friends and open his relationship in the circle of friends.

He has good cooking skills. After being with him, I have gained a lot of weight. I used to be a fitness lover, with a relatively well-proportioned figure and a bit of waistcoat line. Now I can’t keep it off, and I still have a little baby fat.

And no matter how tired he is at work, he will always cook for me when he comes back. Not long after we got together, he introduced me to all his friends and made our relationship public in the circle of friends, which gave me a sense of security.

7. Funny and humorous, with strong logical thinking ability.

I was just a funny guy at the beginning, he didn't talk much, but later I found out that this guy is just a bit boring, but after getting along with him for a long time, he is still very funny.

He is funny and humorous. We all like to play escape rooms and occasionally play games. He also likes to use his brain. He has strong logical thinking ability.

8. After one year together, two-thirds of his salary was given to me.

Because we were going to get married, and I knew how to invest and manage money, he transferred more than half of his salary to me every month based on the principle of trust, and I used it to invest in funds.

9. Tolerate but not condone.

He is a person with a pretty good temper and is very tolerant, but he will not condone issues of principle when they arise.

Will scold me like an old father.

10. Respect each other and improve each other.

This is very important to me. The two of us respect each other very much. No matter what we want to do, we have unconditional support, as long as it is beneficial to progress.

Also, two people will make progress together. We often play games together to relieve stress, make videos together, work together, read books together, and do housework together. In this way, both people will make progress, and then our relationship will also be enhanced.

We will also feel more involved in each other's lives. Rather than being a couple, we are more like friends who talk about everything.