Text | Zhang Ping Illustrations | From the Internet In life, there is such a kind of person: he looks kind, is very enthusiastic about other people's affairs, and is willing to help others.

Many people call him a "good old guy."

A good person refers to a person who is easy-going and kind, has a gentle personality, does not want to offend others, will not reject others, and lacks principles.

If you have such a friend, you should be very happy, but what if the other person is your husband?

It is estimated that at this time, the wife of this "good old man" should be complaining.

The "good guy"'s non-rejection and lack of principles, for his wife, these advantages are a kind of torture.

For example, if a friend asks you to borrow money, you don't have any money yourself, but due to your personality, your refusal will make the situation more embarrassing. You will satisfy your friend's temporary needs, but put your own life in trouble.

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Or maybe, others have repeatedly violated your bottom line, but you don't know how to fight back, so that you lose the initiative in interpersonal communication, and at the same time, you allow the other party to take advantage of it, affecting your normal life.

At this time, as your significant other, do you need to take on the aftermath?

To be honest, as the wife of a "good old man", it is difficult to support her without a strong heart.

When Roland and Chen Zhigang got married, they fell in love with his honesty and honesty. At that time, Roland had just experienced a failed love relationship and was disheartened. At this time, a friend of Roland introduced Chen Zhigang to her. Roland didn't.

After thinking about it, I agreed.

After three months of getting along, the two received their marriage certificate.

Since she didn't have enough time to get to know each other before the marriage, Roland didn't know much about her husband. She only knew that her husband was very loyal, very kind to his friends, and he was filial. In addition to being kind to his parents, he was also kind to his next door neighbors.

Very kind.

At first, Roland's mother was afraid that she would bully her honest son-in-law, so she always warned Roland to treat Chen Zhigang well.

One month after getting married, his husband's primary school classmate came to him and asked him to borrow 2,000 yuan. Luo Lan happened to see him. Out of respect, Chen Zhigang asked his wife for her opinion. Luo Lan thought that it was rare for him to get one, and it was only 2,000 yuan.

If it weren't for the difficulty, I would be embarrassed to start, so I lent the money to the other party.

It was originally agreed to pay it back in one month, but one month later, her husband's elementary school classmate never showed up, so Roland urged her husband to call and ask. In her opinion, honesty is very important when borrowing money, no matter how big or small. This will also be convenient in the future.

Borrow again.

Roland's husband looked very embarrassed. He felt that it was a shame to take the initiative to collect the money for such a small amount of money. Of course, he felt that the other party would definitely return the money to him in a few days, so in front of Roland, he pretended to fight.

He made a call, but in fact, he didn't make the call at all.

Roland didn't know the truth and thought the matter had been resolved long ago.

It was not until two months later that another classmate came to borrow money and mentioned the previous classmate's borrowing of money. Roland realized that her husband had not urged the classmate to repay the money, and that the other classmate had not kept his word.

After Roland got married, life was actually not very easy.

Although her husband has a very good reputation among the neighbors, his earning power and sense of propriety are very poor.

When neighbors asked him for help, he agreed to it regardless of whether they were men or women, never considering whether it would cause trouble to others or his own family life.

Because of this incident, Roland reminded her husband several times to keep a distance from the opposite sex.

The second classmate who came to borrow money was actually not familiar to Roland. There were many classmates of her husband, and she couldn't remember them clearly. In addition, the relationship between the other classmate and her husband was not very good, so when he asked for a loan,

, Roland was opposed to it.

Considering that her husband would not refuse anyone, Roland stepped forward to reject the classmate who came to borrow money.

Because of this incident, her husband always blamed Roland for not interfering in his affairs, and the two even quarreled over this.

Afterwards, Luo Lan asked some of her husband's close friends and learned that her husband often lent money to friends he was not familiar with. She asked Chen Zhigang to compile a list of people who had borrowed money.

Who is the person, for what reason, how much money has been borrowed, and when should it be repaid clearly.