thirteen years ago, I made an extraordinary decision and voluntarily chose to take care of my baby at home full-time. Because of my previous teaching experience, I especially look forward to accompanying and witnessing the growth of my new life ...

With this wish, from the day I am full-time, I am determined to be a good mother.

Every day, I am hungry, searching for all kinds of related studies, and buying books on parenting first; Listen to any lectures on parenting. In short, I am a tireless, diligent and studious mother!

I believe that all questions about children can give me answers in books and lectures. Indeed, learning has made me more rational in parenting, and I know a lot about various theories and methods. < P > However, in life, like most mothers, I still fall into the problems of children, big and small. < P > Children don't like school, they are old and sick, timid, unsociable, fat, procrastinating in homework, quarreling with one big and playing with mobile phones ... < P > I still experience it.

Oh, I don't know, have you ever been helpless like me! Anxiety, madness, even self-doubt, great frustration < P >-after learning so much, why, why can't you still live this life?

I am determined to be a good mother. The more I learn, the more confused I am ...

Why do children's problems always emerge one after another?

why did the mother work so hard on this original, but the copy is still wrong?

what should I learn to really help me?

One day, I met the audio of the psychologist in Taixin Hospital, which was like dew falling from the sky, and it infiltrated little by little. My dry heart

The study in Taixin Hospital, like a key to open the door of my heart, led me into a rich inner world. It turns out that the world in our eyes is a projection of our own.

It turns out that behind every problem of our children, there are many things. Receiving all kinds of gifts from children, I gradually learned to identify them one by one: this is anxiety, that is fear, that is seeking approval, that is lack of love ... < P > Under the teaching guidance of a psychologist, I learned how to accept these gifts and how to use them ... < P > Since then, many hidden locks in my heart have been opened one by one, and the relationship with children has quietly become more and more harmonious. I prefer to be a mother who

knows how to love herself, accepts herself, is sincere and honest, and listens to her company.

After I made such a change, everything developed in a good direction ...

Being my true self made me see my emotions and the inner child who lacks love.

I stopped pursuing learning everywhere and only explored myself with my heart.

211. I studied craniosacral therapy

and then I participated in the advanced craniosacral therapy of Lyon College of Dingcheng Culture in Shanghai

This year, I participated in the study of appropriate techniques for decompression and emotional regulation of traditional Chinese medicine led by Ouyang Jingwen

In the continuous study and practice, I am deeply in love and discuss emotions with others. I no longer regard emotions as enemies, but prefer to go, find the gifts they bring

and use the corresponding healing techniques. Make a deeper internal connection with the body

Let yourself and others have an excellent state of physical, mental and spiritual relaxation, relieve stress, adjust mentality and stimulate positive emotions

After operating technical therapy for family and friends, chatting and listening, their stress is released, their sleep is better, their children are taller, their nasal congestion and breathing are improved, and their sciatica is gone ...

Every time I am happy, I am happy. -this is the original appearance of life!

Every mother who knows true love must master a skill of family health care technology!

I can't believe that the dramatic 13 years have turned out to be a great treasure in my life. My previous experience made me more willing to go and listen to my mothers' voices. I am more willing to go and grow together with my mothers!

Finally, dear friend, I invite you to discuss: Mom's growth path, let's cheer for the change of life together!