The ratio of men to women is not balanced, is it? Mother-in-law's hotbed of economy. Perhaps because of the influence of many families that prefer sons to daughters, or to some extent because of the family planning policy, in real life, the imbalance between men and women among marriageable young people has become a kind of knowledge, and women are obviously much less than men, which has caused a large number of divorced men to find suitable marriage partners.
For China families, parents will always take it as their responsibility to help their children enter the marriage hall. So the man's family began to improve their marital conditions spontaneously, trying to improve their children's competitiveness in this way. In fact, this is no different from the market economy, and things are rare.
Part of it is the influence of traditional ideas, as well as parents' expectations for their daughters' future life. In traditional thinking, it is natural for a boy's family to prepare everything for his later life, and it is also necessary for a woman's family to prepare a dowry. However, in today's era, the former is paid more and more attention, while the latter is ignored.
This kind of thinking not only affects some people, but also is a common problem. Coupled with the fact that there are no parents who don't want their children to live well enough, the expectations for future son-in-law are naturally higher and higher.
The superposition of the two factors leads to the situation that the woman's parents always expect her daughter to marry a good family. This is not wrong, but it may not be a good thing for young couples.
The change of social thought causes people's thoughts to be corroded by money. Nowadays, people's lives are always facing changes, and the rapid economic development has made too many people fascinated by money. Many families began to use money to measure a marriage, and many seemingly happy marriages based on money in society made these people see the hope of success in their goals.
When love and marriage have been corrupted by money, whether two people can be happy is no longer a problem considered by many female families. How much money this marriage can cost is the key.
Really? The economy of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the comprehensive result of many factors. I just want to briefly talk about my own views. I hope you don't take it too seriously if you are offended or inappropriate. Every family has its own problems, so it is enough for them to live their own lives.