Why can Wendi Deng firmly seize every chance of success? She will seize every opportunity, because she never fights uncertain battles. She never misses a chance to express herself.
First, full preparation and excellent knowledge.
Wendi Deng has a good diploma. She graduated from an Ivy League school. Moreover, she is very serious, doing things very seriously, and never anticlimactic. When she was down and out, she grasped the key of leadership by virtue of her excellent language ability and English level, so she succeeded. When she conducts business negotiations, she will make preparations in advance for her opponent's assets, personality, way of doing things, etc. It is this precautionary mentality that makes her stand out from all others. Personally, I think that people who are prepared in advance are always better than those who are not prepared.
Second, gentleness and fierceness coexist.
Although Deng Wendi doesn't have a very beautiful appearance, her personality is very gentle and makes people feel very kind. This is also one of the reasons for her success, because no investor wants to talk to an aggressive boss, and her gentle personality helps her to leave a good impression on the other side in business negotiations. Because we know that the first impression will affect people's judgment. If you make a good impression, others will subconsciously trust you, which will also help her get a lot of praise.
Third, be good at calculation and fight a decisive battle.
When Murdoch knew Wendi Deng, he insisted on divorcing Anna. Anna knew that her husband's mind had been made up, so she forced Murdoch to cancel Deng Wendi's inheritance on the condition of giving up half of Murdoch's property.
According to this divorce agreement, unless Deng Wendi can have a son and a half daughter after marriage, and the children were under 18 years old when Murdoch died, Deng Wendi can hold the shares in the hands of the children! At that time, Murdoch was almost 70 years old, and he was also diagnosed with early prostate cancer. Radiation therapy means losing fertility. Even if Wendi Deng gets married, she will not get an inheritance in the future, and the Murdoch business empire is finally firmly in the hands of Anna's own two sons. Anna, who thought her wishful thinking was beautiful, was relieved after signing the divorce agreement. 17 days later, Wendi Deng got her wish and married Murdoch. However, Anna didn't expect Deng Wendi to be so decisive. After getting married, she soon gave birth to a baby with Murdoch's frozen sperm.
One is not enough. One more.
Fourth, use family ties to ease relations.
Wendi Deng and Anna often meet at family gatherings and get along well. Even Wendi Deng's daughter and Anna's grandson often play together. Let his two children be bridesmaids for Murdoch and his current fourth wife, 59-year-old American actress and former supermodel Jerry Hall. Optimize the pillow breeze. Often take children to visit their fathers to enhance family ties.
Fifth, insist on urging Murdoch to treat them equally. Divide huge trust assets for two daughters.
Later, Deng Wendi gave birth to two daughters, and the four adult children in front stood together to oppose letting the two little sisters get the family trust assets. But Deng Wendi has been urging Murdoch to treat him equally.
At the beginning, the divorce took only six minutes, and Murdoch got less than 1% of the property (two luxury houses+10/more than ten thousand dollars), which was ridiculed by many people as equivalent to leaving home clean. After six years of divorce, I got 26.8 billion property? ! It is reported that the family trust fund established by Murdoch owns 0/7% of the shares of Fox1200 million US dollars. The direct beneficiaries of this money are Murdoch's six biological children, including Deng Wensheng's two.
Each child will receive $2 billion, and Deng Wendi's two daughters add up to 4 billion (equivalent to RMB 26.8 billion) of sky-high property!
Summary: Many times, success leads us to a brighter and fresher road. But after success, can you grasp this road and not be squeezed by others? That is to see the ability of individuals. Obviously, Wendi Deng was very successful, because she kept studying, got a Yale degree, got an American green card, got Murdoch's favor and entered the entertainment circle. Although her family is poor, she is famous, so she has more opportunities to get close to some people at a higher level.
She took every opportunity to get along with and get in touch with those high-level people, and at the same time seized the opportunity to meet more rich people and master the corresponding property lifeline. At the same time, she gave birth to one or two more sensible children and devoted herself to them, and gradually her own material spirit was satisfied!
Ms. Deng Wendi is bold, and she will do whatever it takes to get a green card, which shows that her ambition and boldness coexist. In her life, if there is no Murdoch, there will be Dokmer, Mudo and so on. Wendi Deng is not a mortal. There is also a good opportunity, which also accounts for a large part. No matter how ambitious and capable a person is, God won't give him a chance to make a hero.
Actually, I admire her. Women's minds are much stronger than most men's, but I don't quite agree. I think she doesn't quite conform to the traditional image of a good wife and mother, husband and children in China, and the unknown beauty of traditional women in China, so she squeezed into the upper class in the United States. Finally, I want to say that success can be used for reference, but it cannot be copied. It is very important for a person to do what suits him, just be the best of himself.