Come to think of it, it is.

Because I don't want to spend money, I save money everywhere, and in the end I end up wasting it.

As a result, more and more money is spent, and it is in an infinite loop, and the days are getting poorer every day.

The picture contains a heartfelt truth: people who are unwilling to spend money will only make themselves poorer and poorer.

Money is not saved, it is spent.

In my life, I have more or less thought of "enjoying the best things with the least money".

But you can't have your cake and eat it, so you can't save money and take advantage.

At that time, Mr. Lao She shared a room with others in order to save money.

But the children upstairs are always pushing and pulling chairs to play.

Not only is the noise loud, but the ceiling is also in danger of falling down at any time.

He failed to negotiate with the upstairs residents many times and had to move.

In order to save money, he moved to another residence far away from his children.

I didn't expect to be disturbed again. I don't think my neighbor has many dogs in the yard. Dog droppings make the yard smell bad.

Not only that, these dogs often growl at night, which seriously affects Mr. Lao She's sleep.

Later, Mr. Lao She moved to a new home.

This time, he chose a cheap rent, away from the house of children and dogs, but he couldn't write quietly, because he could hear others playing the piano and singing in the morning and evening, so he had to move again.

Lao She was very tired after several tossing and turning. I thought sharing a room with others would save a lot of money.

Unexpectedly, instead of saving money, it cost more money.

When I was young, I always thought money was saved.

But as I get older and experience more, I find that money is not saved, but spent.

There is a saying on the Internet:

There's chaos in the world. If you earn some money, I just hope you can live comfortably. Why bother yourself?

Only by letting yourself feel the fun of spending money can you have the motivation to continue making money.

The more you save, the poorer you will be.

I don't know if you have had such an experience:

Many times, the more you want to save money, the more money you spend and make yourself poorer and poorer.

Netizen @ Rose and Star once shared an experience of their own.

A few years ago, in order to spend the least money to buy a pair of glasses, he went to the optical shop three times in half a year, but spent an extra 2000 yuan, which was lent to him by a friend.

It turned out that he went to an optical shop for the first time, worried that wearing glasses in a luxurious flagship store would be several times more expensive, so he chose a humble shop next to him and only spent more than 200 yuan to buy a pair of glasses.

Just when he was secretly glad that he had saved a lot of money, he didn't expect his glasses to be broken in less than a month.

In order to get another pair of glasses, he gave up the sneakers he wanted to buy for a long time.

This time, he learned the previous lesson, went to the flagship store with gorgeous decoration, and chose good frames and ultra-thin eye protection lenses.

However, the optical shop stipulates that astigmatism exceeds 200 degrees, and it needs to add 300 lenses.

And his astigmatism is just 50 degrees more, which means it costs 2000 yuan to buy glasses.

He thought that the difference of 50 degrees would not be very big. In order to save 300 yuan, he decided to use a 200-degree astigmatism lens.

It happened that the gap of 50 degrees made him unable to see clearly, which seriously affected his life.

A month later, he must get a pair of glasses that are more suitable for him.

This is undoubtedly worse for him. He is not rich and has to borrow money from his friends.

In The Method of Happiness, the author Shachard puts forward four different lifestyles according to the way people spend money: busyness, happiness, nihilism and hedonism.

Among them, people who are unwilling to spend money belong to the busy type.

In order to live a better life, such people try their best to save money and regard saving money as a pleasure.

They spend the least money on what they need.

As a result, instead of saving money, I spent more and made myself poorer and poorer.

Life is a long road. Instead of trying to save money and make yourself poorer and poorer, spend every penny wisely.

If a person can make money, he must also spend money.

Johnson once said:

However, some people can only make money, but they are not willing to spend a penny, and they will never enjoy spending money.

In Balzac's Eugenie Grandet, the millionaire Grandet is like this.

In order not to spend money, his clothes are mended by his wife, and he wears the same clothes all year round.

Although all the ingredients in the house were sent by the tenants, in order to save food, he stipulated that everyone must eat standing up.

He will also personally arrange the daily meals and keep an eye on the servants for fear that they will use a piece of candy more.

Even in the cold winter, he won't allow a fire at home, and he won't waste another candle.

When he died, he didn't forget the money he left behind.

As the saying goes, "money is a thing apart." Not alive, not dead. "

Will make money, but not willing to spend money, can only become a slave to money.

Only by experiencing the fun of spending money can we have more motivation to earn more money.

I know a self-media author. Every time she gets the manuscript fee, she either eats with her family, buys them gifts or buys herself something she likes.

She told me that she likes spending money, and for this happiness, she will work harder to make money.

There is a saying in La Traviata: "Money is a good servant, but a bad master."

Whether you become the master or servant of money depends on your attitude towards money.

Making money is to let yourself have money to spend, and spending money is not to squander, but to give yourself the best life within your ability.

Real winners in life have long learned to make money and spend money rationally to make their lives comfortable and full.

People who are good at spending money will be more comfortable after this pass.

I said to:

Many people are unwilling to spend money because of the solidification of their thinking.

Actually, it is not.

Spending money in the right place and making it worthwhile is another way to make money.

After all, there is only one possibility to save money, but there are countless possibilities for people who spend money.

And those who are getting richer and richer have learned the following four points:

In the book Qian Qian the Dog, the author Bodo Schaefer suggested that we divide our income into three parts.

1. There is a goose account.

Goose is your money.

No matter how much money you earn, you will deposit 50% of your income in a bank account to collect interest, which is the guarantee of your future life.

2. Establish a dream fund

Use 40% of income to achieve short-term goals.

For example, you can get a new mobile phone after 2 months of deposit, and you can buy a tablet computer after 3 months of deposit.

3. Daily cost

Take 10% of income as daily expenses.

Buffett has a saying:

You don't manage money, and money ignores you.

Only by learning to manage money can money roll up like a snowball and serve itself.

In life, we always spend money when we should save money and save money where we should.

Don't turn off the lights when you leave the room. When you are thirsty, you don't want to spend money on water.

Take a taxi when you can take the subway. When you go out to eat, you don't want to order what you want, just order something cheap and unpalatable.

Saving money means saving unnecessary expenses, not saving necessary expenses.

Money should be spent in the right place, not extravagance and waste, and not wrong consumption.

Be willing to spend when you should spend money, and learn to save money when you shouldn't.

After giving birth to a child, many women always struggle to bring their own children or ask a professional aunt to bring them.

After a writer gave birth to a child, his life became a mess because he took care of the child.

Every time he finally enters the world of writing, the child wakes up.

But after putting the children to sleep, they have no energy to continue writing and have to postpone their writing plan.

Until one day, she found an aunt at the suggestion of a friend.

Every day, she safely gives her children to her aunt, takes her computer with her, and goes to the library to concentrate on writing.

Unexpectedly, I finished writing the manuscript half a month in advance.

In fact, there are many things in life that can be bought with money.

It seems expensive to spend money on time.

In fact, it is to let professionals act efficiently for themselves in a professional way, so that they can have more time to create value and earn more money.

Everyone has 24 hours a day. How to create value in these 24 hours depends on whether you are willing to spend money to buy time.

The movie Confessions of a Shopaholic said:

Spend money on fitness, in exchange for a healthy body and a light waist;

Spend money on books, so that the books you have read nourish your mind and broaden your horizons;

Spend money on enrolling in courses, so that your life will be wider and wider.

People who are willing to spend money to invest in themselves will only become more valuable and valuable.

Because they know that the knowledge they have learned with money will one day make them take fewer detours, go to higher places and see better scenery.

Yi Shu once said:

We work so hard to make money in order to make the money in our pockets the basis for our progress, instead of falling into an endless cycle, becoming poorer and poorer and becoming slaves to money.

It takes a lot of money to walk around the world.

However, money is not everything. There is no need to regard money as the whole of life, but to live in peace with money and treat money as a friend.

Light up and watch, encourage friends.