—— Starting from the fact that the foundation didn't accept a donation of 1.5 million yuan, in 21, the blogger served as the main leader of a social welfare foundation. One day, an entrepreneur who is enthusiastic about public welfare in this city called and said excitedly that he would donate 1.5 million yuan to us, saying that he would arrive soon. I'm glad to hear that, but I'm also cautious. The reason for caution is that although the foundation has been established for more than 2 years at that time, it has not received a purely private donation of more than 1, yuan. The money came so suddenly, could it be the entrepreneur's impulse? Or is there another reason? So I said on the phone, "Well, you come and we'll talk.". I told the entrepreneur that we would never force anyone, and the donation must be voluntary. No matter who it is, money is not easy to come by. For such a large sum of money, you must think it over before donating it. I mean, to do charity, we must uphold the idea of public welfare, and we must be happy and satisfied by all parties. You can't fool people and get the money when they are emotional. In that case, the basic principle of charity and public welfare-voluntariness will be lost. Later, I said, don't worry, go back and think about it, and come to me if you really want to donate. After some heart-to-heart communication, the entrepreneur accepted my suggestion and didn't donate immediately. Of course, this donation was later "no more". At that time, if our foundation wanted to get this donation, it only needed me and my colleagues in the unit to "shake their lips and talk" and "fool" about it, put on a "high hat" for the entrepreneur, or set up a scene to receive it on the spot, and make a grand and enthusiastic announcement and publicity to the society, making it difficult for him to take back his promise and break his word, and the donation would "fall" But we can't do this, because in our hearts, charity is not one-way giving but two-way interaction, not a single win but a win-win situation, which is a kind of ability and means for people to consciously adjust the relationship with others, society and themselves. Later, the entrepreneur did a charity project with us in another form. Although he did not donate 1.5 million cash, he also achieved the effect of donating 1.1 million yuan through other forms. Telling this story is intended to show that charity must uphold the heart of public welfare and realize "everyone is happy", "chorus" and "everyone is happy". You can't be a "charity" that deceives and loses your heart. The so-called public welfare means that all people, whether they are direct participants or indirect participants, or even stakeholders and society, have their own places and benefits. Donors can not "cheat" or "fake" donations, and recipients can not "coax" or "hold" donations.