For many small families, it is normal to use a set of bathroom equipment. If men's urine is not clean and stains the toilet seat, which makes women uncomfortable, can the proposal of "men urinate while sitting" put forward by Environmental Protection Director Shen Shihong really solve this problem? The Friendship Foundation believes that the problem should not be simplified. It may not be convenient for men to pee while sitting, or to ensure that the urine is clean. The key point is to respect the other person as a toilet user, otherwise it will be useless to make more rules. Can the suggestion of "men urinate while sitting" really solve the problem that women are troubled by dirty urine and dirty toilet seats? The Friendship Foundation believes that the problem should not be simplified, and the key point is to have a correct attitude of respecting each other.

Friendship Foundation is engaged in marriage counseling, parenting education and other services. Yang Shufen, a social worker in its clinical center, believes that letting men experience sitting and urinating can help women understand the inconvenience of going to the toilet with empathy. For example, when they find that they have to lean on the toilet seat, they will remind themselves by comparing themselves, and try not to dirty the toilet seat when urinating.

However, Yang Shufen said that the male genital structure is different from that of the female, so it is not necessarily suitable for sitting to urinate. In order to achieve the goal of respecting women, if we can develop the habit of lifting the toilet lid before urinating, or performing disinfection after going to the toilet, it will not necessarily become a difficult problem when the two sexes establish a knowledge of using it.

Many women have also reported that the other half's bad habits, such as spitting urine or littering socks, are hard to get rid of, and even after repeated reminders, they are getting worse and worse. Yang Shufen believes that this deliberate resistance may not be just a matter of habit, so we should examine the relationship between the two people and cause communication failure. Many kindergartens and other units will put notes on the toilet walls about the steps for men and women to go to the toilet, so as to train correct toilet habits from an early age. (Photography/Zhang Yawen)

"The attitude and habit of respecting others should be cultivated from an early age! "Yang Shufen said that at present, many kindergartens will put notes on the toilet walls about the steps for men and women to go to the toilet, telling boys to lift the toilet lid and girls to put it down. It is suggested that children should be trained to develop the good habit of going to the toilet at home, and don't forget to give encouragement when they reach it.