First of all, Peng Xiaoliu reviewed his brief history: 10 years ago as a programmer in a third-tier city in Jiangsu. At the age of 30, I began to write things online, and I published a book, which greatly improved my investment. 20 17- 1, came to Shenzhen to join the action school and was responsible for the online education curriculum design. How to slash youth from third-tier cities to Internet practitioners in first-tier cities? Peng Xiaoliu will share seven abilities that play an important role in his growth in this course.
The theme of this sharing is "seven abilities to change the growth dilemma", which mainly consists of three abilities: energy, learning ability and interpersonal skills. This course focuses on learning ability, including reading ability, knowledge management ability, practical ability, sharing ability and action ability. Energy supports learning ability, and interpersonal skills can help you form problem-solving ability.
10 years have passed, and the reading ability of primary six has changed from the wild age to the information age. Like everyone else, I used to buy a lot of books, and I often only read the beginning and then didn't finish it. In the past two years, I have specially strengthened the training of reading ability and learned many reading methods, such as fast reading, theme reading and intensive reading of classic books.
Reading is the most important source in the learning process, so it is necessary to improve reading ability. Read business books that are suitable for best-selling quickly, with clear structure. When reading, with a strong purpose, you can know which part can find the answer by previewing, reading the catalogue and reading the preface. Books should be read selectively in order to find answers. Practical books, as long as they can solve their own problems, even if they have completed the purpose of reading.
1) read quickly. In the past two years, a lot of new knowledge has been accelerated through a lot of fast reading (extensive reading). Because I am still a programmer in a third-tier city, my vision is narrow and I lack knowledge of communication and marketing. Fast reading tells Primary Six that there are many other ways of communication and new ideas to try in the world.
Once the field of vision is opened, the mind is also opened. The more books you read, the more you know about the running state of the world, and you will find that there are so many possibilities in the world. It is recommended to practice fast reading.
2) Theme reading. It is not enough to read a field systematically. The best way is subject reading, that is, reading all books of the same kind related to this subject. For example, put all the speed reading books on the market together to learn speed reading.
Theme reading will have a very "fierce" effect, and the reading volume will increase sharply. Generally, one theme is 10-20, which will be eliminated within one month. Methods of subject reading: first, learn to read quickly and know the general content of each book; Then, try to list the questions you are interested in; Finally, find the answers in these books respectively.
When you want to know a new field without a master, thematic reading is appropriate. For example, if you want to know about career planning, you can look at the introductory list of career planning recommended by classic teachers, and you can understand the system, branches and key knowledge points of career planning.
3) intensive reading. Fast reading has increased the amount of reading, and fast reading on topics has entered a field. However, to really deepen yourself in a field, you still need to read some classic books intensively. Intensive reading is a reading method highly recommended by teachers Li Xiaolai and Cai Tong.
The first method of intensive reading is migration, that is, when you read an important fragment and knowledge point, you can try to apply it to other fields. For example, teachers of copper mining often apply psychological knowledge to the field of study.
The second intensive reading method is traceability. The classic teacher mentioned the concepts of first-hand knowledge and second-hand knowledge in the APP. You can try to find out where the concepts and knowledge sources mentioned by the author are.
The third intensive reading method is two-way circulation. When Mr. Wang was learning English, he translated English into Chinese, and a month later, he translated it into English himself. Finally, by comparing with the original text, he can make a two-way link with the book, rather than a one-way passive acceptance.
About reading, you can open a training camp. Today, it's just a brick and a jade. After graduating from college, our reading ability needs to be retrained, and intensive reading, speed reading and theme reading all need to be learned from scratch. You can't read, and you want to succeed? The first ability to break the growth dilemma is reading ability.
Reading solves the source of information and knows a lot of knowledge, but it is useless without becoming your own ability. As the net name says: I have learned a lot, but I still have a bad time.
Some people will say that I have signed up for many training camps and subscribed to many official WeChat accounts, and I can't finish reading them every day. Xiao Liu's suggestion is to change from a fly-like learner to a hunter-like learner and be clear about what you want. For example, Xiaoliu pays attention to the field of learning and gets a lot of information from APP every day. Primary six only needs one or two pieces of information about the field of study.
People will automatically filter information according to their own areas of concern, which is called color gamut phenomenon in psychology. As long as people have a purpose and doubt, the subconscious will automatically help us filter information, just like a hunter looking for prey. So in the process of learning, you must pay attention to what you need most at the moment, and then your brain will extract the relevant content and focus it on your eyes.
When you establish a purposeful collection method, you want to open an inbox every day and collect information anytime and anywhere. Xiaoliu uses Evernote to put the information concerned in the process of WeChat, acquisition and reading into the cloud notes.
Then through re-classification, naming and labeling, the fragmented information is sorted out and put into cloud notes. Cloud Notes, which we also call "the second brain", is a private Google library. When writing an article about time management in the sixth grade, you can take out the core ideas, stories and pictures in the article of WeChat official account from the big time manager in the cloud notes as writing materials.
The fragmented information in cloud notes needs to be internalized into something useful and added with your own opinions. For example, the article of WeChat official account is deconstructed, and the pictures, stories and core ideas inside are like killing pigs. Viscera, skin, meat and bones are all ok.
After disassembling the materials, articles and books you read, put the core things in them for your own use, and then you can add your own opinions. For example, the classic teacher's article "What is the really important ability under the new professional coordinates" is based on the book "Brand-new Thinking: Six Abilities Win the Future", combining with their own understanding and opinions, absorbing and innovating.
When you see the article on WeChat official account, you must pay attention to the perspective. Seeing the little yellow duck, children, parents and engineers have different perspectives, so it is important to pay attention to the world from what angle. If you want to improve your knowledge internalization ability, you must transform yourself into an engineer's perspective, explore the internal structure, why you write like this, and add your own views.
After knowledge is internalized, it can only be transformed into ability through action. However, many people are not motivated and always find it difficult to act. We all know a lot of things that are useful to us, but often because you are unfamiliar with this matter, you can't take the first step. Li Xiaolai mentioned in Taking Time as a Friend: We humans have an instinctive resistance to new things. We hope to be encouraged rather than punished, because it is easy to make mistakes when trying new things.
Three suggestions on improving liquidity. The first is trial and error. Do new things, don't always think about right and wrong, you'd better try. For example, the plane made by the Wright brothers was a big kite at first. By slowly adding various parts, adding various states and adding automation means, the feat of making an airplane was completed. When Xiao Liu was in a third-tier city, he didn't know how to be a slash youth at first. Everything was just an attempt. Anyway, she has nothing to lose when she is wrong, because she has got nothing at all.
The second is not caring. When you start to act, you will conflict with your existing environment, and people around you will look at you with new eyes. For example, Xiao Liu in Zhenjiang gets up at four o'clock every day, and the people next to him say, "Xiao Liu, are you crazy?" Why don't you get up so early? Why can't you have a good sleep? " If these voices are suggestive criticisms, accept them; But if it is an accusation or a meaningless evaluation, just ignore it.
The third is micro-derailment. Try as much as you can, but don't give up right away. When you are interested in something, you can use the weekend time to do it, which will not affect you too much. For example, a friend of Xiao Liu's in Wuhan likes psychology, but works in an office, so he works in the psychological office for free on weekends to learn relevant knowledge.
In action, the most difficult thing is the first step. What prevents you from taking the first step is the psychological barrier. You can make a breakthrough in trial and error, indifference and micro-derailment. , so you can bear a little less pressure. Small steps and quick running can achieve the first breakthrough.
The reconstruction of knowledge is sharing and expression. Many people are moved and afraid to share. Xiao Liu's suggestion is to share it as soon as you start learning. For ordinary people, it is very popular for you to share something we don't know at all. You shared it wrong. No one knows.
In the past two years, Xiao * * * has made more than 200 sharing sessions and honed his experience. It also includes the experience of visiting, observing and learning in the sixth grade.
Be sure to pay attention to the purpose when sharing. Many times, the purpose of sharing is to solve other people's problems. Before sharing, you should assume that others don't know anything. For example, today's sharing is to let everyone know the seven abilities needed for personal growth and how to start.
Sharing should consider the benefits, that is, the coincidence of what you are good at and what others need. Consider whether you have satisfied their desire for this matter. I often ask myself, what's the use of this shared mind map, writing this article and drawing for others?
The third point of sharing is the process. For example, for food programs, first look at the appearance of the dishes, then demonstrate the steps, and finally dial the key elements. We can also follow this process when sharing.
The fourth point of sharing is content, that is, four core elements, viewpoints, diagrams, cases and theories.
First tell the audience what the point of view is, then explain it through graphic expression, then introduce one or two cases to tell the readers what it is, and finally summarize the theory. At least one or two elements can be considered in each PPT, and it is not necessary to have four elements in each PPT. Xiaoliujing often uses four elements: viewpoint, diagram, case and theory to check his sharing content, which is why Xiaoliujing often has dry goods.
Sharing is the most important part of personal growth and realization, so the fifth point of sharing is to improve service ability and exercise service ability. Open the door for business, and all the guests are here. Go to other people's training camps by yourself and always think about how others take care of and pay attention to you. We call ourselves slash youth night service workers. Xiao Liu gives readers questions and answers every day. What kind of problems can you solve and how much money others will thank you.
Practice is a process to build one's own core competitiveness and become an expert in sharing, becoming more and more professional. Practice ability is the ability to practice deliberately, including concentration, feedback, long time and comfort zone.
First, focus. Many people are in a state of learning anxiety, taking many courses at the same time, trying to learn a lot of knowledge in one month. It takes a lot of energy to switch between different learning topics and environments.
Second, feedback. You must find a good tutor, such as Ye Qiu and Qiu Shui. Mentors can find your problems and point out your shortcomings. You can place an order to make an appointment with a tutor in related fields and ask questions face to face, because people's suggestions are more systematic. You can also write your own reading homework and experience. @ Tutor's Weibo. You can also be your own tutor and have the ability to find problems yourself. The writing of Primary Six is self-taught through two years' study.
Third, the time is long. Don't worry, slow down, it takes a long time to form a habit. Xiaoliu has also held many 2 1 day training camps. 2 1 day can only let you know one thing, but you can't master one ability. 100 training camp may be better. Teacher Li Xiaolai advocates "seven years for life".
Becoming a domain expert requires long-term deliberate practice. Speed reading just allows you to quickly enter a field and understand a field. Mi Meng wrote in Douban for ten years before becoming famous. Luo Zhenyu, Li Xiaolai and Wan Weigang all worked hard in the fields of writing and content production for 10 years before they succeeded. Li Xiaolai's Take Time to Be Friends was written in 2009.
Fourth, get out of the comfort zone. Make yourself a little uncomfortable every day. After each sharing, Xiao Liu will send PPT to the students, forcing them to update the shared content and PP.
Learning ability needs the support of energy. If a person is unsuccessful in learning, the first reason is that there is a problem in the management of time and energy. Energy, like muscles and batteries, needs to be used sparingly. Personal energy should be saved and the most energetic time should be allocated to the most difficult tasks. Advocate getting up in the morning and finishing the most difficult things.
The second problem is that the time evaluation of the task is not accurate enough. The reason is that the task segmentation is not enough. You need to subdivide the task into subtasks, and then allocate time to subtasks.
The third problem is to make plans. Most people are good at planning, but they often can't stick to it ("annual planning phenomenon"). Because once the plan fails, you will completely deny yourself. Therefore, it is best to try a month's plan first to see if you can plan your monthly planning ability, then try a quarter's plan and finally try an annual plan. Primary six is currently in the quarterly planning stage, and the three-month plan will not be too big and can be handled well.
Many people believe that as long as they have the learning ability, time and ability, they can jump out of the predicament of personal growth and achieve success. In fact, strong ability is only one factor to solve the problem, and it also needs the factor of contacts. Interpersonal network is a very important factor in personal growth. There are three ways to improve your network.
First of all, thighs, big V, big coffee, big platform. If there is no traffic on the official WeChat account, you can write on it. Listening together is also a good platform. Dance on your lap, don't hug your thigh, but improve your value.
The second is a partner. Need to have a partner group with the same frequency and doing similar things. A person's ability is the average level of friends in his circle of friends. When writing, Primary Six punches in the group every day to discuss writing and time management.
The third is the partner. One person walks fast, and a group of people walk far. When making a personal brand, professional things should be done by professional people. For example, if the official WeChat account has to run, distribute and edit itself, there will be no time to write articles. You need someone to help you and let others do what you are doing. You need to be clear about what you do, subdivide what you need to do and what your partner needs to do.
The key point of networking is that you need to exchange value with your own ability, and networking is also formed in the process of value exchange. A young and active friend often hugs his thigh, but because of his weak ability, he is disgusted.
When you want to struggle, you should exchange your present efforts for what you want. The harder you work, the luckier you will be!
Finally, I recommend the book of Little Six Gods last year and the new book that will be listed soon this year!
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