Love is different from other relationships, only two people can be accommodated. In the emotional world, everyone is suspicious, you gave it to me, it is unique, and there is no one else except me. If what you give me is the same as others', then I'd rather not.
In most people's minds, it is always thought that only girls are petty, suspicious and jealous for no reason. When you mention this sentence, you can't help hanging up with women, but in fact, in the face of love, men and women are the same. Women are a little petty and selfish, and there is no doubt about boys. Even when men really fall in love with someone, they will be more petty than girls.
I hope that there will be two people who are "partial". I hope you can treat me very differently from others. I hope you can help me with some privileges and let me know that I am the unique person in your mind. Everyone who falls in love often does not believe in their feelings and hopes to find a sense of belonging in each other. The source of this sense of security actually lies in the "double standard".
From your side, I always have some kind of privilege, and all your good things are presented to myself. You look completely different to outsiders than to me. Only I know your little-known thoughts, because your preference will make me more willing to devote myself wholeheartedly. We have been weighing and haggling over love. Only after receiving all your kindness to me, do I gradually want to give my heart to you completely. In fact, women's double standards will make men love you more. 1 be reserved and dignified in front of outsiders, and be properly bad in front of him
Love needs some fun. If two people are too rigid in love, it will be quite boring to live as dull as water. Women who are "provocative" are more likely to be loved by men. If girls are as plain as a blank sheet of paper in front of boys, it is difficult to stimulate a man's interests.
Girls that boys really like are all a bit "double-standard". They like girls who are a little worse, but they are only bad to themselves, so they have to be as reserved as possible in front of outsiders. Why was Bai Liusu noticed by Fan Liuyuan in "Love in a Fallen City" was that two people danced a few dances in the dance floor and were interested in him, but he didn't like her going to the dance floor and would continue to be angry when he saw her dancing with other men.
Fan Liuyuan said: Ordinary boys like to teach women bad, but also like to influence green tea bitches to make her a good wife. I don't want to find a job like that. I think it's better to be a good wife. Bai Liusu can know its intention at once. Fan Liuyuan wants her to be a good woman in front of others and a green tea bitch in front of him. If Bai Liusu is a thoroughly good wife, Fan Liuyuan will never notice her?
In the final analysis, men are selfish. They don't like women being too reserved. A "bad" woman is easier to impress him, but this bad job is only for her. Women's double standards in getting along with each other will make men love you more. 2 be cold to others and be nice to him alone
The investment in emotions should be mutual. Under the premise of enjoying being cared for by men, women should also know how to invest and make him feel their care as much as possible, so that he can pay more attention to you. A person's energy is limited, so to give his limited warmth to the most precious person, others just need to be polite and polite, without paying more attention.
Many girls hate central air-conditioning heating at home. If a man is good to himself and all the girls around him, then such love is not credible. He would rather keep a complete distance from him than enjoy a fraction of it. The most important thing about emotions is to ensure that you don't want to be done by others. If you don't want to be a good man with others, don't treat others in this way.
what is the basic boundary between people and the opposite sex? I think everyone knows that you can get along with the opposite sex, but don't cross the border. There is no need for private care. You just have to pay attention to him and point out your concern to him. Women are as cold as possible to others and give their care and love to the other half, and he will certainly love you more. No matter how many standards exist in front of him, give him absolute privilege
Remember the classic conversation between San Mao and Jose? Jose: Do you have to marry a rich man? Sanmao: If everyone doesn't like it, the multimillionaire won't marry. Everyone likes it, and billionaires also marry. Jose: You still have to marry a rich man anyway. Sanmao: There are exceptions. Jose: What if you follow me? Sanmao: Then just eat enough and forget the money. Before I met him, there were many standards about the other half, but after I really met him, I found that love itself had no standards, as long as it was you and him, and other standards were just that.
when you get along with other people, a lot will remain the same. In her case, everything will be broken. Give him enough privileges, he will always be a green channel with exclusive VIP services, and he may also devote himself to himself because of your special care. Zhang Jia once said, "Love is thick because of differences". Love, it is better to be different. If it is the same for everyone, it is difficult to highlight the weight of the word love.
Love is mutual. If you treat me sincerely, I will never give up. If it is false, I won't invest a penny more in you. If you want a boy to love you more, the premise is that you are good enough for her to make him realize your affection for him, so that he wants to pay for himself sincerely. Don't underestimate the weight of "double standard". Only by treating her differently can you highlight her importance in your mind, and your love for him will certainly be grateful and rewarded.