It gave me the impression that you were "going through the motions" in this blind date to deceive your parents, and only the man on the blind date didn't know the inside story.

(1) At this moment, you need to find the blind date man and explain it clearly to him. Very sorry. Tell them that the old man didn't know that he was already in a relationship, so he went to meet her because he was helpless at the time. Please forgive me. This is one solution;

Another solution: stop seeing the blind date guy. Now that WeChat has been added, you can have direct voice conversations on WeChat. Tell him the truth and let him accept your sincere apology.

It is not advisable to completely ignore the blind date man. Very rude. He will take the approach of looking for your elderly family member. That would make solving the problem more difficult.

(2) Analyze that you are already in love. But it is not yet certain whether it will succeed. The relationship has not been finalized yet. In this state, you are helpless. If you don't go on a blind date, your parents will be dissatisfied. If you go on a blind date, there is a question you may not have thought of: What will your current love partner think of you? Would you think that you are "stepping in two different boats?"

(3) In fact, if you didn't go on a blind date in the first place and just told your elders directly, it would have taken less effort. A lot.

"I am already in a relationship. The reason why I haven't told you two yet is that it hasn't been finalized yet. If it is confirmed, there is no need to go on a blind date; if it is not confirmed, then go on a blind date. Is this good? ?”

The old man may also be eager to see your current boyfriend. You can tell the old man:

“After our relationship is settled, we will take him home immediately. Come and let the old couple see each other, and ask the old man to check it out. "But now that we have met on a blind date, we can only deal with it according to the current situation.

The matter has come to this, don’t complain about anything, the only way is to actively find a solution.

(4) After dealing with the matter of the blind date boy, I think you should directly tell the boy you are in love with about it.

Otherwise, if he finds out from other channels, he will be very unhappy. You explain the whole story directly and see if he is reasonable and understands; if he gets furious! Endless. This shows that this person is still very small-minded and does not care about things, which also shows a kind of character.

For the blind date man, the sooner this matter is resolved the better, otherwise the other party will feel that he has been "played" by the blind date girl and will be very dissatisfied.

The result of handling this matter is also a test of whether your own way of solving the problem is appropriate and satisfactory.

Solve it one by one, focusing on results.

(4) When I was working in a theater troupe (it happened in the 1960s), there was a stage crew member in the theater troupe. I called him Master G. His family came from the countryside; he met The incident of "blind date" in love:

He fell in love with an actress in the group. Less than a month later, the relationship has not been finalized yet. Normally it's fine, but the two of them had a disagreement over something and both said "break up". But the language used by men and women in love is not surprising either. The actress didn't take it seriously either.

As luck would have it, a telegram came from Master G’s home, saying that there was an emergency at home and asking him to go home immediately. At that time, Master G was also very anxious and asked for leave immediately to prepare to go home. At this time, the actress also heard that Master G received the telegram and immediately went to the street to buy some snacks and small gifts for Master G to take home. She came back from the street and went to the group to find out that Master G had already rushed to the train station. She hurried to the train station, but the train had already left and the actress could not catch it.

After Master G returned to his hometown in the countryside, he asked his mother what she had telegraphed to him. It turned out that an old man in his family had arranged a marriage for him, and the old couple were very satisfied. The engagement will be done tomorrow and we must seize the time to get married.

Master G is a filial son, so he has no choice but to proceed with the matter according to the old man's intention.

Half a month later, Master G returned to the group and distributed his wedding candies to everyone. Only at this moment did the actress realize that her "quarrel" with Master G had led to such a result. I cried with regret. This is how a good marriage ended.

In a few days, Master G went through the formalities of leaving the group and returned to his hometown in the countryside to live with his newlywed lover.

My purpose in telling this story is to explain that many things happen by chance and anything can happen. It is only reasonable to resolve conflicts as soon as possible and handle them properly.