It is a habit of me to listen to books at ten o'clock every night. If you don't hear it, you have to listen on time the next morning. Otherwise, I will feel insecure in my heart, perhaps because of my obsessive-compulsive disorder, or because I am afraid of missing that beautiful article.
I read two articles in recent days, which touched me a lot. Let's start with the first one, "I don't care about you." To tell the truth, I have listened to this article twice and read it three times, so I will read it several times for fear of missing the sentences that touch the heartstrings.
I used to be like a donkey. I always argue with people who can't speak or always want to get the upper hand. Even if you are flushed, you must fight for who is right and who is wrong. Finally, I hurt my feelings and lost my good mood. I can't do things calmly in my heart. It's really not worth thinking about now.
Why bother? Other people's ideas are different from their own. It doesn't matter. Just be yourself. What do you care?
Everything you do, even if you think it is perfect, will not be seen by others. There will always be one or two unreasonable places, because everyone's starting point is different, so they look at the problem from different angles. Just do things according to your heart. As for the rest, it really doesn't matter. There is no need to argue about who is right or wrong. There is no right or wrong at all, but everyone has a different starting point.
I saw a few profound words today.
One day, your edges and corners will be smoothed by the world, and you will no longer be sad and angry about a little thing, and you will no longer be angry about some little people. You will pull out your thorn, you will learn to smile at the person you hate, become calm, and you will become a quiet person.
Yes, simpler and happier.
Second, "Your life is not good, really not because you are poor."
People always say "they are not rich yet", and my husband is among these "some people".
I think that's it. What is lacking is not money. After all, the rich are a minority, and the people who lead their lives to poetry are the majority. I think it's because they are interesting people, and interesting people will be happier doing the same thing.
I used to be a lifeless and boring person. No matter how life is, I always feel that life is boring. Now I don't think life itself is boring, but I'm not interested in managing my life as I imagine.
My brother-in-law is a very interesting person. When chatting with him, he always smiles and tells his interesting ideas, so that everyone can feel the happiness brought by chatting in an interesting chat atmosphere. He made a tea ceremony at home and saw a little ceramic monk at the tea ceremony. He poured water on him, and soon it would flow to him. He drank his tea slowly and hummed a tune there. I can't help being infected by his interest, and I think this interesting person must be happy.
Of course, he also decorated his home to his liking. Every potted flower and every small fish is taken care of by himself. He feels that his life is comfortable and comfortable, so it is beautiful.
To be an interesting person, I start with a small thing. When I got up and washed my face this morning, I played dynamic music on my mobile phone. I'm brushing my teeth and twisting my ass to the rhythm of the music. I'm so happy. I suddenly feel like a small universe about to explode, full of energy, waiting for the explosion.
It turns out that it is not difficult to be an interesting person. As long as your mind is interesting, you are an interesting person.
Perhaps, the article is not too profound, but the heart is really touched.
From today on, I will try to be a simple and interesting person, manage my life well and become what I expect. That's really beautiful.