The ability to understand your emotions.
Sometimes it is necessary for children to experience the sense of loss, frustration, frustration caused by misunderstanding, tension and sadness caused by misunderstanding. For example, if a child does something wrong, he is very sad and scared. We don't need to react immediately. It won't hurt him to lie in bed and cry for a while. Next, I will carefully understand his emotions with my children and recognize his emotions.
The ability to control emotions
Be the master of emotions, not be controlled by them. When children do something wrong, we allow them to justify, cry and even vent their dissatisfaction while criticizing. Guide children to express their anger appropriately.
Interpersonal relationship management
Meng Mu moved three times. Children need friends, but when people gather firewood, the flames are high. Children will eventually live in a large social group, which needs to cultivate their abilities in friendship, cooperation, courtesy and self-esteem.
Ability to understand other people's emotions.
We show happiness, sadness, disappointment, anger, depression, depression and so on. So that we can secretly see a family with many emotions, rather than a simple family with laughter. It helps children to correctly understand emotions, let them observe other people's emotional changes, and grow into a person with high emotional intelligence.
Defeat resistance
Therefore, we should dare to let children face failure, let children grow up in constant failure and stand the test of failure. After all, failure is the mother of success.