Method 1: Adjust the mentality.
1, proud of your major. Have confidence, in other words, have confidence. If you wear new clothes or have a new haircut, but you are worried that it will look funny, then everything will be exposed. Similarly, if you are not confident in your appearance and speech, others will question you. Whatever you do, just do it. If you want to see a movie or go to a fashion clothing store, don't look around and be timid. Don't ask others whether they approve, let alone whether they are "ok".
Don't spend too much time looking in the mirror to check your appearance, and don't ask your friends if their new shoes are tacky. Look in the mirror, tell yourself it's great, and then come out confidently.
Stand up straight and walk with your head held high, instead of looking listless. When walking, look ahead, don't look down at the floor, let others think you are happy and confident.
2. Have your own personality. It is not a sign of self-confidence to blindly follow the crowd and imitate your idol. Although role models will help you, it is necessary for you to add some personality elements to your words, deeds, styles and habits. Find your own unique elements, make them your labels, and be yourself. Here are some ways to show your personality: As a girl, you may like to dress in urban style, but sometimes you also like to wear a pigtail on your head.
Perhaps, you are the only boy in school who can make neon shoes look cool.
Maybe, you can give old Zan a good time.
Maybe, you can always smile (no matter what happens).
3. Don't be annoying. Maybe you'll think that being emboldened means making yourself cool, making more people around you and attracting your attention. You may also belittle others to highlight how cool you are. However, on the contrary, what you need to do is to calm everyone down. This doesn't mean that you have to be everyone's best friend, or that you have to spend a lot of time flattering others-on the contrary, people associate with you because you are not hypocritical, annoying or jealous.
You may think that belittling others can raise yourself. But in fact, this will only make people think how unreliable you are.
If all the friends around you hate you, then you need to re-examine yourself or make some new friends.
4. associate with people who can make you progress. This is not to say that you need to kiss their ass to make you popular. It means that you need to associate with those confident people, learn some skills from them, and finally learn what real oil confidence and self-confidence are. Some so-called "best friends" are with you, maybe just because you are too nice, or you have been together for a long time, but they can't give you much. In that case, it is only a matter of time and interest to alienate each other.
If you know some people are confident, but you don't know them very well, then don't worry, take your time. Don't mix with them in a hurry, or they will think you are an apple polisher.
5. Get inspiration from role models. Find some people you admire and let them guide you to the road of self-confidence. They are not necessarily the coolest people, but they must inspire you. For example, they can inspire you to pursue your dreams boldly and make you more patient by going up a flight of stairs. Here are some examples that can inspire you: a family member. Do you want to be as humorous as your mother? Do you worship your grandmother (to make everyone feel warm)? Do you respect your brother's professional ethics? Try your best to improve your quality.
Favorite musician. Do you like Maria, Carney and Lady Gaga? Or do you like retro artists (such as Mick? Jagger and Otis? Reading)? No matter who your favorite artist is, see what you can learn from them besides their musical talent-you may learn to be more independent, learn to be interesting, or just learn their walking style.
Favorite athlete. You can get it from LeBron. James and Serena. Williams Derek. Kit or Coco? What did crisp learn (that he couldn't learn at school)? Look at the performance of these athletes on and off the court, and find some qualities worthy of your admiration from them.
Favorite public figure. Do you worship Obama, Davis, Snoopy (actors in the movie Jersey Shore) and Bill Burr (comedian)? No matter who you like, you should find the qualities you like from them and try to realize them.
People in social circles find an example in your circle of friends or community that can teach you how to be a person.
6. Don't care what others think. If you really want to be confident, then you should do what you like and don't care about other people's comments (as long as you don't offend or hurt others). You can wear your favorite clothes and say whatever you want, instead of catering to the public. If you are infatuated with someone and always please them, you will never get their respect.
If others make fun of your clothes or other things you like, don't be discouraged. If you give up because you are bullied, then you really give in. So, put on your favorite clothes and act more confident.
You can ask people you care about for advice, but never ask your friends for advice on everything (especially small things).
7. Be an independent person. A truly confident person feels the same with his friends as when he is alone. If you are really a confident person, then you face things more alone than with your friends (maybe you just don't want your friends to forget or ignore you). To be an independent person, you must have your own interests, goals and dreams. Although it's great to be with friends, don't patronize social activities. Set aside some time for yourself to pursue your dreams and cultivate your interests (such as composing music, reading books and fitness).
Independent thinking is part of becoming an independent person. Dare to put forward your own ideas instead of blindly agreeing with your friends' views (even if it is only to avoid conflicts).
If your friends invite you out to play, but you have your own things to do, then you can do yours. If they really understand you (have their own goals and pursuits), they will respect your decision.
Method 2: How can boys have confidence?
1, correct body language. The most important thing is to hold your head high. When you walk, don't always look down at the floor unless you are looking for something. If you want a "confident pace", when you walk, try to widen your steps a little and swing your arms rhythmically. Be careful not to put your arms higher than your chest, otherwise it will look awkward. Smile more. Smiling doesn't mean you're not cool (smiling can also make you cool).
When communicating with others, look at each other (eye contact). Be careful, don't look too serious, don't make it seem like something important. The purpose of looking at each other is to make them feel that we are paying attention to him.
Step 2 dress appropriately. Accessories are more important than clothes for boys. All you have to do is put on a comfortable shirt, sweater, sweatshirt or other coat that looks comfortable. As for pants, you can wear loose ball pants, sweatpants or loose jeans. You may like loose trouser legs because you think they look confident. But girls don't like it. So do it yourself.
Don't wear v-neck clothes if you can. Because this dress is too traditional.
Be bold and put on a denim vest and striped sweater. If you are nostalgic and melancholy, you can try some retro-style clothes.
If you want to make your clothes more exquisite, you can try fashionable button-down clothes.
Pants can be loose, but not too loose, which will make you decadent.
A white T-shirt can go with any clothes.
Put on a suit jacket with a white button-down shirt and a pair of jeans. You don't need to show off that beautiful suit and coat everywhere.
3. Put on the right shoes. If you want to be confident, you must put on the right shoes. For boys, the most common thing is sneakers unless you need to dress up. Of course, if you are bold enough, you can put on a pair of cool sneakers when you dress up. The following brands of sports shoes are basically versatile: Jordans series.
Affini? Penny hard power (penny hard power)
Scottie Pippins (scottie Pippins)
Kevin garnett series
Ken Griffith Jr
Chuck series (chuck)
Nike Foamposites series and space shoes series.
Nike running shoes (Air Max) (95s and 97s)
Nike Air Force Series (Air Force)
Van series (van)
Super high-rise (super high-rise)
Osiris skates
Air Walk Series (Air Walk)
4. Accessories. For boys, some key accessories can make ordinary clothes look different. You don't have to bring many accessories, but you must choose them carefully (whether they are cool sunglasses or dazzling caps), and then introduce some suitable accessories: black rimless glasses or shutter glasses.
A gold watch
So baseball caps
Lapland people
By Mitchell and Ness, Zephyr, American Needle, New Age and the Last King Rugby Hat.
If you have money, order a belt, such as Hermes, Gucci, Fendi or Louis Vuitton.
Dog tag or leash
Method 3: How can girls have confidence?
1, correct body language. For girls, you must have a good figure to make people feel that you are satisfied with your appearance. When walking, hold your head up and chest out, shoulder-width apart, and your chest is slightly stiff. Stand up straight and confident, don't be listless. When talking to people, look at them with a smile (eye contact) and don't worry about gentle touching. Don't hesitate when you enter the room. Even if you are not sure, you should act confident.
Don't always fiddle with your ornaments, zippers and your hands, or you will appear nervous and unsafe.
2. Put on a fashionable coat. As long as you look good, any shirt will be cool on you. Whether you want to wear tight or loose, whether you want to wear a vest, a navel dress, a patterned shirt or a halter top, just wear it. Try to make these tops boost your confidence: sweaters. Put on a sweater with your favorite team logo. If you want a nostalgic style, you can wear a sweater with your primary or secondary school logo on it. Just because they are out of date, they have gone up again ~
T-shirts, whether loose, tight, patterned or logo, look cool. You can even wear a navel shirt with baggy pants. Shirts can also be printed with famous trademarks, such as Adidas and Andema.
Halter top If you are brave, you can wear halter top, suspender or even tube top tight vest. The halter top looks good with the coat ~
A gold or silver jacket. The more pockets and zippers, the better.
Lightman jacket, even after wearing 10 years, this jacket is still cool.
Wear a sweatshirt. Wear a sweatshirt with your favorite basketball player's last name printed on the back. For old-fashioned people, Shaq? Shaq or Jordan's jerseys are good choices. You can also pair it with a pair of leggings.
3. Wear fashionable pants or shorts. As long as you have the right attitude, any pair of pants can enhance your overall image. As long as you are proud, whether it is basketball shorts or multi-bag pants, it looks good on you. If you are wearing tight pants, you can wear a loose shirt; If you wear loose pants, it may be better to wear a tight coat. Try these types of pants or shorts: boxer shorts, loose basketball shorts or beach pants.
Loose sweaters, loose sweatpants or low crotch pants.
Skinny jeans, leggings or denim leggings
Any clothes printed with animal patterns or any lively clothes.
4. Put on the right shoes. If you want to have girlish self-confidence, you can buy some fashionable shoes or sneakers, and even buy some lady-like high heels. You can use shoes as the highlight of the whole dress, or you can just use shoelace knots as a foil. Here are some different styles of shoes for you to choose from: sports shoes, such as Jordan, Vance, Sapula, Nike, Adidas and so on.
Black and white converse shoes
Gold, silver or black high heels.
Simple rainbows or other sandals.
Ballet flats
Birken Stokes (Birckenstocks)
Kaluochi leisure shoes (Crocks)
5. Accessories. You can decide whether to wear all kinds of accessories, or just wear a pair of earrings or a hat to embellish your dress. There are many accessories that can match your clothes, so you can choose them at will. You can try the following: bracelet, bracelet or detachable bracelet.
Gold earrings, silver earrings or necklaces
Decorative chain
ring
Classic ring
Masonry earrings or nose rings
Team hat or street hat
handkerchief
Extra large rimless glasses
6. Fashionable makeup and hairstyle. I don't have to wear five layers of makeup or imitate Rihanna's latest hairstyle, so I'm not really confident. You just need to dress yourself up according to your own preferences and pay more attention to your appearance. You can try these: put on makeup that makes you comfortable. If you like makeup very much, you can make it as you like, even if it doesn't suit you, it's cool.
Put on a little lipstick or lipstick.
Draw a smoky makeup with black eyeliner and eye shadow.
Change your hair style often. Dye bright hair once in a while, such as purple or green; Why don't you try Miley? Cyrus has short hair, or shoulder-length hair.
Tip: When you are confident, just be yourself and be happy. Of course, don't do anything that hurts your confidence. Some things are completely harmless. If you are shy, please cheer up-have some confidence! !