My son was bullied by his classmates when he was a freshman in high school. I asked the school teacher to deal with it, but it didn’t work. I also talked to the other student’s parents, but it didn’t work. Later, when I saw that my son was less and less interested in going to school and that his son was physically and mentally injured, I took a cruel approach. His parents took the initiative to come to me, and even the school teachers came to intercede.

Don’t get me wrong, I didn’t fight violence with violence, that was definitely what a powerful person would do.

Initially, I will place my hope on the school and teachers, hoping that they can fulfill their responsibilities as campus management and protect the safety of my son. But in fact, the feedback given to me by the school and teachers was "take care of it, but when we don't see it, there is nothing we can do." Should bullies be allowed to bully people in front of teachers?

Later, I communicated with the parents of the other student. I hope parents can face up to the problem, fulfill their responsibilities as parents, and stop letting their children bully my children. But the other party was very tyrannical, "Did it break it? Go to the hospital, we can afford the medical expenses!"

In this case, don't blame me for being ruthless.

I can't beat my son with violence, but I can at least make you take responsibility for your actions. My son and I agreed, divided our responsibilities, and staged a fishing law enforcement act. First of all, I brought a lot of money to my son to go to school and asked him to "hire" some classmates to protect him; at the same time, I gave my son a portable video camera to wear on his body at all times to keep as evidence when his son is bullied; finally, inquire Find out the age of the other person’s child and call the police after he turns 16!

Yes, I am waiting for the other party to call the police after he reaches 16 years old and submit a series of previous evidence. I want him to take responsibility for his actions and leave a criminal record! The parents of the other party came to me to beg me, and the school teachers also came to plead with me. I said: It’s because you don’t educate, and we will educate you!

There is nothing to be afraid of when your child is bullied. I will teach you a trick that will ensure that the other parent will kneel down and beg for mercy.

Nowadays, the problem of campus bullying has risen to the level of law, so using legal weapons to protect your children is the best way. I will share the specific method with you, but try it and it will be very effective.

If your child comes home and tells you that he was bullied by a senior classmate or a socially delinquent teenager, as a parent, you must deal with it calmly and never be impulsive or even deliberately hurt others in order to avenge your child.

What you need to do is to let your child go to school normally, and bring a mobile phone with you. You must secretly protect your child during school and after school for a period of time. If you see your child being bullied, don’t rush to the first place. When you rush forward, be sure to take photos of the process with your mobile phone as evidence.

Then immediately step forward to stop it and call 110 to call the police. When the police arrive and face this situation, they will often criticize the other parent and then allow both parties to negotiate a solution. Aren’t the parents of the other party very arrogant? At this time, you can tell the police that you do not choose to settle the matter and do not accept mediation, so you must go through legal procedures.

The bullying behavior of the other party's children is considered to be provoking quarrels and provoking troubles. Within the scope of the law, provoking quarrels and provoking troubles must be punished. Children over the age of 16 will be held criminally responsible, and children under the age of 16 will be held accountable for public security. If you pursue the case, this bullying bad boy will definitely get into trouble and leave a record of bad deeds and criminal violations. If a person has this record, he may be severely affected throughout his life, including applying for civil servants, joining the army, and going abroad. Influence.

It would be unreasonable for the other parent to remain indifferent at this time. The initiative at this time is completely in your hands, and it depends on your mood. But one thing is for sure, the matter of your child being bullied will definitely be resolved. That bad boy will definitely not dare to bully your child again, and he might be beaten half to death by his own father when he returns home.

Of course, methods are dead, and people are flexible. When these things happen in schools, parents must find out in time and report them to the school teachers and principals. The 2020 "Minor Protection Law" has already New rules for school bullying.

Taking up legal weapons to protect your children is one of the most important tools that contemporary parents need to master.

It’s simple inside and outside the school. A thousand dollars is put on the child and it falls out when he is beaten. I’ll find a lawyer and check the evidence. If the child has money, he will definitely buy toys like crazy.

Then I took my lawyer to him to get married. I first returned a thousand dollars and then watched him show how to raise his son.

Robbery is a serious crime, and it is difficult to get rid of it. The lightest punishment is to go to a special school for forced labor.

In school, teach children to shout for help. It would be best to call the principal to ensure it is effective.

A group of young people who are hanging out in society go to block a school student every day. The parents and the school call the police, but they do not take action when the police come. The next day, the parents went to pick up their children at the school gate. The young men were standing at the school gate. The parents went over to discuss with them. The young men cursed and uttered arrogant words, and the parents had no choice but to walk away.

Suddenly, several big men rushed over from across the road, holding iron bars and beating several young people severely. Five of them had their hands and feet broken, and two of them had their hamstrings broken.

The police came to the scene and suspected that the parents of the students were instigators. However, the parents had no contact with the attackers throughout the whole process, and the parents said that they did not know them and did not know why these people beat people. In the end, nothing was done, and the school has been in the school ever since. It was clean in front of the door.

First of all, children must be taught to protect themselves and promptly feedback the situation to their parents and teachers. If the children cannot solve the problem on their own, parents and teachers need to intervene. If the other party still refuses to restrain himself, or even the parents become domineering, it doesn't matter. We are a society governed by the rule of law. It is time to be exposed and the police should be called. The country still attaches great importance to the issue of school bullying. Do not take extreme measures. That will hurt both sides. This approach is not advisable, you must believe in the law.

I also tell my children directly that they cannot bully others, but they must beat back those who bully others. If they cannot win, they must find a way. If they are injured, they should receive medical treatment. I'll pay for it.

There are indeed such parents in reality, and the school teachers can’t do anything about it. It’s really annoying! There is a boy in our class who has poor academic performance and is very naughty. He often bullies other classmates, but he cannot be expelled at this age. He has invited parents many times, but he did not expect that the parents are more rogue than the children. Moreover, this parent seems to be quite connected, and even the principal gave him three points. Especially domineering! Now I have moved him to a corner, and as long as it does not affect other people, I will basically give him up!

There is a saying that goes well: "Teacher is a child's first teacher." This is indeed the case. I discovered a very common rule in school. The more obedient and well-achieved students are, the higher the quality of their parents will be. The more disruptive students are in class and bully other students, the worse the parents are! So what should you do if your child is bullied in the future and the other parent does not apologize but is still very domineering?

If my child was bullied at school, and the teacher notified the parents to come, and the other parent was extremely overbearing, I would be very sensible and smile and say forgive, because after all, I can't cause trouble for the teacher. Then when I go home, I will teach my children that in this cruel society, you must learn to protect yourself. Now that you are still in school, it will be even scarier to step into society in the future, so you cannot be too weak. We don't look for trouble in school, but we must not be afraid of trouble. If someone bullies you again, you must learn to fight back! We are all children of the same age, and I support you in fighting to protect yourself. I'll bear the consequences for you! I personally think it should be like this. We cannot always educate children to escape, and we must not let children be too cowardly. Especially boys!

First: Our country is now a legal society. Although children fight among themselves, they can still protect their rights through legal means. If a child has an injury or the skin is scratched, parents must remember to take the child to the hospital for an examination as soon as possible, which can also be said to be a disability certificate. The child is too young to bear legal responsibility, but his guardian must pay for his child's actions. Don't be afraid of overbearing parents. As long as you have proof of disability, find a lawyer to sue as soon as possible. Never ask for private chats. The parents will definitely take responsibility for their overbearing behavior.

Second: In addition, for some overbearing and unreasonable parents, we can go directly to the school principal and ask the principal to help us ask for an explanation. In this case, the principal will definitely reflect.

In fact, in real life, teachers also hate overbearing parents. It doesn't matter much at first. The parents' arrogant behavior also makes it difficult for teachers to carry out their work. Gradually, teachers will become resistant to the student. Although students cannot be expelled, if the teacher gives up on a child, it is basically the same as expulsion. Therefore, I would like to advise all parents, if your child is wrong, try to have a better attitude and apologize to the other party and the teacher on behalf of the child. Strive to reduce big things to small things and turn small things into small things.

In fact, bullying incidents on campuses in our country are still rare. After all, relevant departments pay special attention to this aspect. In addition, parents' "love for their children" mentality only appears occasionally. Under normal circumstances, if their children make mistakes and bully other students, parents will apologize immediately. There won't be too many complicated things below.

It is normal for children to sometimes have conflicts and conflicts among themselves. Parents should not be too excited. Each of us parents loves his or her children and should not be unreasonable. Under the supervision of the teacher, try not to make things a big deal. This will be helpful for schools and children’s future studies.

When I was in junior high school, due to the loose management of the school, many students would choose to fight outside school on Sundays. The students at that time didn't know why. They felt that they were young and frivolous and fearless. School bullying is really serious and common.

But it is estimated that such bullying incidents are rare now. After all, school management is relatively strict now. There will be security and public police patrols near the school. It is also recommended that all students, if you really encounter this situation, do not be afraid, shout loudly, and choose to call the police as soon as possible. Now you are legally responsible if you are over 14 years old. If the child is under 14 years old and has a bad nature, he can also be sent to a juvenile education center for education.

Campus bullying has always been a topic of common concern to all of us, and we hope that schools will conduct more education in this area. When it comes to school bullying, the parents at fault are quite overbearing. Do you have any good ideas for this? Welcome to leave a message below and let’s discuss it together!

Behind all the naughty children are bears

If the other parent does not pay attention to the school and teachers, completely allows his child to bully his classmates, and wants to get rid of him There is only one way: transfer your children to another school and let them know that they should stay away from scum, because God will take care of bad people.

Let me tell you a true story that I have witnessed in my nearly 30 years of teaching. It is the true story that best verifies "karma".

I remember that in the first few years of my career, I taught in the second grade of junior high school. There was a boy in the class who loved to make trouble. He never sat down properly and always stretched his legs towards the corridor. Lean your body against the wall, or lean on the desk of the classmate behind you. The space in his seat is also very large, because in class he is either tugging on those in front, or flirting with those behind or next to him. Everyone can't afford to mess with him and can't hide from him. But these are all trivial matters, and they can be considered ADHD, and they can be considered ordinary conflicts with classmates. I was not the teacher of his class at the time, so as long as he did not seriously disrupt the class, I would not pay much attention to him.

Later, he caused a big trouble. He gathered several gangsters from outside the school to beat him up and beat his classmates many times. He was asked to invite parents to the school to assist in education. Originally, this matter had nothing to do with me, but when his parents came, I happened to be in class. I was giving a lecture when I saw his father's face was red and full of flesh, he was shaking his body, standing with his hands on his hips towards the door, and shouted to me: "Call *** out!" Before I could react, he A woman, the mother of the child, appeared behind her and whispered to her husband: "The teacher is still in class, please keep your voice down!" The husband seemed to react after hearing this, and hugged his fists and said: "Excuse me, excuse me! Teacher, please Come on!" I didn't know whether to laugh or cry, so I had to walk to the door to tell him that the child was not in the classroom. Before I got close, I smelled a strong smell of alcohol on his body, and I realized that the reason why he was blushing and having a thick neck was because he was drunk.

His wife explained that he started drinking at noon, had a little too much, and came over right after drinking. It was already past four o'clock in the afternoon, which meant that the parent had just been drinking for three or four hours, and then he was smelling of alcohol.

I saw something was wrong, so I didn't dare to say anything more. I just said one sentence: "The Political and Religious Affairs Department is dealing with your child's beating. Where is your child?" Unexpectedly, this sentence was like poking a hornet's nest. This father Suddenly he raised his finger and pointed at my nose and said, "Who said my son hit someone? Who saw it? Did you see it?" I was stunned for two seconds and responded almost instinctively: "The ones who were beaten were classmates in the same class, several of them. All the classmates saw it, and he himself admitted it."

What happened next was a real-life version of "a scholar meets a soldier, and he can't explain why" because he refused no matter what you said. Admitting the strategy, even his son finally changed his story and said he didn't hit anyone. There is no way to deal with this matter. The teacher can only persuade the parents who were beaten and let the matter go. Because this parent was not an ordinary person. At that time, he was a big gangster in the area where the school was located, the leader of the underworld, and no one could offend him. After this incident, his son became even more arrogant in the class. Teachers and classmates all looked down upon him, and no one dared to control him anymore.

Later, about four or five years later, I accidentally saw a piece of news in the newspaper, saying that someone was beaten to death in a fight. The name looked familiar to me. When I talked with my colleagues, it turned out that That's the student with a domineering father. Later, I heard that his brother was also dead. He was stabbed many times by someone looking for revenge while walking, and his death was similar to his.

Don’t fight with scum, the farther away the better. If the school cannot control it, the police will take care of it in the future; if the police cannot control it, God will take care of it sooner or later. Parents will ultimately suffer the consequences.

I was bullied in junior high school. I had just transferred to another school and offended a certain girl (I only found out about this after I started working). She called her a "social gangster" and a dozen or so people often blocked me during self-study in the evening and frightened me. Later, in order to avoid disaster, I handed over dozens of New Year's money, and I paid it several times one after another. Later, my family found out and gave me a few hundred yuan. Let me take it. If you block me again, let them see the money but don't give it to them. Sure enough, they snatched it from my pocket. Then my family called the police and told me that they must have bitten me to death because they beat me and took the money from my pocket, which I did not take the initiative to give. Then I went to record a confession, which spanned many pages and repeatedly printed key words with my fingerprints. Then I never saw this group of people again... After working, I heard from a classmate that they were detained or re-education through labor because the main offender had been a recidivist for three years. The female classmate was expelled and now works in a bar.