Chinese people continue to believe in a radical and euphemistic personality. Even marriage matters are nothing more than "the orders of parents and the words of matchmakers." With the development and progress of today's society, the radical and feudal ideas of the past have gradually been eliminated, and people's love has become free and open. But this is only compared to the past. If you look around the world, love in China is still radical. For example, in our "neighbor" South Korea, there is a couple that surprises the Chinese people. The man is 25 years old and the woman is 42 years old. They are a perfect combination of aunt and student.
The plastic surgery industry in South Korea is very prosperous, and Koreans, especially Korean women, have very strict requirements on appearance. Many students will book plastic surgery on the eve of the college entrance examination so that they can change themselves as soon as possible after the exam. In addition to becoming beautiful through surgery, exercising is also one of the ways to become beautiful, and the gym will appear accordingly. Its purpose is to provide people with a good environment to exercise. Each gym will have professional coaches to guide and teach. This teenage love happened in a gym.
Jin Xiyuan is now a 42-year-old woman. She is a regular gym user. In order to maintain the lines of her skin and muscles and prevent them from becoming sagging, she must have strict self-discipline. She frequented the gym and quickly became involved with the coaches there. Everyone knew Jin Xiyuan and would greet her warmly. Here, there is a young coach, 25 years old, with good looks and beautiful muscles and lines, exuding the aura of hormones wherever he goes.
Jin Xiyuan and the coach got to know each other while learning fitness moves and exchanging fitness experiences on a daily basis. Gradually, Jin Xiyuan discovered that something was wrong with him. He felt that it was something very strange. You couldn't put it in words, but you could feel it. Jin Xiyuan clearly knew that he was attracted by the coach and couldn't help himself. On the other hand, the coach also felt that he had a special focus on this student that was different from other students. Although he knew that Jin Xiyuan was 42 years old, the aura exuded by this mature woman was very unusual and full of intellectuality. and docility.
In addition to temperament, Kim Hee-won’s appearance also has to be talked about. Due to her long-term fitness habit, even though she is 42 years old, her body and appearance are still attractive. Just like many girls like uncles, young guys often can't resist a big sister who understands you. Since then, Jin Xiyuan has increased the number of times she goes to the gym every week. Now, in addition to exercising, she also has another purpose - to see a coach. The coach also took the initiative to stick with Jin Xiyuan in a tacit understanding, creating chat opportunities as much as possible. At the same time, he intentionally or unintentionally said something about the parents' shortcomings, and revealed some of his own interests, hobbies, and outlook on life. Generally speaking, the two people should have successfully joined hands at this time, but Jin Xiyuan also knew that her age was no longer suitable for love. Although her heart was already burning, she tried not to show it, hoping to find a suitable opportunity.
Similarly, the coach is also somewhat restrained by the world. Although the two of them talk and laugh freely on the outside, they are actually very entangled in their hearts. Once a person makes a certain decision or has a certain idea, unless the decision or idea is terminated, no matter what you do, your consciousness will continue to be affected by this decision or idea. Jin Xiyuan gradually couldn't stand it anymore, and she decided to take the initiative. As her sister, she must take on this responsibility, and the biggest problem between the two people is age, so this topic must be clarified by herself.
So, Jin Xiyuan found an opportunity to express his feelings to his coach. This time, the two finally no longer had to hide their secrets. They opened their hearts and talked happily. After that, the two finally changed from friends to lovers and began to officially date. Because the two people had feelings for each other before, after the only window paper was pierced, the love process became very smooth.
After a period of passionate love, the siblings put marriage on the agenda, but a new problem also emerged: although this love has been recognized by each other, the parents have not yet go through.
On the one hand, Jin Xiyuan's parents are happy that their girl has finally found her right husband, but on the other hand, they are also worried about whether it would be inappropriate for a 25-year-old young man to marry a 42-year-old girl. The coach's parents can't bear it. Even though Jin Xiyuan's appearance and body are very good, no matter how old she is, she is still not as good as a 20-year-old girl no matter how well she takes care of herself. Moreover, 25 years old is a romantic age for men. Can this love last? In order to reassure their parents, the two began to do ideological work for their parents, but their painstaking efforts failed to make their parents waver at all.
So, for the sake of each other's love, the two decided to fight to the death. They firmly told their parents that the other person was the best person to accompany them for the rest of their lives and they must agree. As a Western-style country, South Korea's people's thoughts are also relatively Westernized. This kind of disrespectful behavior in our eyes is normal in their eyes. Therefore, the two parents had to nod and give the two a chance. Although the parents of each family have not fully accepted it, at least they no longer hate it, so Jin Xiyuan and her little boyfriend began to visit each other constantly, proving by their actions that they can shoulder the responsibility of this love.
Finally, this difficult love finally came to fruition. The two got married successfully, and Jin Xiyuan also successfully became pregnant with twins. Thanks to her good fitness habits, even an older mother was able to get pregnant smoothly. Consumed. At this point, the two people have known each other, fallen in love, and then have the fruit of love. This process is arduous but wonderful. I believe that the two people can stay together for the rest of their lives. A 42-year-old aunt is married to a 25-year-old boy. Maybe to outsiders, they are two guys who are ignorant of the world and mess around at will, but to both parties in the relationship, it doesn't matter. No matter what the other person's age is, just like them. Like it, it is the most cost-effective thing in the world.
Although we are born to be restricted by the rules and regulations of the social environment, the right to pursue love is always in our own hands. One of the main reasons why humans can be the spirit of all things is that humans become brave for love. If you meet the most wonderful person at the most wonderful age, please don't miss it; if not, please still love life, maybe you will see someone waiting for you at the next stop.