〖Introduction〗 This classic comes from "The Book of Songs? "Xiaoya Xiangmo" Biography", also see "Confucius Family Sayings". Legend has it that there was a man in Lu. One stormy night, a neighbor's widow had her house wall damaged by the storm. She asked to take shelter in the man's home. The man was afraid that he could not control his desire, so he refused to accept the request. The widow asked her: "Why don't you learn from Liu Xiahui?" He said: "I can't compare to Liu Xiahui!"

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? ① Lu people: Unknown name . Lu was a vassal state of the Zhou Dynasty during the Spring and Autumn Period. Solitude: Living alone. This refers to a man who lives alone without a wife. Room: house. Widow: Widow.嫠, sound li.

②Broken: broken, collapsed. Trend: Go. Duozhi: This refers to shelter from wind and rain. Close the door: close the door, close the door. Not accepted: If you don’t accept it, you are not allowed to enter the house.

③牖: window. Leisure: This refers to sexual behavior. Not living idle means not losing the ability to have sex. Xian, the same as "idle."

④ Zi: You. Young: This refers to young and strong.

⑤If: study. Ran: Like that. A woman who has no home for her husband: a woman who has no place to stay in her arms. The pronunciation of "妦" is the same as "妦volt", which means "妦volt", which means the bird hatches its eggs. This refers to the embrace. A girl who doesn't have a place to live refers to a poor girl who has no place to stay. Luan: fornication.

⑥Gu: Must, inevitable.

〖Explanation〗The man from the state of Lu was an upright man. A woman asked for shelter at night, but he refused to accept her. Common usages in later poems include "Lu men refuse sex", "Lu men abstain from sexual intercourse", "Lu men close their households", "Lu men close their households" and "Lu men close their households" are all derived from this. It refers to the fact that a Lu man refused a woman's request for lodging at night behind closed doors. It is quoted in the poem to refer to the man's noble virtue and his refusal to approach women; the words "Lu man'er", "Lu man" and "Lu man" are also commonly used in the poem. "Guo man" These allusions refer to this Lu man who shuts himself up and refuses to accept women who want to stay. They are quoted in poems and refer to men who are upright and refuse to approach women; they also refer to "the concubine in the arms of a Lu man". "This allusion refers to the woman in the arms of a man from the state of Lu. Because the men from the state of Lu have an upright style, even though they hold a woman in their arms for the night, they do not have any evil thoughts. Therefore, many quotations in poems refer to the fact that they are loved by men. But the woman has never lost her virginity; and the Lu man firmly believed that he did not have as strong a will as Liu Xiahui, so he turned the woman away, claiming, "I will learn what Liu Xiahui can do, and I will learn what Liu Xiahui can do." The two common allusions "It is impossible for me to do it, it is possible to learn from Liu Xiahui" and "It is impossible to do it for Lu men, it is possible to imitate Liu Xiahui". These two allusions come from this, indicating that men are not strong-willed when it comes to sexual intercourse with women. , but it is also mostly used to express a man's moral behavior, which is noble and not close to women.

The closed-door Lu man Ming? Lan Ling smiled and wrote the first chapter of "Jin Ping Mei": "Look at the world today, you said that Liu Xiahui, who is sitting in peace and quiet, is closed-door How many people in the past and present can there be between a man from Lu and Guan Yunchang who holds a candle to his twilight years?"

A man from Lu closes his home and refuses to accept the Ming Dynasty? Wu Jing's "Cui Zhu Zhuan" Volume 7 of "Guose Tianxiang": "Taste it?" Reading "The Family of Confucius", I saw that Liu Xiahui was calm in her arms, and the Lu men were closed and refused to accept her; reading "The Record of Yan Ying", I saw the wife Gu Ying smiling, and Yan Zi repented for several days."

The man from Lu refuses to accept the money from his family? Chapter 1 of Liu Zhang's "Fei Hua Yan Xiang": "The Spring Flower Girl said: 'I heard that the man from Lu refused to pay the family, it is not possible, Liu Xiahui is still sitting in her arms, maybe. It's doable. Why should Mr. Liu be too stubborn? '"

Close the door and refuse to accept the Qing Dynasty? Volume 6 of the "Biography of Kuai Shi" by the master of Wuseishi: "It's hard to say that you can't accept the Qing Dynasty without closing the door. "The third chapter of "Hepu Zhu" written by Li Yanshui in the Qing Dynasty: "Qian Sheng also joked: "If a distinguished guest arrives, my brother will die." For example, Li Ruoxu, who just closed the door and refused to listen. "Qing Dynasty? Anonymous "Modern and Ancient Wonders" Volume 48: "The members of Tang Dynasty were picked for prostitution, but Tang Chen was a gentleman and would not be accepted; Miss Yunzhuang was selfish, and Zhuang was a lady and turned a deaf ear. "Ancient Chinese Forbidden Books? "The Beauty of the Land and the Fragrance of the Country? The Legend of the Qin Jing": "After the woman finished singing, she knocked on the door and said: 'I heard that you are a man of extraordinary talent, so I took the ban to accept you, but now I am closed to you. If you follow the example of Lu Men do evil? ’”

Night households are not opened during the Song Dynasty? Yue Ke’s poem "Mi Yuanzhang Lin Zhiyong Qianwen Zhencao Tie Praise": "Therefore, it is said that the clothes are not exposed, and the night households are not opened.

Liu Xiahui, who is good at learning, is better than a man from Lu. ”

Song dynasty Huang Tingjian’s poem “Picture of a Drunken Monk” by Huang Tingjian: “If you don’t see it, it’s hard to learn from Liu Xiahui when it rains at night, and you don’t see that only General Han has been the only one in ancient times to set up an array with his back to the water.” "

The Lu man's closed door is open to the public? Chapter 11 of "Happy Enemies" by the West Lake Fisherman: "The scroll is a nest, Lu Fangweng writes down; the light is like the moon, the Lu man's closed door. "

A man from Lu refuses to understand deeply? Li Hu's "Meeting Fairy Chronicles": "Young people are frivolous, violate the rules and regulations, wear flowers and willows, steal jade and fragrance, climb up buildings to peek, drill holes and climb over walls . Don't admire your beauty when you see her. You know that your son is very close and you can talk to her. I will talk to you about Ziwu's cave, reveal the secrets of heaven and earth, and explain the essence of yin and yang. You will no doubt believe that I am a promiscuous ghost. I hope that you will learn to show off your skills and be accepted, rather than learn from the men of Lu and reject the profound knowledge. "

The Lu man closed his house for Yuan Dynasty? Shen Shouxian's "San Yuan Ji" comes from the thirteenth chapter: "I am Liu Xiahui and I am not confused until dawn. I am not as good as the Lu man who closes his house and has no pursuits." "Volume 7 of "The Beauty of the Country and the Fragrance of the Country" written by Wu Jing in the Ming Dynasty: "The so-called family of waists with swords and charming clouds is called Confucius's family; Liu Xiahui is sitting in her arms calmly, and the men of Lu are closed to the public. "The first chapter of "Lightning Window" by the owner of Qing Jui Yuanting: "If the man from Lu is closed to knowledge, he is still a piece of gold, but he is unwilling to be refined in the fire. "The first chapter of "Morning Bell on the Pillow" by a layman who does not sleep in the Qing Dynasty: "I think the ancients Liu Xiahui was calm in his arms, and the men of Lu closed their homes and refused to accept him. How could I do this? "Chapter 5 of the Qing Dynasty's Anonymous "Spring and Autumn Collection": "Jia Shi turned back and shouted: 'Nonsense! Since ancient times, there was only one Liu Xiahui who was still pregnant. The Lu man didn't know it, so he closed his door and refused to accept anyone. Could it be that there was another Liu Xiahui? '" Volume 3 of the first volume of "Chinese Xiangyan Encyclopedia" written by Emperor Chong of the Qing dynasty: "Jealous Law: Supervisor": "You have already understood, so you entrusted it to Li Shangcai Zhuke's book. Learn the beauty of a closed house from a man from Lu. "

Is the closed-door Lu Nan Ming? The third and second chapter of Shen Zijin's "Wanghu Pavilion" reads: "I started to learn from the closed-door Lu Nan, and continued to sit under the willow tree. Although my life is not good, I am good enough. "The first chapter of Fang Chengpei's "Leifeng Pagoda" in the Qing Dynasty: "(At the end) He is like a fairy descending in the middle of the moon. Why should he close his house to resist? He looks like a Lu man. "

Is it wise to close one's house and resign? Volume 16 of Ling Mengchu's "Eternal Words for Awakening the World": "It has been praised since ancient times to sit in one's arms and resign, and it is not bad to close one's house and resign." "

Lu Nan refuses to be seductive? Xia Jingqu's "The Words of the Wild Old Man" Chapter 9: "In the past, I sat under a willow tree and did not hear the gold stored in the house; Lu Nan refused to be seductive, only knowing that the door of firewood was closed." "

Is Lu Man's precept clear for sexual misconduct? Li Yu's "Kite Wrong" Chapter 16: "I came to my studio at night and sat in my arms, breaking my Lu man's precept for sexual misconduct. "Also, "You are such a charming scholar, it is you who seduced the woman into her arms, and you are the one who broke the precept of lewdness. "

Lu Nan's cleanliness? Xu Zikui's "Hundred Admonitions to Encourage Forbearance·"Forbearance of Adultery" No. 40": "The introduction of Hui, Lu Nan's cleanliness. "

Volume 5 of "Shi Nodou" by Ming Tianchisou, a man from the state of Lu: "I have never been lewd, but there was a man from Lu who lived alone in a room. On a stormy night, the neighbor's house was in bad condition and there was a widow. We met each other at night, but this Lu man closed his door and refused to accept him. "Ming Dynasty? Lu Renlong's "Xingshiyan" Chapter 20 "Preface" by the Master of Cuiyu Pavilion: "When reading, I should sigh at Liu Xiahui, as if he was so reserved for a moment; the men of Lu State are all useless. "

Wang Yuanliang, a man from Lu in Song Dynasty, wrote a poem "Drinking Together at the Same House on New Year's Eve": "The beautiful girl from Yan is not evil when she comes, but the man from Lu is hard to express. "Song Dynasty? Fang Yue's poem "Yatouyan": "And Ma Changqing is in the world, and he is like a Lu man in the mountains. "Song Dynasty Yue Ke's poem "Mi Yuan Zhang Lin Zhi Yong Qian Wen Zhen Cao Post Praise": "Therefore, it is said that the clothes are not exposed, and the house is not opened at night. Liu Xiahui, who is good at learning, is better than a man from Lu. "Volume 7 of Feng Menglong's "Awakening the World" in the Ming Dynasty: "Tai Yin laughed and said: 'Since ancient times, there is only one Liu Xiahui who can sit still in his arms. The Nalu man knows that he is not good enough, so he refuses to let his wife go in the wind and rain. Entered. You are a young man with undecided blood. How can you possibly stay in the same bed for three nights without violating each other? ’” Volume 3 of Feng Menglong’s “Warning Words for the World” in the Ming Dynasty: “Today I see my benefactor’s thoughts, and I am better than Liu Xiahui and Lu Man.

"Ming Dynasty Anonymous "Lü Chunyang Gets the Way" Chapter 2: "Chun Yangzi said: 'A man from Lu would rather not be a husband? ’” Chapter 3 of Ming Dynasty’s “Sheng Hua Lou” by Chen Tianchi: “If this person is like a Lu man and is not obsessed with sex, how can he pretend to be a woman to earn a house? "Ming Dynasty? Wu Jing's "Guose Tianxiang" Volume 2 "Liu Sheng's Search for Lotus" Part Two: "Sheng said: 'But in my heart, why should I feel so sad and far away from my daughter? That's all. Nowadays, there are those who entrust their wives with their children. Is this really virtuous? A Lu man is a man who cannot have confidence or self-denial.” "Ming Dynasty? Shen Zijin's "Wanghu Pavilion" comes from the second and third chapters: "(Jing Chu calls Jie) Lu man is here, follow me. "Chapter 5 of "The Complete Biography of Fox Yuan" by Zuiyue Shanren in the Qing Dynasty: "I often tell people that men and women are not intimate in teaching and receiving, and they must learn from the men of Lu who sit in their arms calmly, so that they can study in vain and aspire to be sages. When I met Miss Hu at that time, wouldn't it be right if I could withdraw and retreat? "Yeyu Qiudeng Lu Donglin Tomb" written by Xuan Ding of the Qing Dynasty said: "The sun is in Gufu, so I risk the suspicion of the underworld and collect rewards for the great virtue. Lang is not a man from Lu, and I am really the editor of Xue." "Chapter 8 of "Silent Play" by Jue Shibaiguan of the Qing Dynasty: "You must know that what his mother suspected was not a matter of inducement. He only said that he would trick the two children into becoming Longyang and sweeten his mouth with wine and food. Money buys his heart. Among the one hundred people in the world today, ninety-nine have this problem. Then you know that Wang Xiaoshan is a Lu man in Nanfeng. "The Emperor Chong of the Qing Dynasty, "Chinese Fragrance Encyclopedia" Volume 1, Volume 7, "Inscription on the Tomb of Hate": "Here, visitors who don't spend time come, orchid and musk deer attract people, the household is limited to clothing, and those who compete for the scent of clothes will be punished. As a Lu man, I have only known Mr. Cheng. "Also Volume 2 of Volume 10, "The Biography of Taihen Sheng": "I am not a Lu man, so he abstains from sexual desire and stifles his selfishness, and he who sits in his arms without chaos also hopes that the beginning must be the end, and each of them understands the original intention. "Lu Shi'e's "Secret History of the Qing Dynasty" Chapter 136: "Seeing him like this, Juemin laughed and said: 'You are a man from Lu, how can you be so crazy? ’... At this time, the artillery battalion of the New Army in Fujian Province was also recruiting troops. Liuhu hurried back and finally got his wish. When he went north, someone warned him about the affairs of Beijing and Shanghai. He smiled and said: "I am a man from Lu, what should I be afraid of?" ’ So Juemin teased him as a ‘Lu man’ this time. "Wang Jisi and others' "Quan Yuan Opera" Volume 12 "The Complete Collection of the Three Kingdoms" 15: "He has the elegant temperament of a Lu man, and I can be in the same class as Liu Xiahui. "Ancient Chinese Forbidden Books? Chapter 88 of "Shu Gong Sha": "When I walked to the bed and took a look, I saw Mi Feiyun's eyebrows were condensed with Liu Dai, her face was pink, and she was weak and charming, just like the kind of Begonia who had slept enough. In such a pitiful manner, the Talu man was allowed to live, and Liu Xiahui was resurrected. He also said that I still feel pity for him, which makes people lose their minds. "The May and June 1995 issue of "Chu Feng? King Ma Wang's Founding of the Country": "If you follow me, you will live, if you don't, you will die. It's up to you to choose. If you don't believe that you are true, Liu Xiahui and Lu men will not come and follow my example. "

A man from the state of Lu Ming? Shen Zijin's "Wanghu Pavilion" comes from the thirteenth chapter: "(Born) a man from the state of Lu, even if he is not behind closed doors, a little bit of ice will pour fire on his coat. "

Lu Nan'er Ming? Natural Chisou's "Shi Nodou" Volume 5: "Even if you are sitting in your arms without any chaos, how can you be like Lu Nan'er who has closed his house?" "

Men's Ming? Xu Zichang's "Water Margin" Chapter 3: "Could it be that he is hiding under the willow sitting in his arms?" Could it be that men park their wheels outdoors? "

Zeng Feng, a Lu man from the Song Dynasty, wrote a poem titled "Posted to Liu Yuanfu Ke Zhai": "Why did Mencius become King Wen of Zhou? Lu men were good at learning from Liu Xiahui." "Ming Dynasty? Ling Mengchu's "The Surprise at the First Carving of the Case" Volume 34: "If Zhi Rao Feng She doesn't have a heart, it's Lu Nan who needs to think. "Ming Dynasty? Cheng Gongyuan's "Xijiang Moon·Avoid Suspicion" poem: "If you are determined, don't do the following favors. If you are determined, you must imitate Lu Nan. "Qing Dynasty? Huang Zunxian's poem "Nine Surnames Yu Ban Qu": "It's really strange to sit close to the man and lean on him gracefully. It's really strange for Lu Nan to be ignorant. "Chapter 27 of the Qing Dynasty's Anonymous "Jade Toad": "Unique in his life, Lu Nan was not an apprentice. "

Yan Shuzi Zhang Ling and Kang Fengqin compiled Ming Xu Zikui's "Hundred Admonitions to Encourage Forbearance" "Forbearance of Adultery" No. 40: "The introduction of Hui is the cleanliness of Lu Nan." "The explanation says: "The Biography of Mao's Poems records that Uncle Yan of the State of Lu was alone in a room. One night it rained heavily and the neighbor's house collapsed, and a woman came to stay. Uncle Yan let the woman sleep while he stood beside her holding a candle. When the candles burn out, the thatch on the house is burned to keep the fire alive. Until daybreak, Uncle Yan had no evil thoughts.

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The concubine in the Lu man's arms? Chapter 10 of Chen Tianchi's "Shenghua Tower": "Shen Dingguo only knew that he had become a goddess in the Gaotang Dynasty, but he didn't know that he was the concubine in the Lu man's arms. "Chapter 9 of "A Dream of Flowers" written by the master of Wu Echuan in Qing Dynasty: "Shen Dingguo only knew that he had become a goddess in the Gaotang Dynasty, but he didn't know that she was a concubine in the arms of a man from Lu. "

If I can't do it, how can the Song Dynasty imitate Liu Xiahui? Shi Weiyi's "Gatha" poem: "I don't know what the second ancestor was trying to do by setting the snow up to his waist. If you can't do what I can do, you can learn from Liu Xiahui. ”

How can we learn from Liu Xiahui to understand what is wrong with Lu men? Chapter 11 of Liu Zhang’s "Fei Hua Yan Xiang": "The Spring Flower Girl said: 'I heard that the Lu men refused to live in my house, it's not right." OK, Liu Xiahui can sit still in his arms, so it may be possible. Why should Mr. Liu be too stubborn? ’ Liu Youmei said: ‘Don’t you know that Yi Lu’s men are not good enough, then you can learn from Liu Xiahui’s. I, Liu Suxin, am a man who learned from Lu, not Liu Xiahui, so this matter is definitely not feasible.' ”