Northerners like to drink, which is a misunderstanding of many southern friends. Among the northerners I know, there are people who really get drunk on the battlefield after drinking 232 liquor; Among friends in the south, liquor and beer are used to play with depth charges. I don't agree that northerners can drink, but I agree that northerners drink well. On holidays, it is frozen thousands of miles outside and snows in Wan Li. The house is a gathering of the whole family, looking back on the harvest of last year and looking forward to the goal of next year. When the wine is slightly tipsy, parents often pick up chopsticks and dip a drop of white wine into the baby's mouth. The baby turned away and cried with a "wow" when he hit the mouth. The adults burst into laughter and firecrackers sounded outside. Suddenly, the festival became more interesting. ......
I believe that many northern children have embarked on their own spicy life path from this sip of wine, and their parents' expectations are all dissolved in this drop of wine, passing through the mouth, stomach, spleen and kidney until their hearts.
Except for one case, education in China rarely allows junior and senior high school students to drink alcohol. So a three-month-old drop of wine seeds didn't germinate until high school. Several students played a football game after school, and then everyone pooled their money to go to the small restaurant near the school, ordered some cheapest side dishes, opened two bottles of beer, licked their mouths and tongues, and sometimes the kind boss would send two more bottles. Think about that era, we were really fierce. We put rice in sea bowls, and we have to kill several bowls for each meal. We are really little boys who eat poor Lao Tzu.
The first real contact with liquor was at the banquet of the college entrance examination. As a senior three repeat student, I actually have no feeling about this banquet. I drank a glass of white wine mechanically, which was very spicy but a little sweet, just like my achievements were high and low. I often think of that glass of wine, which may represent the end of the ignorant era or the beginning of a confused life. At that time, it was far from knowing whether the future would be spicy or sweet. However, one sentence is more appropriate: "This past year should be a good time to exist in name only. Even if there are thousands of customs in Qian Qian, who should I talk to? "
When I went to college, I was free, and smoking, drinking and falling in love became standard. At that time, it was common to drink half a catty of liquor. I used to drink too much and scold the "political enemies" in the student union. I also made many "friends" and formed my own small group and circle. I called them brothers and was named my favorite "5". From then on, I was called the "five brothers" in the Jianghu. No one calls me "Brother Five" as a social title now, and those "friends" also lost contact at the moment they graduated from college.
Maybe everyone has to take some detours. On the way to school, drunk driving ran through the red light, which didn't make my parents worry about stumbling.
Fortunately, unfortunately, under the fierce social competition, my university is almost a package distribution, because it faces a monopoly industry in China. After graduating from college, I successfully entered a well-known state-owned enterprise. Stability, stability and stability are the three development goals of the company and the three states of almost everyone in the company. Then, how to accompany the leaders to drink has become a topic that young people need to study specially, so that no one will miss the great opportunity of simply becoming famous. My summary of accompanying leaders to drink is the same as the ancient prescription of Chinese medicine: "look, smell, ask and cut".
At first glance, that is, look at the mood of the leader. If the leader is in a good mood today, everyone can relax and even arrange "activities" after dinner; If the leader is in a bad mood today, talk less and eat more, so as not to get "angry" accidentally.
Second, listen more and think more. We should read between the lines to figure out the company's personnel changes and the future direction of leadership, that is, the direction of "standing in line" in the future
Three questions, this is the most learned, you can't ask questions blindly. It is best to start with the little things that the leaders care about, end with the family life of the leaders, and send them out without showing mountains or dew.
Four cuts, that is, judgment, usually have two or three meals with a leader, and you can see what kind of preferences the leader has. How to behave in the future depends on your specific operation.
After reading this, you may find that it has completely lost the meaning of drinking. When drinking loses fun, socializing becomes a punishment. In my daily life, I often have dinner at noon, and then I start planning dinner at night. My drinking capacity has also changed from half a catty of white wine to more than a catty of beer. However, after all, the amount of alcohol has not risen above the house price, and even the best wine can only paralyze itself for a while. The drunken fans of KTV can never replace the warmth of their wives and children.
Compared with the wine in the school days, the entertainment wine is unhappy and even somewhat depressing to human nature. Here, people don't drink, but drink human blood and youth. So, I slowly quit this wine game and gave up drinking in the first half of last year.
The last time I got drunk was when I went home to get married last year. My relatives at the big round table gave me several glasses of white wine. I've been sober for half a year and I'm as drunk as a fiddler. I had a big fight with my father that night, but I can't remember the content of the quarrel except my mother's anxious crying and constant persuasion.
The next day, I woke up, apologized to my father and passed. In a blink of an eye, the wedding leave is coming to an end, and I sat at a wine table with my father when I left. I still remember what I said, "Work hard, don't always think about job-hopping, don't be afraid." "Your mother and I are fine. Don't worry. Your mother's social security has been done this year, and there will be nothing else in the future. " These words went straight through my heart as the liquor passed through my throat. I only had one drink and I was drunk again. I just remember saying, "That's what my grandmother told you. Did you listen? " Father smacked his mouth several times, but he didn't speak again after all.
Everyone's awakening is bound to cross the threshold of his father. Behind the rich second generation, there are few happiness and motivation beyond their parents. Father and son's wine is not good to drink, because the feelings inside are too strong, and the male subconscious is too strong. No matter how strong the wine is, it will not melt.
The story of wine ends here. My drinking history may be the same as most vagrants, from ignorance to ignorance, from helplessness to helplessness, from boredom to boredom. Drinking is a kind of practice. Some people may have experienced all kinds of alcohol games, and some people may be following my old path.
But no matter what stage you are in, please remember that "the flowers are half blooming and the wine is slightly drunk" is the best state of life. Your life value is not supported by drinks and meals. This kind of support can make you relaxed for a while, but it can't make you relaxed for a lifetime. A wine game is a joys and sorrows. In those days when you are drunk and don't want to wake up, there are joys, sorrows, fears and boldness. After all, it is oneself who is not there.
I have already figured out the time for my next drink, just when my daughter 100 is old. Stir-fry three or two small dishes, steam a pot of crabs, iron a pot of old wine, raise a glass to celebrate with the whole family, and live like a fairy. What more can you expect?
Guess, I will dip my chopsticks in white wine and gently feed my baby a bite?