He Xiaoping's biological father was decentralized and reformed, and his mother remarried with her young. From then on, she not only lost her father, but also lost her maternal love. The tragedy of her life began.
My mother only cares about her younger brother and sister, and only hugged her once in more than ten years. It was He Xiaoping who made himself sick and had a fever for several days before his mother hugged her to sleep.
At home, she is bossy and has no position. The family is cold, without any warmth, without giving her a sense of security and happiness, only sensitivity and inferiority. This made her miss her father very much.
Suffering from discrimination and bullying, she did not expect to be discriminated against and bullied after joining the art troupe. No one dares to bully people who wear military uniforms, but people who wear military uniforms will bully their own people.
From the first day she joined the art troupe, she became the joke of the whole troupe. Because she has body odor, people who bring her clothes laugh at her unscrupulously; Because her salute posture is not standard, everyone looks down on her. Except Xiao Sui, others are not friendly enough to her.
Hao and these princeling children all make fun of her, and gradually others look down on her, laugh at her and despise her.
The underwear incident, everyone surrounded her, laughed at her and despised her. When Hao, Lin, Little Ballet and Zhuo Ma took the lead in pushing her, attacking her and tearing her clothes, she was like a trapped little beast, with nowhere to run and no one to say a word for her to help her out.
Humanity can be so cruel! These teenage girls trample on the dignity of others, who gave them this right! What kind of malice and malice are wrapped under these beautiful bodies!
The glib little spike added after the instructor criticized Hao: It's too much! This is He Xiaoping. If I were you, I would get a big slap in the face!
In fact, when the underwear incident was discovered, she laughed the most, and it was actually her who laughed the loudest.
At first, she just looked around and thought Hao had gone too far, but she felt that she didn't want to offend the public. There is no need to offend the eldest sister in the bedroom and these princelings' children for a new weak person.
He Xiaoping, who is sensitive and self-abased, actually wants to get everyone's goodwill and recognition, and wants to integrate into this new glamorous group. At first others laughed at her, but she still smiled. She can only pretend not to understand the cynicism of others. She just endured the condescension of others.
The only person who really helped her was Liu Feng, who was placed in the border defense company under the forest. At this time, He Xiaoping completely despaired of the art troupe, resented and disliked it, never communicated with them again, and was ashamed to associate with them.
She didn't want to go dancing and pretended to be ill when she expressed her condolences to the soldiers on the border. Finally, he was sent to the front by the political commissar and became a medic. Too many tragic deaths in the war and the title of hero after the war have greatly stimulated her, and her nerves are out of order.
After the cure, many years later, I walked with Liu Feng, who had a broken arm.
For those who are sensitive to inferiority because of childhood, we really should be more tolerant and understanding, more encouragement and help, and more support and praise.
If the roommates of the art troupe could be more friendly to Xiaoping at that time, accept her warmly and sincerely, tolerate her, encourage her and help her, I believe that He Xiaoping will soon become a confident and cheerful girl. She works so hard and dances so well that he will have a bright future and be very happy.
Mencius said that a gentleman is nothing more than being kind to others.
Be more understanding and tolerant of others. Being kind to others means respecting yourself.
02
I remember there was a transfer student in our class in the fourth grade of primary school. Her name is Jingjing. The girl has ear-length short hair and a slim figure. A pale and emaciated face often adds a new wound every few days.
The clothes she is wearing are very old, and she hasn't changed for a week. She still has an indescribable smell, which is not very good.
There is stubbornness and deep sadness in her black eyes.
A few weeks later, everyone became familiar with it. We know that her family just moved here. There is also a younger brother and a younger sister at home. The economic situation is not good.
Mother is ill all the year round. Dad runs around all day and works hard. Her eldest daughter contracted all the work in the family, even though she was only ten years old.
Her grumpy father often beats and scolds her. Because she is a girl, it's no use raising her. All her injuries were caused by her father. Mom can't persuade dad.
She hates this family, but there is nothing she can do. Whoever has such a family has a miserable childhood. She could do nothing when she was young. What can she do?
Reincarnation is a technical job. If you can choose, who will choose such a family?
It's just that you're lucky to be reborn. You have no right to laugh at a child who is sensitive to inferiority. Do you think she wants this? Do you think she doesn't want to be cheerful and confident and laugh happily every day?
When we were about nine years old, we were very friendly to her. Laugh and play together after class and often send her home. She never asks us for anything because she has a high self-esteem.
She gradually brightened up, smiled more and confided in us. When I was a child, I first heard of such a family and such parents. For the first time, we learned to sympathize with the weak and be kind to others.
However, one boy was particularly dissatisfied with her and thought she was dirty and smelly.
Once in self-study at night, because of a little misunderstanding, the boy opened his mouth and scolded: What's wrong with you? Are you stupid? Jing pleaded: not me, really not me. But the boy called her a garbage man.
Crystal's face suddenly turned red, and she argued with the boy. The two of them hugged each other without waiting for us to fight. The two men began to fight. The boy kicked Jing three times in a row, and Jing's grievance broke out, crying and kicking the boy desperately.
We were all stunned. Everyone felt the despair and heartbreaking pain of Jing.
She shouted hoarsely and hopelessly, You bully me! You bully me!
This voice shocked every young soul of us. How much she has suffered and how much she has been wronged will make her burst into such a cry of no love for life.
Later, the teacher came, stopped them and criticized the boy. Jingjing cried for a long time on her desk.
Soon, she transferred to another school.
We all went to see her off on the day she left. We wept around her. She said: thank you for giving me warmth. I will never forget your kindness. I will remember it all my life.
Now I can't help crying when I think about it.
I hope everyone she meets in the future will have a kind heart and be kind to her. Give this scarred heart more warmth.
03
All men are created equal. No one has the right to trample on the dignity, insult the personality and bully others. Only when you can pity others, be kind to others and have compassion can you be called a person. If he is unsympathetic, insensitive and cruel to his own kind, what is the difference between him and an animal?