Before I gave birth to my second daughter, my relationship with my mother-in-law was not very good. Because in my opinion, my mother-in-law doesn’t like me very much either. After I entered her house, I didn't live with her much. My mother-in-law lives in her hometown in the countryside. I usually go back with my husband only during the Chinese New Year, and I don't stay too long. Just left. And she seemed to keep a certain safe distance in front of me and didn't say much to me. If there were only two of us left in a room, the scene would definitely be deserted.

My name is Ai Xiaojia, I am 27 years old this year. I married my husband Wu Dakai when I was 23 years old. One year after our marriage, our eldest daughter Susu was born. Since I was pregnant, my husband took my mother-in-law in to take care of me. During that time, she was very dedicated. Anyway, you will always follow my advice first when doing anything, and you will try your best to take care of my taste and nutrition when preparing my meals. Thanks to my mother-in-law's meticulous care, the birth of my eldest daughter went smoothly. The baby was born half an hour after entering the delivery room. Due to adequate nutrition in her mother's womb, this fat girl has been in good health since birth and is very easy to take care of.

At that time, I couldn’t see why my mother-in-law didn’t like my granddaughter. Anyway, she treated me and the child very responsibly. It's just that her relationship with me was quite polite even at that time. As soon as the confinement period was over, she took the initiative to pack her bags and go back to her hometown. No matter how we tried to persuade her, she couldn't keep her. I sensed from the fact that she left so happily and without any nostalgia that she might not like me as her daughter-in-law and her eldest granddaughter very much, because no old man doesn’t want grandchildren! Even I have always wanted to have a son. When I heard the doctor congratulating me on giving birth to a daughter before I even got off the delivery bed, my heart suddenly dropped.

My mother-in-law rarely came to the city to see us in the next two years, but she would often bring some agricultural and sideline products to the city for our family to eat, usually some vegetables she grew herself or raised. of chickens, poultry and eggs. Although my husband’s workplace is very profitable, I was away from work for a long time when I was on pregnancy leave and maternity leave after giving birth to my child. Later, I had another mouth to eat, and the financial pressure on my family was not small, so I was always thinking about what to do. Increase some income. He himself studied architectural design and is qualified as an architect, so he will also use his spare time to receive design drawings to help people see if the structure is reasonable, or go to people's homes to evaluate whether the quality of rough houses meets standards, etc. Got to be very busy.

I have always had a regret in my heart, that is, I still want to have another son. I have never concealed this idea from my husband. After hearing this, he just said: "If you want to have a baby, have it! It's very lonely to have only one child now. It's good for Susu to have a companion." So more than a year later, I became pregnant again.

But this time my mother-in-law’s reaction was not as good as before. No matter how much my husband begged me, she always said that there were too many things at home and she couldn't leave. Even after I gave birth to the baby, she didn't come to take care of me during my confinement period! I was not in a good mood at that time, because I gave birth to another daughter. When I saw my mother-in-law's reaction, I naturally connected it to the reason why she disliked the birth of another daughter. As a result, my relationship with my mother-in-law became even more distant.

When I was about to give birth, someone from my mother-in-law’s hometown came to the city and brought us a bag of peanuts. When I saw it, I said to my husband: "Your mother always gives some small profits. When we met When the situation got really difficult, she disappeared. "My husband didn't say anything and just walked away silently.

While I was talking, I opened my hand habitually to check the quality of the peanuts. Unexpectedly, I reached out and touched it, and I pulled out a passbook with 30,000 yuan and a letter on it. After watching it, tears burst into my eyes and I was stunned! It turns out that after I gave birth to my first daughter, my mother-in-law overheard our conversation while she was taking care of me. She knew that her son was a heavy burden, so after I gave birth to my baby, she returned to her hometown in the countryside and worked frugally to help others. Farm work makes money. This time I gave birth and did not come to the confinement period because she was too tired at that time and had some physical problems and did not feel comfortable. She did not dare to tell us because I was at a critical moment and she was afraid that we would worry about her, so she bit me. Zhu Ya insisted on it alone.

Finally, my mother-in-law told me: Daughter-in-law, thank you for giving birth to two beautiful granddaughters for me. My mother-in-law is not a patriarchal person. As long as they are healthy and smart, girls may be better than boys in the future. Children must be promising and filial to their parents.

These 30,000 yuan are prepared for you and your children. You can use them to buy some nutritional supplements and things for your children. My mother-in-law only has so much ability, so I hope you won’t dislike it. How much I misunderstood her before. It turns out that she is such a good old man. I want my husband to bring my mother-in-law to live with us. This way, as a family, we can take care of each other and never appear again. The old man has been ill for such a long time and we don’t even know about it. Are you right?