Definition refers to jealousy caused by the relationship between men and women.
This is a short story recorded in A Book of Ruling and Ruling in the Tang Dynasty.
Fang is afraid of his wife.
Very famous, always afraid to marry concubines.
Emperor Taizong is famous for wanting to give several beautiful women to his love Qing. As a result, even Wei Zhi, who has always been upright, said, "I'm afraid this is not appropriate. Your majesty, you are damaging the old house. If his family knows, the old house will be restless. "
The emperor didn't believe it. He was afraid that the chamberlain would go to Fang's house and find out about it. The result was really terrible. He cried twice, hanged himself three times, plus a punch and a bite. The old house is so messy that he can hardly go to court. The emperor was so happy that he came to the old house to stir things up, aiming at: no fooling around.
The son of heaven also ordered that twelve women should be sealed in Fang to be responsible for their food and shelter in recognition of the efforts made by the Prime Minister Fang for the country. If you promise this, then here is a glass of wine. From now on, if you are jealous of your husband and don't allow this, well, I'll give you a glass of poisoned wine and say, "I'd rather live without jealousy than die with jealousy?"
The stone "would rather die of jealousy" picked up the poisoned wine and gulped it down.
And the result?
It's just a cup of vinegar, but the strong sour taste is saturated with infinite love for her husband. I would rather die than be jealous.
A jealous woman is unreasonable.
A jealous woman can't be wrong.
Story about Jealousy 2 "The Romance of Sui and Tang Dynasties" records that once Emperor Taizong gave two beautiful ladies-in-waiting to Guan Guogong Gui Ren, but something happened shortly after Gui Ren brought them back. Because his wife has a strong personality, she can't tolerate any more women around her husband. At that time, she destroyed all the hair of two handmaids with drugs. Emperor Taizong was very angry when he heard about it. He immediately summoned his wife, pointed to a can of poisoned wine prepared next to him and threatened: "Women should be jealous. Don't drink this wine if you can change careers without jealousy; No, you can drink it. " The woman is also very simple and replies, "I'd rather be jealous to death." Pick up the jar and drink it off. However, people did not die after drinking it. I didn't expect that what was put on the altar was not poisonous wine but delicious balsamic vinegar. Emperor Taizong was also very helpless. At that time, he said, I am not responsible for your family. As a result, the word "jealous" spread.
There is another saying from another compilation of national history, and The Code of Jealousy comes from Fang's story. Fang married a beautiful wife, but when he was young, he was extremely poor. To this end, Fang once expressed his fear that his wife would look down on him and dislike him. At that time, without saying anything, the wife grabbed the scissors and stabbed herself, saying that she would never change her mind, and showed her outstanding talent to fully support her husband's great achievements. Because of this experience, Fang respected his wife very much, and his wife took good care of and defended their love. As the prime minister, Fang made great contributions to the prosperity of Zhenguan. In order to reward him, Emperor Taizong once gave him several beauties, but Fang refused. The emperor knew Fang cared about his wife's feelings, so he had to beg the queen to summon Fang's wife. He appealed that people have a formal concubinage system, which is completely in line with the rules, and (Fang's official name) is old and weak. The emperor wanted to take care of him with many women to show his happiness.
However, Mrs. Fang flatly rejected these ungrateful words. The emperor flew into a rage and gave her two choices. One is to change her original intention and stop being jealous so that she can live a stable life. Second, you can continue to be jealous, but you must be executed. Mrs. Fang said without hesitation that she would rather die of jealousy. The emperor took out an altar of poisoned wine for her, and Mrs. Fang swallowed it in one gulp. The emperor finally had to say, "I am afraid of such a woman, let alone Fang Lingxuan!" " "Of course, the emperor gave Mrs Fang not poisoned wine, but balsamic vinegar, so some people think that this story is the earliest origin of jealousy.
Allusions about jealousy 3. The prime minister in the period of Emperor Taizong was afraid of his wife's bad reputation, which, together with his political achievements, became a topic circulating through the ages.
One day, the morning trial ended, but Fang lingered in the court and didn't go home. Emperor Taizong was very surprised. He asked him, but only listened to him. He asked the emperor to let him. Only when his wife was not angry did he dare to go home. Emperor Taizong was surprised. I didn't expect Fang to be so afraid of his wife.
It's outrageous to be so weak. Emperor Taizong was very angry and deliberately gave him a few Maggie to kill his wife. Of course Fang didn't dare. Emperor Taizong asked the queen to go out and persuade Fang's wife, but naturally he flatly refused. Emperor Taizong was furious and personally offered his wife a glass of wine, saying, "If you agree with your husband to accept the beautiful woman I sent you, then drink this poisoned wine. This is absolutely impossible! "
I saw Mrs. Fang took the poisoned wine without saying a word and drank it in one gulp. Emperor Taizong was shocked at this scene and sighed, "I am still afraid of these women, let alone Ling Xuan."
Emperor Taizong used thick vinegar to scare Fang's wife, but he himself scared everyone. And jealousy, as an allusion to "jealousy", also comes from this.
Allusions about jealousy 4 When I wrote the word "jealousy", I felt a little "drooling" in my mouth. Vinegar is "sour" when you think about it. In A Dream of Red Mansions, Bao Ge said that "women are made of water". Now I think it would be beautiful if a few drops of "vinegar" were dropped in this water. !
What is "jealousy"? It turned out that Li Shimin, Emperor Taizong, had given concubines all the beautiful women in the room, but the room refused to accept them. Li Shimin anticipated that this room was a hen-pecked person, so this room refused to allow it. So he sent a eunuch with a pot of "poisoned wine" to tell Mrs. Fang that if she didn't accept these beautiful concubines, she would be given poisoned wine. I didn't expect Mrs. Fang to be a little strong-willed and would rather die than bow before the emperor. So I picked up the "poisoned wine" and gulped it down. Mrs. Fang finished drinking with tears in her eyes and found that the cup was not poisoned wine, but thick vinegar, sweet and sour. Since then, "jealousy" and "jealousy" have become one, and "jealousy" has become a metaphor for jealousy because of love. In modern life, some people will be jealous and jealous when they see others being praised or rewarded, and they are also dubbed "jealous".
Originally, this allusion was just a legend, and there were not many written records. Being deeply in love and jealous should be a lovely thing. Cao Xueqin, a writer, wrote in the 31st episode of A Dream of Red Mansions: "Aroma had to endure her temper and say,' Sister, it's our fault that you went out for a stroll.' Qingwen heard her say' we'. Naturally, she and Baoyu are jealous again ... "Jealousy happens from time to time in that beautiful spring girl's" The Red Chamber ".No matter what kind of love, just saying' vinegar' makes people a little envious.
The meaning of vinegar in Ci Hai is defined as follows: "I feel sad because of jealousy." "Jealousy" is extended to "jealousy", which may come from this. The legendary "Swallow Notes" in the Ming Dynasty also recorded that "the two are just jealous and suspicious, and they don't like each other". If there is jealousy between men and women in love, there may even be quarrels and fights, which are commonly known as "jealousy" or "jealousy".
There is an old saying that "there are more jealous women than lions in the world". Buddhist classics say that "when a lion roars, all animals squat", and a jealous lion can't be bullied. There is a story about the roar of a lion. Su Dongpo, a great poet in the Song Dynasty, had a friend named Liu, his wife, who was very jealous. Whenever a singer goes to dinner, Liu knocks on the wall with a wooden stick and scolds the guests away. Usually, Chen Jichang likes to talk about Buddhism. Afterwards, Su Dongpo used the lion's roar play to describe his fierce wife's angry voice: "I suddenly heard lion roars, and I was at a loss with my cane." Later, people took "the lion's roar" as a synonym for a jealous woman and a shrew. More than one word "acid"!
The drama "Baihua Pavilion" has "I moved him several times, but he fell in love with me in his heart. Why do you eat so little vinegar? " People call people who love to show jealousy a vinegar jar, a vinegar jar, a vinegar bowl, a vinegar jar, a vinegar jar or a vinegar bottle, and call unwarranted jealousy eating small vinegar. There is a second story in the novel "A Night Clears the Bell" in the late Ming Dynasty: "The stonemason Fan Ba ... is afraid that Chen will be jealous ... and he is afraid that Chen will blame him for being sour"; In the forty-fifth chapter of The Scholars, there is also a saying that "the two wives of the Ling family are confused" ... jealous and jealous, they quarreled. There are also synonyms for jealousy, jealousy and jealousy. There is a saying in "The Joy of Yin and Yang in Heaven and Earth" that "when I am angry, I always think of a woman who has lost her reputation". The "vinegar smell" in this paper originally refers to the smell of vinegar. Later, people borrowed the word "dross" as a synonym for wife, because Hong Song said in the Eastern Han Dynasty that "a dross wife should not stay in the court". The beginning of "vinegar" is because of love, and it is sour because of love. Jealous or jealous, but don't eat too much? !
"bogey": bogey, bogey also-language "Guangya"; Jealous of each other's hearts-Li Chu's Sao Ci: There is another saying: "Many women are jealous of it, and they say I am good at prostitution." The characters who look at it are mainly female, and its source should be related to women. Is it for women? Is it easy to be "jealous" because of emotions? ! The marriage of "jealousy" and "jealousy" should date back to a long time ago.
The theory of "jealousy" should have originated in the Tang Dynasty, and the theory of "lion roar" in the Song Dynasty was its tributary, and the later theory of "vinegar" could only be a collateral.
A woman who is jealous to the extreme, I think Mrs. Fang is superior. In other words, Mrs. Fang's desire for concubinage has long been known, but it's just quiet. One day, when he came home from work, Mrs. Fang left a poem-"Piano, chess, painting and calligraphy are inseparable from hops." Now it's all here, rice, oil, salt sauce and tea. " What a learned wife, pun intended. I can't forget the happiness and romance with you who used to play chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry and hops. Now you want a new lover, I have to give her all these pieces, including the fireworks of rice, oil and salt sauce and fragrant tea. Keep the word "vinegar" to yourself. Master Fang was ashamed, but he had to change his mind.
Vinegar is not just an acid? !