High EQ social networking in the workplace

1. It is better to hide your wisdom deeply than to show your intelligence

Be a confused and shrewd person, keep a low profile and be as wise as a fool; be a confused and shrewd person People show weakness to gain sympathy and cleverly hide their strength. Don't get carried away when you are proud, and don't express your joy and anger; grasp the small and magnify it. It is rare to be confused about trivial matters, pretend to be confused, and ask about the future.

2. Grasp the standards of being a human being

You must leave room for everything, at all times, don’t be too arrogant, and be reasonable and forgiving. As a human being, you should leave yourself a way out, don't bet on a person and then accept it when the situation is good; don't offend villains, and don't stab others in the back. There is no need to "beat the drowned dog with a stick", but be cautious in everything.

3. Be careful when sailing the ship of ten thousand years.

As a human being, you should keep an extra "eye", every time you meet for the first time; don't let the villain act as a gunman, and don't give up all your thoughts. , beware of people who take the initiative to help you; beware of "villains" who are disguised as friends; be cautious when confiding your concerns to others; don't be fooled by superficial phenomena; don't be greedy for women: the word "caution" is engraved in your heart.

4. A tree has a skin and a person has a face

Giving face to others is giving yourself face; if you recognize the difference, you will have a better life. If you take face into consideration, give others face. steps; save face for the leader at critical moments; add a little sugar to criticism; "bowing behind the back" is more effective; be kind to others' embarrassment; appropriately satisfy others' vanity, give credit to the leader, and even the enemy must save face; saving face is all that matters Keep your self-respect; don’t take mistakes for granted.

5. Misfortunes come from the mouth, blessings come from the mouth

Be able to speak well and win people's hearts. Be careful when talking about topics tabooed by others; speak with reservations and avoid unnecessary arguments; let honest advice be given. Don't make jokes that are offensive to your ears. Be careful about the occasion and speak according to the occasion; replace "no" with "yes"; seize the opportunity to promote yourself; make up for your gaffe in a timely manner; elegant conversation is the best etiquette.

6. Be a square and round person

Learn to hide your emotions; don’t underestimate the “little details”; let go when it’s time to let go; look at the problem from the perspective of others; be roundabout when faced with force. Use retreat to make progress; suffer losses in the open; silence at the right time is a wise behavior; never miss one in ten thousand opportunities; reserve the boss's space; do not express your feelings at will; only concentrate on doing one thing well at a time ;Cherish every second of your life.

7. It’s not strange to be polite to many people

Be humble and have "courtesy" to succeed; talk less about your proud things, applaud others, and give up your sense of superiority to others; three people must be together As a teacher, don’t show off your edge too much, listen to the words of the elderly; don’t monopolize the glory, humility can resolve conflicts, don’t care too much about praise; leave a good first impression; treat others politely to win people’s hearts; the role of politeness cannot be ignored; smile with your face For everyone, keep the word "virtue" in your heart.

8. Be proactive.

You need to be forward-thinking; burn incense more often, and have someone to help you in times of emergency; interact with people who are temporarily out of power; suffer a loss is a blessing; change Think about problems from different angles; calculate more and win more, know the smallest details; think about what your boss thinks, listen to the undertones, and learn to cover up your own light; do not do business with acquaintances; develop the habit of saving money; health is more important than money.

9. All roads lead to good connections

Network is the lifeblood of success. Make friends with people who are better than yourself; do enough favors and remember the words of others; win popularity by "connecting with relatives and friends" ; Establish your own friend profile and focus on key people; help others sincerely and be honest, you can be trusted with great things.

10. Be able to bend and stretch, and the word "endurance" comes first

As a human being, you must learn to lower your head, take a step back, and the sky will be brighter; sometimes you have to be thick-skinned, and regard embarrassment as a kind of training; don't Be serious about small things, hug your "enemies" in public, and take out your anger on small things; "lowering your head" to admit your mistakes is not a low point, a hero will suffer "immediate losses"; do not be swayed by gossip, use criticism as a mirror, and be tolerant.

11. The flow of water will not rot, and people will not lose in "living"

Don't be too honest if you have scheming intentions, be the first to speak and refuse cleverly; when it is critical, you must hide your true intentions and learn to "circle" ; Stand up for your own rights with confidence and do not become a victim of other people's opinions; Cleverly refuse certain things that can be entrusted to you. If the situation is not good, you will act wisely; it does not matter if you self-recommend.

12. Be the master of your emotions

Being good at adjusting your mentality is the biggest scheming in life; even a good horse will turn around, completely eliminate the negative mentality, throw away the unstable emotions, and change the mind "Movies", never give up; don't be too pretentious, happiness is self-inflicted, and you have to look back when you hit a wall; hold the mood remote control in your hand, your mentality determines your view of things, have a little "Ah Q spirit" Tolerant heart.