It is known to all that Wenwen has fallen in love with a married man. Her friend advised her to end this relationship as soon as possible, but Wen Wen insisted on developing it. Some friends saw that she was so stubborn that she became a "mistress" and gradually cut off contact with her. Seeing that her good friends left her one by one, she just ignored everyone's opinions and continued to associate with that man. In the end, except for my friends, Wenwen basically became a loner.
Wen Wen and I have been friends for 20 years, and we have been together from primary school to college graduation. Therefore, I am reluctant to leave her. First, I am worried that she has emotional problems and can't control the accident; Moreover, those friends who left need to convey Wen Wen's recent situation to me, because they hope I can persuade Wen Wen to give up this unreliable relationship.
Many people in my circle of friends have met this man Wen Wen likes. He's not bad. Although he is not "Gao Fushuai", he is definitely a person who can't be forgotten at a glance. He is elegant in speech, gentle in manner, talkative but never unconventional, and writes good calligraphy. For those of us who can only type on the keyboard, he definitely stands out from the crowd. So "brilliance" is the knowledge of most of us.
People around have a good impression on this man. However, Wen Wen expressed this person more strongly than anyone else, and she began to pursue it enthusiastically, buying famous brands as gifts and giving generously. Speaking of Wen Wen, she is the "little rich woman" among us. Dad runs a company, and Wenwen also owns a part of the shares. So, while we were still busy with the house and the car, she had everything. It is also such a living condition that Wen Wen always feels that he is much superior to others and his behavior is particularly radical. In her opinion, as long as she wants to do it, nothing is impossible. I seldom listen to my friends' advice, and others can't get a word in on whether I have a boyfriend or not. In fact, Wen Wen and I haven't seen each other several times since. Because of different angles of thinking, we often have two halves in communication, so it is best not to meet each other to avoid emotional breakdown.
As for that man? One day, in Xidan shopping mall, I saw the man Wen Wen was chasing shopping with his family in the children's store. The young couple took a beautiful girl, who pointed to an expensive Barbie doll to buy. My mother doesn't agree. You can tell at a glance that she is a good daughter-in-law who lives at home. After the girl was rejected by her mother, she turned and began to grind her father. Her father began to hesitate, but she couldn't stop her daughter's repeated entreaties. She said, "Dad will give me hemp as a birthday present in advance, so I don't want anything for my birthday." "OK, but dad still has to discuss it with mom." Dad then exchanged a few words with his mother. "Just spoil her." Although her mother was reluctant, she finally let the salesperson open the ticket. After paying, the girl who got Barbie couldn't wait to take it out of her bag and hold it in her arms. Seeing this scene, I really think Wenwen should stop pestering this man. What a good family? I thought: Wen Wen, you shouldn't let your temper control yourself to break up others. The more I think about it, the more I feel the need to talk to Wenwen.
I'm thinking about how to have this conversation with Wen Wen. Wen Wen called me first and let me talk to him. "This is the sun coming out from the west, usually looking for her is not rebuffed, is to find all kinds of reasons to refuse, until the yellow forget it. What's this about? "We have an appointment at WenWen's own residence. The furnishings in the room are exquisite, and the coffee table is full of snacks. "What do you want to talk about?" What I said was ironic. "Yes, but don't worry, today will never end in discord. Because I have decided to break up with him. " "Is this true?" I'm a little surprised and skeptical.
On this day, we talked for a long time, and Wenwen told me everything that happened between him and this man.
Wen Wen said, "I really love this man. Although there are many suitors around me, I am really moved by him. I even gave him my first kiss. On rainy days, I tried my best to ask him to go to the movies, eat out, visit the Grand View Garden, and sometimes I deliberately "spoiled" and asked him to help me tidy the bra straps. It was in this room that I teased him and even hoped that he would flirt with me. Before, I asked him to lie that the company was working overtime and come here to celebrate my birthday, because no one would bother me here. That day, I snuggled up to her for dinner. Although he tried to keep his distance from me, he couldn't stop me. Forced to have nowhere to hide, I held him down several times when he wanted to get up and leave, and even threatened him to leave, making him regret it for the rest of his life. He may stay because he is afraid that I will do something out of line. I carried her to bed, and when he was not ready, I pulled him over and pressed him on me. I put my arms around his neck and forced him to kiss. He tried to break free, but I firmly controlled him. At this time, I thought, if only he had unbuttoned my coat like crazy and groped around. I was going to give him everything anyway, but he didn't do anything. I had no choice but to let go, but I didn't let him get up at once. I asked him to look at me and say, "I'm not beautiful, don't I deserve your love?" "Not worthy of your love?" He pushed his hands hard on the bed, broke my hand and gasped, "Like and love are two different things. Yes, I like you, even very much, but that doesn't mean I love you. If you go on like this, we won't even be friends anymore. On weekdays, I like your generous personality and your love-hate nature, but emotionally, I don't rely on you to consider only your own wishes, regardless of other people's feelings. Being like today can only make me look down on you. I think it's time we broke up. I can't indulge myself by accommodating you like this. I'm sorry for my lover who got into trouble with me. It is true that you are much better than my lover now, but she accompanied me and encouraged me when I was lost and helpless. I have undertaken everything for this family. I can't fail her, and there is no reason to fail her. Her kindness, tolerance and virtue are beyond your reach. " Then he turned to go out and came back with this bag.
Wen Wen said, and took out a black bag from the bookcase and said, "open it. It contains everything I gave her. People didn't even tear off the trademark and returned it intact. " I opened the bag and saw that it was full. There was a list on it, which recorded the name, price and delivery time in detail. I asked, "How does he know the price?" "That must have been discovered by him later." Wen Wen went on to say, "This shows that he didn't intend to accept my gift from the beginning. I'm so romantic. That watch is more than 10,000 yuan. Just take it to your husband. " "We can't afford such an expensive watch." I refused her.
When talking about breaking up, Wen Wen said, "After some tossing that day, I finally woke up. In fact, just after he finished the phone call, I understood that no matter how hard I tried, it was not because he hurt my heart with harsh words, but because he recognized that my lover's position in his mind was unshakable. What's more, he has a lovely and beautiful daughter, and I like them all. So when he returned the gift to me. I decided to let go of this relationship and break up with him. I told him calmly that I really love you, but this kind of love makes you feel stressed, uncomfortable and tired. We really should break up. Now you can go. Don't worry about me. I need time to take care of my mood. "
Wen Wen said: "She thought about it all night that day and decided not to meet him again, so she sent him an email saying: Please forgive Wen Wen's recklessness and the interference caused by it. Wen Wen knew she was wrong. Love should not be based on destroying other people's family happiness. Now I understand that if you force love, it is not true after all. Please allow me to address your lover as "sister-in-law". Don't hate me, save me some face and satisfy my vain but self-respecting heart! I wish your family happiness. I feel sorry for your warmth.
The next day, Wen Wen received a reply from his lover, saying that Wen Wen opened her laptop to show me. I don't talk much, but it embodies intellectuality, understanding and tolerance. I read your email with my lover. Do you mind？ Your lover told me everything. Not only will I not hate you for this, but I feel that this incident has made a practical assessment of whether the marriage between my wife and our family is strong. Although it has passed, it has not yet reached Excellence, which reminds us to constantly assess the situation, evaluate the status quo and find out the hidden shortcomings. Although I don't agree with your understanding and expression of love, I understand. There is nothing wrong with loving someone. Moreover, the man we love together deserves our love, because he is honest, kind and single-minded emotionally. If we don't love such a man, then our emotional world will be too pale. It's just that my sister is one step ahead of you Wenwen, my sister thinks you are a good girl. Don't worry about it. We will be good sisters. Sister is here, I hope you can find the real other half as soon as possible. Sister bless you.
On this day, I talked with Wenwen for nearly three hours. Finally, Wen Wen decided to hold a party in her own house and invited her former good friends. Those who contact intermittently are Wen Wen himself, and I am responsible for some people who almost stop contacting Wen Wen.
On the day of the party, Wen Wen made an opening speech. She said, "My friends, thank you very much for giving me such a big face today and giving me an opportunity to' value friends and despise teaching Wen Wen'. If I offended you by saying something wrong in the past, please forgive me and give me a chance to "turn over a new leaf". I apologize to you. I fell in love with the wrong person, but I gave him my first kiss. Now I will blow you a kiss. " Wen Wen just talked about the end. I don't know from which direction, a small tomato hit Wen Wen's head. She also grabbed a handful of grapes and threw them at the crowd without weakness, so tomatoes and grapes flew all over the room. This isn't a party. It is simply a "war" between tomatoes and grapes.
Later, someone asked me how I persuaded Wen Wen. In fact, they don't know that the temperature change has nothing to do with me. This is entirely the result of her own enlightenment. But anyway, Wenwen returned to her friends. But what everyone finally hopes is that Wenwen will work harder to find his beloved half. Text/leisure