When your child is ungrateful, let him know what you want him to do. Emphasize to your children that money is earned by adults through very hard work, and let them know that only those who make money have the right to decide how to spend it. We also need to tell our children that our money is limited, and even adults can’t buy whatever they want. Make a wish list Make a wish list for each member of the family and display it while explaining to the children that the money will be used to prioritize the purchase of necessary things at home such as food, clothes, etc. and those things that are wanted, such as When it comes to new cars, vacations and toys, take it easy.

Let your children know the explanation of how you decided to make a certain expenditure. When you spend a large amount of money, don’t forget to tell your children what the special significance of this purchase is, and let him know that you It wasn't always such a big deal. Give your child an allowance or a small amount of money and teach him how to spend it. The whole family decides together what to do when the toy is damaged. The toy is naturally damaged due to long use. Should the parents buy a new one or the child can save money to buy a new one. Encourage your children to find other ways to get what they want besides buying stuff from the store. If you like doing crafts, you can try making your own greeting cards.

If you have a green thumb, let your children see how you grow gifts from your garden. If you're good at needlework, show him how you darn your socks instead of buying new ones when they break. Use a sense of humor to remind your children that it's ridiculous to always expect more, teach your children that asking for this and that is rarely lovable, talk to your children about the true meaning of gratitude, and suggest making a list of what the whole family needs to be grateful for. All things considered, and make this habit an important part of the festival every year.

Think carefully about how you celebrate your child’s birthday. Try to have a simple party with just family and a few friends, where you can share delicious ice cream, talk about memories, or look at all the fun photos you’ve taken over the past year. , this can also be fun. If you prepare a grand party for your children every year and invite clowns, wooden horses or magicians, over time, they will take it for granted. Some families hold a large birthday party for their children every two years. It’s also a great way to simplify your life and try celebrating birthdays with a special family outing instead of buying the hottest toys as birthday gifts.

Determining the number of guests to attend your child's birthday party will help control the cost of the party and of course save you and your child energy because if you invite a large number of guests, your child will also be invited in the future. Invite to a bunch of parties, and he may come to look forward to having fun every week. Communicate with your children's grandparents and tell them that you are concerned that their overly generous intentions may backfire. See the section on Balancing Conflicts with Previous Generations' Parenting Philosophies for effective solutions to this problem. Let your children know that it is polite to express gratitude after receiving a gift, even if the gift is not what they really wanted. Let the children thank the giver of the gift. If you choose to send a thank you card, you can also ask the children to write some words, draw a simple picture, or put a stamp on the envelope. Think twice before acting. Sometimes we may want to thank someone for You must think twice before buying a small gift for your child, but it is not on his birthday. Of course, you can also teach your children to deal with jealousy in a timely manner and be happy for others to receive gifts. If you think it doesn't matter, it's his turn this time.