In our daily study, work and life, we are often inspired and have new feelings about certain things or people. At this time, we can record them all in the article. So, how should I write my feelings? The following is my understanding of the life of beauty and blue beauty for everyone, for reference only, welcome to read. Beauty and Blue Beauty Life Comprehension 1
At present, there are two popular confidantes, namely, confidantes of the opposite sex other than spouses (or prospective spouses).
knowing a young woman is an emotional form that is spiritually superior to that of a wife, an ideological lover who can't live together, and a spiritual companion whose soul communication is better than physical communication.
The boy said, "A boy, if there is a girl in his life who loves you deeply, and there is also a girl who understands you, what can he ask for?" "confidantes are all extremely intelligent girls, and they know best in their hearts: if a girl wants to be eternal in a boy's life, she must be his mother or the confidante he will never get."
There must be excellent, intelligent, strong and independent girls, and there must also be some girls who have really become confidantes of those equally excellent boys. However, no matter what kind of girls, their hearts are still bitter and there is no way to be chic. And a really mature and rational boy will not be complacent just because there is such a girl around. His heart will feel helpless and feel the same pain and helplessness just because of his deep understanding and sympathy. Therefore, they finally chose to implicate each other in the form of confidants, just because of too much helplessness and love.
If a girl can be your confidante, you should remember that she must love you and you are worthy of love in her heart. No matter how she behaves in front of you, she is afraid of your pain and death, and she can't wait to hurt and die for you, and because she knows that she doesn't even have such power, her heart is crying even more. If you are lucky enough to have such a girl, you should at least know how to cherish her. You got it?
This is why more and more excellent women finally choose to be alone.
Lan Yan's bosom friend is a girl's hardcore brother and sister, and a male brother and sister who can tell each other what they really want. In girls' understanding, Lan Yan's confidant is a kind of relationship between men and women that is lighter than feelings, deeper than friendship and more innocent than a third party. A boy who can be a confidant of Lan Yan must be the best among boys. A woman who can have a blue confidant must be an understanding and intelligent woman.
Girls treat men and women's feelings much more simply than boys. Girls are naturally animals who love to talk. Moreover, the complexity of life, the pressure of job competition and psychological depression are inevitable. Finding a blue confidante who truly understands herself to listen to herself is less vanity than talking with her girlfriend. He can act like a spoiled brat and do something wrong properly, and he can tolerate it. Just think of him as his mother's brother. Compared with his lover, he has less emotional entanglements and inevitable injuries. Therefore, Lan Yan's confidant is of course a pleasant part of modern fast-paced life, and the popular Lan Yan's confidant is the drizzle that comes down to girls' hearts.
The most qualified confidante in girls' eyes:
Having a good harvest, being able to split the accounts with girls in coffee bars or bars, girls are not fond of confidantes; Boys who are absolutely noble in quality and single-minded in feelings can ensure that Lan Yan's confidant will not deteriorate in communication; With extensive knowledge, a boy who makes people empty his stomach after two chats, no one wants to continue with him, let alone be a confidante; Have good communication, understand the potential, be good at tolerance, and be able to walk into the hearts of girls.
If you choose an unmarried boy as your confidant, then the man must be mature and steady, able to read all the complicated things, and know how to share happiness and relieve suffering with others. Married boys should have the prerequisites to be blue confidants, and a stable and perfect marriage is the most important prerequisite.
Girls are looking for a blue confidante, which is different from boys'. Boys' confidantes should know each other, and more importantly, boys are eager for a red tea to add fragrance. Girls have no such desire for Lan Yan's bosom friend. Their emotional simplicity is a bit as clean and perfect as Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs in fairy tales. They can hold hands and dance in the forest, but the fingers they hold will never convey any complicated feelings between men and women.
In my opinion, confidante and confidante are both rare in our life. If you meet by chance, you should grasp it and cherish it; On the contrary, there is no need to look for it deliberately, because it lives in the gap between spouse and lover, and it is difficult to grasp the sense of proportion, especially those who have poor emotional self-control, and must not take this risk, which will hurt both sides in the end. Beauty and Blue Beauty Life Perceptions 2
No one is willing to be lonely, and no one is not eager for the friendship between the opposite sex. It is more attractive and more tense than the love between the same sex. If you can't say anything to the same sex or the same sex can't understand it, then if you have a brother or sister of the opposite sex, you can tell your brother or sister of the opposite sex without scruple that he will not only understand you, but also comfort you, care for you. If you have a brother or sister of the opposite sex, then you should be happy, such as rain and dew, nourishing every dry season.
Brothers and sisters are naturally different from lovers. The prerequisite for the establishment of two people is mutual appreciation and love, and then they step into the ranks of brothers and sisters step by step, but they will not talk about feelings with you, except love. He will always be your closest brothers and sisters, brothers and sisters of the opposite sex and the safest brothers and sisters that outsiders can't give you.
He appreciates you, he cares about you, and you associate with him only because you trust him. Knowing him is the safest bottom line for you. Knowing him is the person who will give you a towel when you get out and are scarred.
How many people will yearn for your pleasure, and how many people will long for this pure and good friendship. However, this situation, not everyone will have, this situation, will only collide between you and him. This feeling will further become a secular love between men and women. This situation, take a step back and become ordinary brothers and sisters, even passers-by. Measure, so it became the most important size between this situation.
The love between boys and girls is like climbing a mountain. Standing at the bottom of the mountain, the top of the mountain is covered with green flowers and warblers dancing around. As a result, your desire to climb has soared. Then, you climb to the top of the mountain step by step, regardless of the risk. Finally, you reached the top. The scenery on the top of the mountain is really perfect. First of all, the endless sky makes your heart intoxicated first. Butterflies come, birds are crisp, and occasionally a stream of water is mixed, and the sound is lingering with the joy of high mountains and flowing water. You are drunk, and there is only this infinitely perfect scenery in your heart, and between your ears and eyes, there is only this sweet and overlapping emerald.
It's just that you are hungry, which is perfect, and can only give you the enjoyment of your heart. And you, who grew up eating fireworks from the world, are not a fairy, you are not a flying bird, and you need food from the world to supplement your strength and fill your spirit.
So, you start to go down the mountain. The road down the mountain seems simple, but it is difficult step by step. First of all, without the joy of going up the mountain, all you can't wait for is hunger. Your children may be starving, and your lover may be in a mess. You, the last step fell to the bottom. You and he, each returned to their own home. Long-lost family warmth and affection nourish your heart.
so, you and he gradually faded away. So, you gradually drifted away from him. So, you and he still inevitably become passers-by. The most difficult and crucial thing between boys and girls is size. This size is difficult for too many people to grasp.
between boys and girls, if you can't stand the temptation, if you take that step, unfortunately you become his lover. If you can't be upgraded to a lover, if your feelings can't enter the marriage, then how many feelings can you stand the wind, frost, snow and rain? How many tears can withstand the collision of loneliness and injustice? Then, you raised yourself to the top of the mountain, and then, you began to face tears when you went down the mountain. So, you also inevitably become passers-by. Although, you are in tears, although, you are dripping blood.
Boys and girls-friendship-feelings-lovers-passers-by, this is the formula that thousands of people have come out with blood and tears. Either, you make yourself his lover, or, all you have to do is keep your heart and be his ordinary brothers and sisters with only gender differences. However, there is more tolerance, appreciation, understanding and tolerance than same-sex brothers and sisters. If you are wise, you will turn yourself into the same sex as others, although differences are inevitable. And this nuance is the key pleasure of making friends with him. Behind this difference is that you have already regarded him as a person with almost the same sex, so you are happy and you are not in danger.
Lover is always the saddest noun in the world. It has too many tears and too many disappointments. How strong is our weak heart to bear?
let's be brothers and sisters! Brothers and sisters are the best, with the fun between the opposite sex, but without the distress between lovers. If you have this friendship, you are happy, but you must make yourself extremely rational. If you cross that step, you will become painful. Bless you, with this friendship, thank you, and let others have this pleasure. Beauty and Blue Beauty Life Comprehension Chapter 3
There is inseparable affection and meaning between men's doubles. A woman who knows herself, reminds people of an intellectual woman, the man that boys dream of. She doesn't need to be beautiful or smart, but she must have an understanding heart, be able to understand and understand the pressure and troubles of boys from society and family, and be able to put forward her own opinions appropriately. She is willing to comfort the fragile heart of boys with self-gentleness, but she can remain calm enough, which can make you realize that it is more than lust.
An extramarital lover, a girl who has a physical connection outside marriage, is of course different from a mistress. Therefore, it is called a lover. Of course, there are necessary emotional elements in it. Perhaps it is because of an unfinished relationship before marriage that this extramarital affair has been achieved. Perhaps it is because of an unsatisfactory marriage that I met a bosom friend.
Maybe it's because of the help in the workplace or the acquaintance on the Internet that people fall in love with each other. However, there are many people who have extramarital affairs, from spiritual communication to physical entanglement. In fact, this distance is very close. The attraction of men and women makes the relationship between red and blue knowing each other ambiguous. Everyone has feelings. It's normal because of love. They simply solve problems for each other, but slowly begin to ask for each other.
But once there is a physical connection between men and women, many feelings will become very mysterious, so they will not simply solve problems for each other, but gradually start asking for each other. Can you make it clear whether this is a complex of knowing oneself by a pretty girl or knowing oneself by a blue girl?
Therefore, if a girl becomes a blue face and knows herself, she needs to have a decisive attitude. Even if she falls in love with each other involuntarily, she should keep a necessary distance, while a boy is indispensable to reason. Don't let hormonal impulses ruin this hard-won emotion. Physical stimulation is only a temporary pleasure, but spiritual communication is a long-term comfort. It is not easy to meet a heterosexual who knows herself and is willing to share it with herself in a sea of people.
In fact, every couple used to know each other, and it is precisely because of the initial affection that love begins. When they fall in love with each other, everything is so beautiful. She is gentle and careful, and he is considerate and tolerant. We are willing to share everything with each other, so * * * walked into the besieged city hand in hand, only to find that something slowly changed its taste. Couples and partners who broke up because of understanding abound. At this time, you will lose the desire to communicate. If you don't learn and understand to accommodate and tolerate, the marriage will be in crisis, and the rusty chain will be cut off.
Girls between men and women are also jealous. Even if you only know the spiritual communication with the beauty, it is not allowed by girls. Although you can all deal with this rare friendship with an open mind, the idea that another girl knows her husband better than herself will make girls feel hurt by their self-esteem as wives, and the extramarital lover is the boy who is the closest to themselves and is hated by girls. There will be the same intimacy with other girls. The thought of there will make the girls angry, and it is very likely that Lan Yan knows that she has come from it. The reason is not less than a kind of revenge and a physiological demand caused by hurting her self-esteem. No one can tell the boundaries.
But even though the girls are unwilling, the boys are still looking for it with their eyes wandering, so that the beauty who can relieve her mental stress can know that she has had an extramarital affair with someone who has vented her excess sexual desire, and then use the phrase "the person he loves most is still my wife" as an excuse for being restless. In fact, the boys never thought that when two people get along, there will always be boredom, and the aesthetic fatigue of marriage will not only happen to boys. Girls always make more sacrifices in marriage and family than boys, but in response to the helplessness of marriage, girls are not always ready to move like boys, but most girls are still trying to run this so-called home. Can you tell the right from the wrong?
Beauty or blue is destined to be just a passer-by in a boy's life, and the boy will eventually return to the plain marriage. Therefore, as a girl waiting in the plain marriage, she should learn and understand that boys should be allowed to have their own private space, and girls should also be allowed to have their own private space without breaking through the principle. That is, brothers and sisters who belong to themselves, no matter whether they are of the same sex or the opposite sex, leave a wonderful impression on themselves. You are allowed to be an emotional woman or man besides your family, know how to love others, and know how to love yourself more. As a responsible boy or girl, they will also know what to do and what not to do. This is life, brothers and sisters; Can you make it clear? Beauty and Blue Beauty's Life Comprehension Chapter 4
Wulin experts often talk about "confidante" in martial arts film and television dramas. A bosom friend is a bosom friend, and a beauty is her female friend to a man. There is a clear distinction between the female confidant and the right person in Jianghu. Because they mean what they say.
In the modern edition, there are also male friends in women's sexual life, which are called "blue confidants". Singer Chen Qianqian once wrote and sang a song with an eye-catching title: Lan Yan's bosom friend. There is a passage in the lyrics that says, "The heart is connected,