The most important thing is different ideological realm. Ordinary people have their own ideas and goals in life, and they will be proud when they realize them. When they encounter difficulties, they always try to overcome them. They are often angry and annoyed because they are not satisfied. "Buddhism" is different. As the name implies, it is a bit like a monk and nun who has nothing to want, and holds a pessimistic attitude towards life. Psychology, even if there is a lot to say, is condensed into such a few words. "All right, forget it, let's talk about it." "All right, it's up to you." "All right, no problem, I have no problem." "Whatever" and "whatever" will never make you angry. It is said that those monks don't even take the initiative to fall in love, and they are always waiting for fate. I believe that one day, the right person will fall from the sky with colorful clouds, and some people even have no requirements for their loved ones, just live. It doesn't matter if you can't find it. It's nice to be alone. This is unacceptable to "ordinary" people.