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One person said

:

The second mock test is over. Although the scores have improved, I know this is accidental. , I will still fail the college entrance examination. Self-denial

One said

:

My deskmate’s grades have never been as good as mine, but this time in the second model test, for some reason, he actually

He is one point taller than me, but I can’t stand him just looking at me. Circumstances hit you.

To build self-confidence, you must first learn to affirm yourself.

Everyone has innate talents and instincts. It just takes time to discover.

India’s greatest child prodigy discovered himself at the age of twelve and became

CEO

. Bill Gates

At the age of 19

he discovered

that he would not study Microsoft in college.

Poor Lincoln

He became president at the age of 66

.

Wang Guoquan

At the age of 29

he found himself

a public speaker giving a speech.

There is a movie "Fanny's Choice". Fanny is a math teacher in a wheelchair. After graduating from college

The Education Bureau wants to assign her to a school for disabled people

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Teaching

Because the people in the Education Bureau think she is disabled.

But she

did not think so. She thinks she is a normal person and she wants to teach in a normal school

. I taught for three years and was very successful.

A reporter was moved to interview her and report her story. Fanny did not allow reporters to interview. The reporter was surprised. Finn

Ni said

:

Because your point of view is wrong,

Do you think I am a disabled person

I am not disabled,

I sit in a wheelchair

just like some people wear glasses, it is just a cute flaw in a certain part of the body.

What is this

Self-understanding, self-understanding determines a person's world view and values.

Self-confidence can also be trained.

There are two methods.

The first smile training method. Come on, smile. Some classmates said that I am smiling but not smiling. It doesn't matter, just smile first.

To train your smile, you only need to train these two muscles. Open your mouth wider each time.

The second conditioned reflex method.

There is a zoologist named Pavlov.

The old man cannot come today.

I learned one of his conditioned reflexes

Experiments are brought. He specializes in training dogs. He locked a group of dogs in a cage and starved them for three days and three nights. The dogs

were very hungry,

and then took a piece of meat and dangled it outside.

At the same time, shake a bell and shake it,

Can the dog drool?

Water. meeting. After repeating it countless times, let the dog out and feed it. After feeding, shake it with a bell. I would like to ask if the dog will drool.

meeting. Because a conditioned reflex is established.

People's self-confidence can be achieved through conditioned reflexes.

Let’s do an experiment.

Please ask the teacher in white

suit below to come up.

It seems that this teacher is very popular. Applause and encouragement.

Teacher,

Today I am going to do a conditioned reflex experiment with you.

You are just the test subject.

What happened It has nothing to do with

you, so you must not be angry, but you must get into the role.

Assume that the young master is

21 this year

, and a big event happened in their family this year

:

His grandfather passed away

.

May I ask how he was feeling that day?

Very bad. Many relatives and friends came to express their condolences to him. Chinese people have a habit of

hitting someone on the shoulder when they meet someone and saying

:

My condolences and by the way. That time, forty relatives came, and they all did the same thing to express their condolences. How old will he be in nine years?

30

. One day it's his birthday.

How was his mood that day?

Very good. Many people want to celebrate his birthday. But there is a guy who doesn't understand anything at all. Pat his shoulder with your hand and say to him

:

Happy birthday. May I ask if his mood was joyful or sad when his hand touched this shoulder?

Sad. Because after forty times of tapping nine years ago, a sad conditioned reflex was formed in this place.

In neurolinguistic terms, a heart anchor was established.

It makes me sad when I encounter it

.

A classmate came to me

:

Teacher Wang, I have low self-esteem. My parents have given up hope on me, so I can do whatever I want

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Which batch will you take the exam for?

If you fail the exam, you can do business with them.

Our class teacher always squints at me,

I have low self-esteem,

Teacher Wang, how can I build up my confidence

Will he become confident in this way?

No. Because he doesn't understand the conditioned reflex of confidence.

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Now let’s train the conditioned reflex of confidence.

Come on, all together. Get up and stand for a while, otherwise you will suffer from a lack of oxygen to your brain.

Now imagine that you are very confident, how will you stand.

Keep your head up, chest out, and smile. Stretch out your left hand and tilt it up

45

degrees, stretch out your right hand and tilt it

down

45

Du, slap your right hand with your left hand and shout at the same time

: YES

. Come three times. Now

Don’t think about your lack of confidence. Just stand casually and follow my rhythm. The faster my rhythm is, the faster you

will be. The slower you will be, the slower you will be. . Come

May I ask how many relatives patted the teacher on the shoulder just now?

Forty.

Conditioned reflexes need to be repeated to establish.

Every time you take an exam if you are not confident enough

There is a singer named Jolin Tsai,

He has a song

"Signature Moves"

The signature movement means conditioned reflex.

Everyone must design a set of conditions that suits them.

Former British Prime Minister Churchill had a signature move

: V

Every time he stretched out these two fingers, he felt particularly confident.

Someone asked me why I couldn’t feel anything when I stretched out these two fingers.

Because this is not your signature move.

Signature moves must be repeated to build them.

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Someone asked

:

How do people succeed?

Some of my classmates are key In middle school, I couldn't compare to him.

I have interviewed

200

many successful entrepreneurs, and I found that the reason for their success is not their academic qualifications.

Some are highly educated, and some have not graduated from elementary school. They are successful

:

Simply because they are developing a successful habit.

Successful habits are important.

There is also a singer named Wu Sikai who has a song called "I'm Really Good". I made up a signature move for it.

Come with me.

Stretch out your little hands and fists, I am really good, I am really good, I am really really really good

I am really good.

You are too embarrassed to do it, right? It doesn't matter, none of the signature moves must be done by one person.

Tonight you hide in the bathroom alone, strip naked and do it. You can do it in the toilet or on the playground. Please

sit down.

Are you still exercising now?

If you don’t have time to exercise as the college entrance examination is approaching, don’t do it. Just do

radio gymnastics every day.

But when you do broadcast gymnastics, you are basically dealing with your principal.

This is a waste of youth.

I

require that in Jinqing Middle School, starting from tomorrow morning, the class teacher will take the lead in doing radio gymnastics every day.

A classmate asked

:

Should I take some nutritional supplements as the college entrance examination is approaching? If you need it psychologically, just eat it

but not physically. If you want to eat, eat some. If you don’t want to eat, don’t eat.

Some students said:

:

Teacher Wang, I can only study for three days. After three days of studying, I have no motivation and want to degenerate.

Where does the motivation come from?

The motivation comes from the beautiful imagination and longing for future life

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There is a young writer named Jiang Fangzhou,

17

years old. She has written many books. Her biggest dream is to be an actress

He won the Cannes Film Festival Award. Sometimes when she was too tired and didn't want to study, she would lock herself in the bathroom, use a bottle of shower gel as a microphone, and imagine what it would be like to stand on the podium:

Dear audience friends, I love you very much,

I am able to stand here today,

First of all, I want to thank my parents.

I will feel better after two minutes

I can continue studying.

Work

A student from Shengzhou Middle School was admitted to Zhejiang University last year.

This student is very interesting

:

Teacher Wang,

I hate China’s

education system deeply. , I have no interest in learning. Then how did you get into Zhejiang University? Force yourself.

Sometimes I don’t want to study,

I just close my eyes,

Imagine a beautiful life blueprint:

2004

On October 10

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the dim lights cast soft and romantic colors,

a Russian girl came forward

Say to me

:

Can you teach me Chinese

Ah, no problem.

When I think of this, I am motivated to study.

Why

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What?

Because if you don’t study hard, you won’t be able to get into Zhejiang University.

If you don’t get into Zhejiang University, you won’t be able to meet a Russian girl.

This guy

There is a Russian plot.

There is also a student whose grades are not very good, but he signed a gentleman’s agreement with his parents

:

If he succeeds in the college entrance examination, his parents

Agree to his request and send him to Italy for a visit. Last year, he scored 643 points in the college entrance examination. Why. When he put the agreement in his pocket every day, whenever he didn't want to read it, he would take it out and look at it, Italy, and do it, because he had a longing for Italy.

Some students said:

I am a general student. I can’t control myself as soon as I get home. I want to watch

TV

What to do if you waste time

online

I have a friend who works in Xiasha Development Zone, this year

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Years old, wearing a pair of glasses, handsome, working as the HR manager of a

joint venture, with an annual salary of 150,000, not bad. He came to me last year, Teacher Wang, and helped me introduce him to someone. I'm thinking he's asking too much. He said he had no requirements. One***Two

:

First, I want to find someone who is more introverted and simple. Pretty, no problem. Some are. The second is that he is busy with work and relatively reserved, so he requires girls to take the initiative to pursue him. There are also girls who take the initiative to chase boys, but the two together

No

anymore.

Will introverts chase you?

The person chasing you is still introverted.

I said do you really want to get married?

He said it seriously.

Then you

pay a little price.

At what cost.

Eliminate one of the two conditions.

He thought for a long time,

he couldn’t get rid of any of them.

Destined to be single.

Success in the college entrance examination comes at a price.

The five thousand years of Chinese civilization can only be summarized in one sentence

:

There is no free lunch in the world.

It is worth paying a little price for success in the college entrance examination, which will make your life without regrets.

Someone asked

:

If there is no change after working hard for the last few days, wouldn’t it be a big loss?

You have to pay a certain amount There will be rewards, but the rewards will be different sooner or later.

I was the best in Chinese in high school, but I only scored 54 points in the college entrance examination. I failed, right? It doesn’t matter, now it

has been repaid to me.

My language is particularly rich and

fluent.

It’s because of the large number of students in high school. Read the world's classics to lay the foundation.

Every effort will be rewarded, but the rewards will come sooner or later, so be patient.

Some students said:

The college entrance examination is approaching, and my life is in chaos. I used to go to bed on time at 10:30, but now

I can’t fall asleep.

When I want to sleep,

I immediately think of the enemies next to me who are studying hard.

I just can’t sleep.

My deskmate’s father has a good relationship with my father. We do business together, and they always discuss us together.

He wants

600

points,

I can only take

500

Points,

Every time my dad always compares him with me,

I can’t kill him

.

When I was studying in Hanggao,

there were three of us who had a very good relationship.

One was named Chen Moumou,

The other was named Kingdom Quan,

One is named Tao Moumou. The three of us worked very hard for three years. Chen Moumou was admitted to Zhejiang University, went to Germany to study,

and worked there. Wang Quan was admitted to an ordinary university, failed to become a doctor, and became a free speaker. Tao Moumou, after getting

the transcript,

his eyes were straightened,

the fifth batch.

Tao Moumou is now a secretary of the Lin'an Municipal People's Government.

A very young man, only

34 years old

a civil servant . If Chen Moumou were invited to come back to give you a speech today, he would not be able to say a single sentence. He is very introverted.

If I were asked to be the secretary in Lin'an, they would kill me in three days.

Everyone has a different path in life, do you agree?

Agree

Everyone has a different personality,

specialties It’s different.

This is the need for social division of labor.

There is no such thing as expensive work

*

.

The one that suits you is the best.

What is courage when you are born?

Two acceptances

:

One is to accept oneself, and the other is to accept reality.

What does it mean to accept oneself

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All men,

As long as they are normal men,

Everyone wants to be tall and handsome.

I have accepted myself since college.

My talents are not high anyway, so I told myself

:

I have to pay them back. Can.

What does it mean to accept reality?

On the 10th of March

, I went to Taishun, Wenzhou Give a speech and prepare to give a speech at Ouhai Middle School after finishing the class. I drive myself

not very fast, only

74 yards

on a straight road without a single pedestrian. In an inconspicuous

place,

there is a speed limit sign

: 30 yards

.

Someone was taking pictures,

There were four policemen waiting for me in front.

Caught in,

Fine

1500

yuan, deducted six points, there is such a dark place, there is no other way, just do it But they paid the money obediently, and also said:

Thank you and goodbye. Never seen again.

You guys

In your future lives, you will encounter many unfair and helpless things, but this is reality

You must accept it. .

You are now taking the second model test

300

points,

400

points,

500

Points,

600

Points are not important, what is important is the fact

You must Accept it. As long as you dare to accept your

300

points,

400

points,

500

Points,

600

points, you

dare to make

350

Points,

450

Points,

550

Points,

650

The target of points, whether you can achieve

550

points is not

important, what is important is that you start from

500

Point to point

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Share this hard-working process. Because in this process you have cultivated many qualities and abilities that successful people must have.

This is the most important wealth in your life.

Everyone, do you

understand?

Understand.

A classmate asked

:

My grades are not very good, can I skip the college entrance examination? No, it doesn’t matter which school you take the college entrance examination to.

What’s important is that if you give up on the college entrance examination,

you will develop a mentality of giving up. Get used to it,

Whatever difficulties you encounter in the future

you will be able to handle them easily.

There is a tightrope master Wallenda in the UK, who walks the tightrope very gracefully and elegantly. Never make a mistake.

But in the last performance of the 1950s,

actually fell down and died in front of the concept.

His wife said I had a premonition

something was going to happen

:

My husband never thought about the outcome when he walked a tightrope before.

He was just walking,

so he walked very successfully.

Tell me before going on stage for the last time

:

Dear, this is the last performance in my life, I must give it to the audience

A beautiful impression and memory, only allowed to succeed and not allowed to fail, fell down, why, because the attention was distracted

.

Many students have begun to think about it before they have even taken the college entrance examination

:

What to do if they fail the college entrance examination

What if they get into third place in the college entrance examination? Praise your family

What to do if you don’t have money to study

Everyone,

Don’t think about it,

That will never happen,

You only have to face today.

You just have to tell yourself

:

I must succeed today. Then you will have a bright future. There is an old Chinese saying

:

When the car reaches the mountain

there must be a road.

A Western philosopher once said:

There are two major pains in life. One is not getting what you want, the other is getting what you want. Do you know what it means?

He told you

:

The result is just a matter of a moment. The joy is over when you succeed, and the pain is over when you fail

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When the array is over, it will all pass. The most important thing in life is that wonderful process.

Finally, I end my speech today with a story.

In the country of Israel,

there is a very beautiful plant.

The name of the plant is desert rose.

When you look at this rose

it doesn’t look like a rose at all, it looks like dead grass. Israeli friends tell you

:

Don’t be anxious, bring it back to your Chinese mainland

Put it in the water and observe it for eight days. , you will definitely find it is the most beautiful rose. You don't believe it.

When I woke up on the first morning,

I found a bud bursting out from the middle of the withered grass.

It has some vitality but is not beautiful.

The second morning

The innermost petal opened.

The second petal opened on the third day.

On the fourth day, the third petal

opened,

you found it a bit beautiful,

on the eighth day, all The petals opened one after another,

You found that it is really

beautiful. Suppose a neighbor comes to your house on the eighth day, and you tell him excitedly

:

Boys, they all have beautiful roses.

Does he have any? Feeling

No

Why

Because he only saw one result.

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Friends,

In the course of your life’s struggle,

your parents, teachers and classmates,

All other people see

What they see at most is only one result of yours,

and it is a staged result.

So don’t care too much about what others think about you.

How they talk about you is not important.

Only you are always with you. Keep yourself,

Silently endure all

your pressure, your pain, your troubles, your life. As long as you have a clear conscience, are worthy of yourself, work hard every day, be happy every day, and be successful every day, then you will be the most beautiful rose.

Friends, I wish you success in the college entrance examination.