True masculinity. True masculinity is when a man always plays a decisive role in society, work unit, and family. He lives in harmony and respects each other with his wife, and brings happiness and security to his wife and children. feel. His words and deeds are convincing and admirable. He understands his wife's shortcomings rationally and emotionally in order to correct them. The true manifestation of machismo is that men always play a decisive role in society, work units, and families. Although this man often shows his dominance, he can shoulder the burden of life and bring happiness and security to the people around him; He is consistent in his words, convincing and admirable, and can be appreciated by his wife; he has a tolerant and generous heart as a man, and will not care about his wife for trivial matters. He takes protecting his wife and children as his own responsibility, so he can be appreciated by his wife. respect. The specific manifestations of this kind of doctrine in the family are: He believes that it is his duty to take care of his wife and children. It is his fault that his wife and children are cold, hungry, and wronged, and he will feel sad; he does not let his wife worry about him, When he is wronged outside, he resists alone; he does not take the initiative to provoke a war against his wife and convinces others with reason. He knows that quarreling cannot solve the problem. Even if he gets angry again, he will not hit his wife; outside, his wife has to give him face. You don’t have to lose face at home; tell all your mistakes at home, even though he is verbally dissatisfied, but he will accept his wife’s suggestions in his heart; although he doesn’t talk about his love for family, he will keep his wife and children in his heart; he will pay attention to his wife’s life He will put forward constructive suggestions, but will not force his wife; he is magnanimous, trusts his wife, and trusts her; he is generous to his friends, cherishes every friendship, and even goes to the trouble of hurting his friends. Evaluation of machismo: Women have the most say in whether a man’s machismo is right or wrong! The same is "macho chauvinism", but the two realms are very different. The "macho chauvinism" advocated by women is a gentle way of managing love, rather than a condescending oppression and domination. When a woman recalled her romantic story with her "overbearing" husband, her face was filled with enviable sweetness. Many years ago, this woman and her husband were poor students. On the way home from an outing, the two of them were tired and hungry, so he took her to a snack bar to rest. They each ordered what they liked to eat, but when they touched their money bags, they found that there was not much money left. The money could have bought two portions of cheap but satiating steamed buns, but he did not hesitate to buy her favorite beef rice noodles. He knew that southerners like rice noodles but not pasta. She suggested that he buy more steamed buns to satisfy his hunger, but he said in a very firm tone: "I have decided!" The woman, who was already a mother, recalled that moment and said sweetly: "At that moment, I was stunned! I I liked how domineering he was at that time." Next, she wanted to share it with her. He said, "I don't want to eat it. I bought it for you. I like to watch you eat it." He brought the beef rice noodles in front of her, took apart the chopsticks, picked up a few strands, and blew a sip before putting it in front of her. : "Come, let me feed you...be careful!" At that moment, it was as if they were the only two people in the world. She was completely conquered by him. Such a domineering man revealed a sense of security in his bones. It turns out that women do not reject all the domineering ways of men. Whether they are women or gay men, they all naturally admire and fear the masculinity of men. Men in the new era seem to have eliminated the dross of traditional masculinity in a timely manner, but they have maintained the original core advantages of "powerful" and "responsible" and promoted the characteristics of calmness, decisiveness, reliability, and calmness. Just like Shi Guangrong in the TV series "The Years of Passion" who can spank his wife. Although he is a bit domineering, he loves his wife in his heart. Because no matter how the times change, a man's character traits cannot change and his masculinity cannot be lost. [Edit this paragraph] What should men do? The reason why a man is a man is because he is born with the obligation to make the person he loves happy. This obligation requires love to fulfill. Without love, it is impossible to give, and it is impossible to fulfill the natural obligations of men, so not all men are born to be men. Men also need to constantly cultivate themselves, develop a broad mind, and be willing to contribute, and become a good man. Love requires tolerance and tolerance. It can give the people you love the freedom to act coquettishly and willfully, even some shortcomings and mistakes that have nothing to do with principles. The deeper the love, the more this tolerance comes from the heart and becomes an inner quality, a natural expression of love.

Mencius said: "Wealth and honor cannot be fornication, poverty and lowliness cannot be moved, and power cannot be surrendered." A true man should be like this. No matter who you associate with, you must adhere to one principle: "Personality is the trademark of a man, loyalty is the connotation of a man, justice is the pursuit of a man, and dignity is the skeleton of a man." The manifestations of old-style machismo include machismo ideas A man, whether in the family or in society, discriminates against his wife's ability and status, believing that all power is in the hands of the man, and that he has the final say in everything, and his wife is not allowed to know or interfere in any matter, big or small. Regardless of the right or wrong of the matter, what he said was right. At any time, he could not lower his head high in front of his wife. When it comes to treating his wife, there is basically no emotional and spiritual communication. He does everything he wants. If he doesn't get what he wants, he will scold her, and he will fight with fists and kicks whenever he wants. He never cares about the feelings of the other party. The same is true in the life of a couple. You can have sex whenever you want, regardless of the physical condition of the other person