Generally, boys have to use tricks to chase girls: First, what kind of first impression should be left on MM (time: just starting to contact MM) 1, so that MM can see your self-motivation. The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't be "successful" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should make MM feel that you are a self-motivated person. 2. Be confident and responsible. Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility. It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all. Three, three, not too serious, but not too casual. Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed. Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull. 4, 4, a man who seems a little mature, calm and calm has a fatal attraction to MM. Second, how to further contact MM (time: the stage of starting chasing) 1. The most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others. Think about it. Most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun Fat, Andy Lau or kevin costner). Good feelings need to be realized through constant understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want. Think about it from the girl's point of view: if you rush directly to have sex, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find that I don't like you after a while, it won't be a lie, will it? So if you come out resolutely from the beginning, you will basically be bored back immediately. 2. To start with a low profile, we must first position the relationship as "friends", which is originally "ordinary friends". You want to be a "good friend". A tasteful person can also ask the other person to become a "confidante" or something. In short, don't say "chasing you". Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then there is less chance for a girl to "refuse" you-how can you refuse if you don't chase her? ! This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to marry you after three days. You should communicate fully and understand that feelings don't come out of thin air. 3, don't be too impatient in the communication process, relax, don't pester others all day, whoever does this to you will be tired. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years). Staying with people all day, naturally you won't think you are good. If you are indifferent for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your existence. Also, don't take out the ambition of "you don't want to marry" It is not good for the price to drop too low. Sometimes you can play a little trick. For example, if I keep calling and texting every day, MM must be a little annoyed at first, but if I don't hate you, I won't be aggressive to you. When the harassment reaches a certain level, I will stop for a while. At this time, MM will feel why she hasn't called me recently. What's more, she may even think about how to stop harassing me. I will wonder if she likes him, and this will start to be fooled! 4. Create opportunities appropriately. As I said before, don't do "you are chasing others" right away. You need to get a chance to get close to girls, so it depends on your creativity. You can collect information and find ways to turn waiting for rabbits into encounters; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite someone to do something with you. For example, it's freezing in rainy days, and I'm not afraid to send an umbrella to send warm in cold weather, so I finally wait for the romance of walking in snowy days. Speaking of Zhang Heng, count the stars back to back at night! But be careful. Give MM a good umbrella and a broken umbrella when giving her an umbrella. Maybe MM will invite you to play an umbrella together. Pay attention to MM's warmth when walking in the snow, and it is best not to let MM wait on the dirty grass when going out to count the stars. In short, MM must think that you are considerate, but you must not be forced! In short, this is the most technical place. If it is really not feasible, you can consult your predecessors. 5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually. Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo. As the saying goes, "something for nothing". You are putting pressure on others by giving them something like this. People will feel indebted to you, so they will try to repay you. If there is no way to pay you back, they will try to stay away from you so as not to owe you a favor all the time. If you want to show your sincerity, please invite girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat or an expensive place to play together. Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people, not taken home. Third, what is a "girlfriend"? 1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise. You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good friends who talk about everything". On a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" held her hand; In "Willow Shoot on the Moon", you suddenly attack and kiss her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are her boyfriend. I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!" " So, don't rush to pierce enough paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you. 2. What is "confession"? As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem. They always feel that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what? I can only say that they are very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid". 3. Have you ever had to confess? Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while. At this time, confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. It is similar to the grim situation when playing Go. The backward side was forced to release the "winning hand". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck. However, if you are a third party, you don't have to use confession. It's not Ann's heart at all, it's equivalent to taking off your pants and farting. It is easier to seduce MM if you don't confess. 4. Don't export the word "love" easily. I often see "bold confession" in the forum. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a responsibility. What's more, your intention of chasing MM may be that MM is beautiful or sexy! So not saying it also lightens the responsibility for yourself! A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible, except, of course, the special one. Unless a boy really loves a MM to madness, it will be very painful to really love someone, and there will be no more ideas and tricks, so it would be a pity if this MM doesn't cherish it! Fourth, civilized love, can't force 1, not every MM can catch up with a good girl, there will always be many people chasing it, it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes, and there will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the principle of chasing MM, you can't catch up with either twin. Look at the problem from another angle. Even if a rural nanny who has never graduated from primary school is kind to you, earning 600 yuan a month and buying you 700 yuan as a gift (overdraft), and willing to be a cow and a horse for you, you will not fall in love with her. If she cries and pesters you every day, you must feel bored. So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance. 2. Chasing MM is a serious social activity. Don't bother others, but leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some MMS are snobs (few). If you are not convinced, you can prove with facts that "she was blind at that time". Never mistake others for yourself. The above methods are the most practical methods and practical knowledge. If you can really master most MM, you can get it. Of course, this process is well-intentioned and requires a lot of time, energy or money. Moreover, this method is not only suitable for chasing MM who has no boyfriend, but many tricks are also very feasible for chasing MM who likes but has a boyfriend. After all, having a boyfriend and the habit of a certain period of time have diluted the initial romance or passion, not to mention that many girls hope that other boys will like to pursue themselves even if they have boyfriends. After all, the pursuit of fresh excitement has been integrated into many modern people's spiritual concepts! And there is a strange phenomenon that most beautiful women are more likely to be chased by bad men and women who can use tricks or even "love" each other. Commitment to each other is a trivial matter, not to mention being dumped and still trapped inside. Men with worries had better not abuse it. The result of promiscuity is endless for themselves! Of course, I also kindly advise MM who has a boyfriend not to be confused by this means. What he has is the most valuable. Everything a man does in the process of pursuing a woman must make you feel good and perfect. Nonsense, I feel that I am not good enough to catch up with you. Maybe you will regret it for the rest of your life. If you don't listen to advice, it's too late to regret it! Finally, it shows that all methods must be for reference only, must be absorbed and digested by users, and can be used flexibly to achieve positive results.