Recently, the popularity of Shanghai celebrities' spelling events exposed on the Internet has only increased. From the chat records, in order to live a luxurious life envied by others, these girls eat top-class afternoon tea, use luxury goods, stay in luxury hotels and even wear brand-name socks together. After these chat records were exposed, they were attacked and ridiculed by many netizens. They felt that the ultimate goal of this extreme vanity was to catch a rich man.

Many people think that this kind of behavior belongs to losing themselves. For the envy of others and their vanity, they package themselves as so-called celebrities. A girl in the celebrity group said that many people in the group were greatly affected by this exposure, and some people even dared not go out. However, this girl thinks that there is nothing wrong with living the life she wants, without stealing the interests of others or hurting others, and is relatively calm.

in life, what do we often do? Spell the bill? Some people spell it to make up the bill, some people spell it to save some money, and some people spell it to live a luxurious life. In fact, it is the difference in lifestyle, so why is this lifestyle criticized by everyone? Because it is too illusory, society is realistic, and it will beat you back to your original shape at any time. Moreover, when you are extravagant but incapable, people close to you may be scrimping and saving, and the relaxation of one person is that someone is carrying the burden behind you. But we have to think about such a question, why do some people have such an idea? Is it caused by the environment or other reasons?

In big cities, the class gap is too obvious, but we didn't break through our own class through study, didn't go to a particularly good school, and couldn't meet outstanding people. The family background is average, and there are too many ordinary people. Therefore, people who want to live a good life and break through their own class begin to go awry, and attract upper-class people from outside, resulting in the existence of Shanghai celebrities. This method is not desirable, but it can let them know people who are higher than their own class. I think what is behind this is the changed consumption concept of the younger generation under the pressure. When? Celebrity? When they send out punch cards in the circle of friends, what they want is to show off that everyone can see through it.

I think it's more? These luxuries are just so much, and I have experienced them for dozens of dollars. What you enjoy is the pleasure of implicitly belittling the added value of brand trademarks and trampling on the sense of distance of luxury brands.

Maybe you can get into the circle of some big shots by this calculation, but will you really belong to this circle if you get into the circle? It's impossible to make friends, let alone boyfriend and girlfriend. They have money, and their material life is guaranteed. On the contrary, they can give more consideration to the other qualities of the other half. Their marriage does not depend on money, and they can take their time in finding a partner. It is better to choose a person who is really comfortable with each other and is more helpful to their children's education and wealth inheritance.

It is everyone's right to choose the life you want, but don't be blinded by desire. What is happier than enjoying luxury should be economic independence, instead of spending the money of retired parents or others, eating their own meat without even drinking soup, and taking it for granted, immersed in a virtual world and unable to extricate themselves. Greedy for vanity, in order to enjoy life and pretend to be forced to do everything, including but not limited to the group of celebrities, but in real life, they may just be the most corner of the crowd. They are very ordinary and ordinary, with average appearance, average figure, average ability and average economic conditions, in other words, they have no sense of existence, so they are eager to get the attention of others, so it is only an affordable and easy-to-use means to package themselves on the Internet.

instead of being admired by everyone in the imaginary identity, it is better to let others admire you with your real strength, which is firm and long-lasting. Although material enjoyment can bring people temporary happiness, the pain after enjoyment is beyond measure.

Real celebrities don't wear gold and silver to show off their wealth. Their most precious wealth is knowledge, self-restraint and temperament. Just like Meng Wanzhou, she has a strong aura and calm temperament, which can't be packaged by money alone. Instead of using what is called? Beautiful? To attract others, it is better to improve your ability to please yourself.