"If anyone does not serve himself, he will be punished by heaven and earth." Everyone has more or less stimulating thoughts, but there are too few people who can truly be selfless. But when you are faced with a situation where the people around you are very selfish and you have to deal with them all the time, it is very annoying and troublesome.

The first thing we have to do is to correct our thoughts, since we already know that he is this kind of person. Then don't care too much about everything with him. Most selfish people are self-centered and only seek profit. Within the scope that you can tolerate, for example, some small discounts such as food and drink, give more benefits to the other party, and still follow the principle of getting along with each other in a friendly manner. But selfish people sometimes have very negative thoughts. At this time, we should not be influenced by their thoughts, which will lead us to become that kind of person. This is a particularly taboo issue in work and life.

Secondly, we must adopt the correct communication method when facing selfish people. They are very petty and care about everything. This requires us not to be emotional when communicating with them, let alone say bad words or hurt others. Give the other person enough respect. Although sometimes he doesn't respect you, we can't lose the basic principles of life. When two people have a dispute over something, the wise thing to do is to walk away and wait for both parties to calm down before talking about the matter. Effective communication is required.

Finally, selfish people have an essential problem with their character. If they are not your close friends, then use your sincerity and kindness to be more tolerant of them, and use your sincerity to move them and let them feel it. to the beauty of friendship. If it's an ordinary colleague, I suggest you not to make any changes to him. It's not nerve-wracking enough. It's a thankless effort and you might even end up making a fuss, saying you're fawning over them. The wisest way is to keep a certain distance from him. The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and that's fine.