Jiangpo is a neighbor of her hometown. Because her surname is Jiang and she is married to the Deng family, everyone calls her Jiang Po, which is respectful and polite.
When Mrs. Jiang was young, she never went to school and worked hard. Regular facial features, exquisite facial features and slender figure are a "flower" in rural areas. She married the Deng family and gave birth to two sons and a daughter. The eldest son suffered from brain inflammation when he was a child, which delayed treatment. He is a bit silly and energetic, and has never talked about his daughter-in-law in his life.
The second son, who has never been to school, is tall, burly and square. It is said that the daughter-in-law has an eye disease and tears in the wind. The needle and thread must be under her eyes, otherwise she can't see.
When we moved to the compound and became neighbors, the production team measured the size, and the border of Fiona Fang was marked by stumps from house to house, so the rules were excluded.
A large family, Jiangpo's daughter-in-law gave birth to two granddaughters and a grandson. Walking in front of people is arrogant, as if winning is in the bag. Liu's youngest daughter, Zhu, graduated from junior high school. She has a pair of bright eyes, a high nose, smooth lips, beautiful skin, waist-length hair and a standard beauty embryo.
Ju and Ye in this village have been in free love for two years. After Ye went to work in the city, he asked to dissolve the marriage relationship. It is estimated that Ye has a favorite person in the city, and dislikes the low chrysanthemum culture, thick voice and heavy burden at home. People in the village know their roots, are close to each other, and have no secrets. Matchmaking is also a matter of choosing between the east and the west.
Ye graduated from high school and went to work in a factory in the city. He has a high eye and naturally despises chrysanthemums. Chrysanthemum was unwilling to give Ye the best time of her youth. She took care of Ye's parents for two years, in exchange for being abandoned. Kikuji really loved Ye and waited for half a year. As a result, the news that Ye got married in the city came. In desperation, Ju went to learn sewing and opened a sewing shop in the town, hoping to find a good husband's family.
Grandma Jiang praises how excellent chrysanthemums are when she meets people. She is 1 m 78, shoulder by shoulder, an expert in farming and good at needlework. There are many matchmakers, but none of them are more than Ye, and Chrysanthemum doesn't like them, so she has to choose her own husband.
The pigsty on Jiangpo is next to my house, which is just the dividing line. I don't know for what purpose, Jiang Po's eldest son moved the stone bar of the dividing line and expanded his home's territory inch by inch. When my mother found out, she asked Jiang Po what was going on. With her left hand akimbo and her right index finger pointing at her mother, Jiang Po shouted that her mother had wronged her and cried and accused her of "committing a crime".
Jiang Po's two sons, one with a shovel, stood beside Jiang Po like a fairy, waving "weapons" up and down, trying to fight. Make mom angry and defend her sovereignty. The quarrel is getting louder and louder, and Jiang Po and her mother are cursing each other. Grandma came out to stop the fight, and the reason was not loud. Grandma Jiang wants to call her sister. She can bully her mother and her weakness. For grandma, arrogance disappeared more than half, half of which came from grandma's esteem, and the other half, Jiang Po was no match for grandma at all.
Grandma is polite and knowledgeable. She was the director and battalion chief of the Women's Federation. Speak in an attitude that emphasizes efficiency, fact-based and fairness. People don't attack me, I don't attack. If someone offends me, I will take revenge. Under grandma's powerful gas field, Jiang Po faded away and took the initiative to withdraw from the "front line" and returned to her original position.
The advantage of a big yard is that where there is noise, there are people walking around, and it is not too big for many people to watch. Everyone stood at a distance, whispering and talking. Generally speaking, people surnamed Deng naturally stood on Jiang Po's side, apparently stopped fighting, but actually secretly formed a gang. As a foreigner, it is inevitable that you will be bullied by your neighbors. Grandma always taught me not to be greedy and cheap, but to study hard and stay away from this place of trouble.
People who are centered on Jiang Po are narrow-minded, love to take advantage, short-sighted, gossip and talk about other people's privacy and shortcomings after dinner.
At that time, the living conditions were poor, and it was impossible to maintain food and clothing only by planting a few acres of thin land. After the separation of Jiangpo's second son's family, there were only two acres of land for five people to eat. Especially in the spring and March, the green and yellow are not connected, so I ate the last meal and didn't eat the next one. Borrowing food everywhere, grandma pities three young children and often gives them a bag of dried sweet potatoes.
Jiang Po and her daughter-in-law are at odds. They quarreled for three days and five days. They dislike that their daughter-in-law will not live. If they had food, there would be no famine. Jiang Po loves her son dearly and often cooks good food. She told her son and grandson to eat more, added salt and vinegar to speak ill of her daughter-in-law, which made her son and daughter-in-law fight at home.
The contradiction escalated further, and the daughter-in-law and Jiang Po were at odds. The two granddaughters joined forces with their mother and hated Jiang Po. Daughter-in-law's eyes are bad and her mouth is unforgiving. Jiangpo can't take advantage of her daughter-in-law.
Chrysanthemum finally pays photogenic to get married, and the town talked about the object, which is more handsome than Ye. The people on the edge of the Han River have three rooms and a few acres of land, and their lives are rich and stable. Jiang Po exhaled with foreign flattery and sent six betrothal gifts to her daughter's house. A few years later, Ju gave birth to a son and a daughter, and the family was very happy.
199 1 year, our family tore down the old house to build a new one, and Mrs. Jiang played the fool and made trouble for us. Trying to stop us from building a house, throwing dung on the dug roof, sneaking around, holding a kitchen knife, slapping her wooden door, and singing a big drama to provoke our bottom line. Said that my house blocked her sunshine and blocked her wealth.
We turned a deaf ear, went our own way and did our best. Silence is the best shield. Grandma Jiang played a prank on her. We invited two classes and more than 50 people to help build the house. Two months later, the new house was built. My father has a thoughtful plan. He prepared all the wood, erected beams, mined slates, carried them home, and built the roof several years in advance.
1992, Jiangpo's husband died of illness, and Jiangpo was depressed for half a year. Behind her back, she said that we built a house and moved the "wind" of his house. Chrysanthemum went home to make Jiang Po happy and took the money left by her father. She scraped together some money, bought a van, and asked her husband to run passenger transport to earn money.
Jiang po thought that her son couldn't count on it, and she couldn't keep herself. When he is old, he has to rely on his daughter. Besides, the money is also there. Why not give the son-in-law a side road, open a sewing shop, and take care of the children in all kinds of places, so that the whole family can live.
As the saying goes, the palms of the hands are all meat, and a bowl of water is flat, so are children. Jiang po didn't. She is too poor to love the rich. She is good to her daughter's family, but not to her son's. When you break up, you should keep it for yourself. My son's land is far and barren. When the crops are harvested, we need food, and we have to pay local taxes and national taxes. After the toss, the family's food and clothing became a problem.
/kloc-in the winter of 0/993, Jiang Popo's son owed taxes to 500 yuan, and a group of people in the brigade forcibly took away the fat pig he had fed for a year to pay off his debts. Jiang Po's son is 47 years old, crying and desperate, and his only thought is to be hacked to death alive. He is in pain. A family that doesn't even have enough to eat can't afford to pay taxes! In the face of government workers, Jiang Popo did not go forward to fight for respect and face for her son. Instead, she felt that her son was timid and humiliated her.
Jiang Popo's daughter-in-law and her mother-in-law are in a production team, and her mother and grandmother secretly help. I have guests at home, and the rest of the meat, vegetables and bone soup are quietly asked to eat. The family is yellow, hungry and thin, and severely malnourished. Jiang Po turned a blind eye to her daughter-in-law and granddaughter. Her family is rich, but she is too lazy to help her son.
In those years, everyone who had the means went out to work. Jiang po's son has no education and can't read. He is afraid of going out to work. He was afraid of being bullied outside, he couldn't get paid for his work, he couldn't find his way home, and he died in a foreign country. Set limits for yourself. It is better to be poor at home and struggle in misery. The eldest daughter is twelve, the second daughter is nine and the youngest son is seven. It is when they grow up that soup and water are experiencing life.
There is a large population at home, so how to help is a drop in the bucket and can't solve practical problems. Everyone's life is very difficult. She can't open her mouth and borrow nothing, which not only loses her self-esteem, but also hurts her feelings.
1late spring of 994. Jiang Po's son drank a bowl of corn grits in the morning. Help others carry sand, five kilometers uphill, five yuan for one hundred catties. The road is blocked, and it is all carried by manpower. Jiang Po's son was forced to recite it twice, singing "Empty City Plan" with his stomach chirping, his legs trembling, and he walked erratically, seeing stars and stumbling.
I want to fight for money, but I don't have the strength. The more I think about it, the angrier I get. My mother is partial to her elder sister and invests all her money in her elder sister. My mother has food and sweet potato chips, but she doesn't eat them herself. There is no hope of living. I am really hungry!
When he reached the Han River, Jiang Po's son jumped into the river while no one was watching. Someone saw it and immediately dived into the water to save it. Helpless, the Han River is choppy and brave. In the blink of an eye, people were gone.
The kind folks immediately sent a message to Jiang Po. Jiang Po and her daughter-in-law cried their eyes out. Mrs. Jiang took out money and invited three boats to salvage and rescue. Unfortunately, it took three days to find the body from the sandbar 15 km away. My whole body is swollen and my stomach is bulging. Please have it taken home and buried. The daughter-in-law is completely dumbfounded, and she has no money and no ability. All she knows is that she is crying her way to life. Jiang Po buried her son with money to make up for her lifelong guilt.
Jiang Po's daughter-in-law went back to her parents' house with three children. Later remarried. If Mrs. Jiang is kind to her daughter-in-law, her daughter-in-law will not leave. My son is missing. Every year in Tomb-Sweeping Day and during the Chinese New Year, the daughter-in-law leads her three children to visit her father's grave, and always visits Jiang Po with gifts. Grandma Jiang is arrogant and indifferent to her grandchildren. Later, I gradually lost contact.
Grandma Jiang is old, and her eldest son has been around to help with farming. Grandma Jiang instructs him in his work. Jiang Po often stays at Ju's house for a month and a half. If you are sick, you have to wait in front of the chrysanthemum bed.
In this way, Jiangpo, who worked hard all his life, died at the age of 88. Ju returned to her hometown and buried Jiangpo.
Jiang Po's eldest son is almost seventy years old and has become a five-guarantee household in the team. After that, all the people in the team were buried in the mountains, and all the inheritance was inherited by Ju.
Jiang po's life passed like this. Isn't everything in the world like this?