When I was in college, I wanted to continue my graduate studies, but my family thought that studying for an undergraduate course was enough, and it was useless for girls to read so many books.
I worked hard to make money after graduation, but my family kept urging me to find a rich man to marry a stable one.
In the eyes of too many people, it seems that we are born to live by someone, so only by making extra efforts can we break the gender prejudice and live an independent life in live high. I have to say that women's lives are often a little more difficult. Life will never give you special treatment because you are a woman, and the outside world will put a heavy yoke on you. But really smart women know that no matter what the outside world thinks, no matter how hard life is, independence is always a woman's greatest confidence in this life. Zang Jianhe, the founder of Wan Chai Wharf and the dumpling queen, passed away, ending her legendary life.
As a giant in the frozen food industry, many people never thought that Wan Chai Wharf, a huge business empire, was completely supported by a woman. Zang Jianhe was born in a poor family. At the age of fourteen, she had no choice but to drop out of school and began to work as a nurse in a local hospital, helping patients to wipe their bodies and change their medicines every day. During this period, she met an overseas Chinese in Thailand, and they fell in love quickly, formed a family, and gave birth to two lovely daughters after marriage. I thought my future life would be carefree. Unexpectedly, in the sixth year after marriage, my husband said that he wanted to go back to Thailand first, and then come back to meet the mother and daughter as a group. As a result, there was no news of this trip, and Zang Jianhe waited alone for three years with his two daughters.
Later, she decided to go across the ocean to find someone, but unexpectedly her husband inherited the property in Thailand, married a wife and gave birth to a son. Zang Jianhe's life suddenly disappeared. Unwilling to be humiliated in Thailand, she resolutely took her two daughters to Hong Kong. When she first arrived in Hong Kong, she was penniless, working three odd jobs every day and sleeping only three or four hours a day. She made a wooden car with the HK$ 500 she earned and began to sell jiaozi on the car.
In this way, Zang Jianhe gradually established Wan Chai Wharf, the first brand of frozen food in Hong Kong, from a stall vendor, and made his own business empire. Fate was unfair to her, but she never gave up, even though she stumbled all the way. She created her own happiness even though there was no one to rely on.
Zang Jianhe is a legend. We may not be the other, but when a woman walks out of her life on her own, even if she is ordinary, she will shine. Everyone can be his own light.
CCTV News once interviewed Gu Yafen, an employee of an ordinary cake shop. In order to make customers wait a little longer, she developed the skill of quickly holding cakes, and later set a Guinness World Record for holding 20 cakes in 7 seconds.
In preschool, she only has a primary school education and knows nothing but cakes. For many people, this kind of life may be dull in this life. But Gu Yafen has created his own miracle in this ordinary post. She never resigned herself to fate, and slowly opened her own cake shop with a lonely voice.
Business was difficult at first, but through her persistence, she gradually established a reputation, business became better and better, and more and more stores were opened.
As she said: it may not be bad to find a way and go straight to the dark life. We thought it was impossible to live a successful life, so why not work miracles elsewhere? On a central street in Heihe, Heilongjiang, northeast China, there is a girl with a barbecue stall selling barbecue. Because of her generous personality and enthusiasm, the magical mantra of "coming, brother" made her quickly become popular on the Internet, attracting more than one million fans.
Many people went to see her because they wanted to hear about her "Laige". At the same time, their popularity is high and their business is booming. However, many people are popular, and many people laugh at her, saying that she is ugly, unable to cook on the table, and incapable. Why can she be popular? Sister Yaozi doesn't understand why she is angry, but she has a peaceful attitude towards it. She always thinks that she is just an ordinary barbecue elder sister, and online celebrities are not that important to her. She just wants to open a shop and do a good job in the barbecue shop.
Life is like this, no matter how ordinary life is, it will have its own light. You have to believe that when you live your life seriously, someone will find the light on you and light up your future. In the first issue of Quiet Distance, Jing Li, the host, worked overtime to interview Deng. She asked, "What do you admire most about Sun Li?" Deng Chao thought for a moment and replied, "It should be her self-reliant character." Deng Chao believes that a woman's greatest charm is independence. I am convinced.
Qiu Yamin, a gardener in Chengdu, likes flowers very much and has always wanted to have a garden of his own. She works and runs a shop. However, due to limited energy, the flower shop closed down after a year of persistence. But she still didn't want to give up, and she still wanted to continue to run floral art. Her husband saw her love and chose full support. As a result, Qiu Yamin, who was supported by his family, began to run flower gardening full-time, and spent all his time on flowers, slowly developing a flower shop of dozens of square meters into a garden of 2000 square meters. Later, two daughters were born, and she built a real garden for them, named "Heidi and Lulu's Garden". Flowers keep coming all year round and are open to tourists free of charge. Under her careful management, this garden has become a "network celebrity punching place" for Chengdu flower lovers.
Relying on her independent personality, she won the support of her lover, developed her hobby into a career and found her own meaning and value in life. I think women don't have to earn a lot of money in this life, but they must have the ability to earn money; You don't have to make great achievements in a certain field, but you must have independent thoughts and things you like to do. And this is a woman's most advanced lifestyle. There is a saying that a woman who can't even take care of her family is not successful in this life, no matter how good her career is.
This is a stereotype that society has always imposed on women. But now more and more women no longer put the meaning of life on the family, but set out from themselves, eager to find their own value. The development of the Internet has given women more opportunities to pursue their dreams with men.
Automobile refitters are often questioned because of women's identity and ability. Later, she got loyal users through the internet, because people who came to change cars online didn't care much about gender, but more about whether they could do their jobs well.
Andhadhun Chen Yan, a blind woman, is the first blind Piano tuner in China. By opening a Taobao shop, she provided piano tuning service, accumulated thousands of customers, and brought out a piano tuning team for the blind with nearly 30 people.
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There are too many outstanding women in this world, creating miracles in ordinary life, relying on their own efforts to become the people they want to be step by step and become an indispensable force in society.
As Jack Ma, the founder of Alibaba, once said, "The world will be rich and colorful because of women, because without them, the world will be meaningless."