First of all, let me explain that I am actually a boy with a virginity complex. But I deny that I have straight male cancer. Not all boys have a virginity complex, and having a virginity complex is not a cancer for straight men.
Boys with virginity complex also have correct values, worldview and aesthetics. Many people think that people with virginity complex have straight male cancer. In fact, I want to say that this is just a misunderstanding about us. Isn't it good for a girl to keep herself clean? Is it really that difficult for a girl to save her first time until the wedding day? If a girl contributes her first time before getting married, and another man cannot accept her during marriage, instead of realizing that she is wrong, she blames the virgin complex and straight man, I think She is being unreasonable. If having a virginity complex is a cancer among straight men, then there will be many, many men all over China who have cancer among straight men. I don’t think people understand the definition of straight male cancer. So
What is straight male cancer? The definition of cancer for a straight man means that he lives within his own worldview, values, and aesthetics, and always shows his displeasure and dissatisfaction with others, showing a hint of machismo. I deny that I have all the above shortcomings. I am very rational. I am not a superior boy who lives selfishly in his own world. There is nothing wrong with my outlook on life, and I am not always dissatisfied with others. The virginity complex comes from male possessiveness. Because I care about you enough, I want to get you completely, and you are the only one.
According to the survey data of ifeng.com, 85.82% of men have virginity complex. Although this data may have errors, I think it can adequately represent the inner intentions of Chinese men. Many men who want to conquer a woman they love must conquer everything about her. In fact, from a psychological perspective, the virginity complex is actually a knot in the heart of men. Just like many girls are emotionally obsessed, they require boys to love her wholeheartedly and without any adulteration. Boys also require girls to be consistent. Virginity complex and straight male cancer are completely different things. Virginity complex is a category of psychology and a psychological problem. Cancer in straight men is a problem of character. This condition is caused by the education, family and environment a person receives from childhood. Many people also misunderstand that virginity complex is a late-stage manifestation of cancer in straight men. In fact, I think this statement is completely wrong. Two things that do not belong to the same category cannot be generalized, so I think boys with virginity complex are not straight male cancer.