His name is one word more than Zhao Yun of Zhao Zilong, Changshan. His name is Zhao Youyun. He is 46 years old, born after 7. According to the name, he should have many friends, but his friends may really be floating clouds. He usually goes to work, gets off work and stays at home at 3: , and rarely calls. He rarely attends AA party in the office. He is honest and step by step.
He is not wearing a famous brand, but he is clean. Even the money in his wallet is neatly folded. No matter how big or small the money is, as long as he takes out his wallet, the front of all the money faces in one direction, which seems a little obsessive-compulsive. Anyway, the money is neatly folded in the wallet, and even the corners of the money are not wrinkled.
He also has a red zipper bag that is similar to a ring. It is the size of an egg. It looks like a jewelry bag. He likes to put coins in it and then put them in his shoulder bag. Later, I don't know if the zipper of this "chicken egg bag" is broken or something. Later, I saw that he put the coins in a dental floss plastic box.
That small transparent plastic box looks like a used-up box with dental arch floss. Because he can see the trademark, he can open it directly, so he can put coins in it. Maybe he usually takes the bus and it is convenient to buy things. Anyway, his wallet and coins are separated and put in his own single bag.
No matter whether it's sunny or rainy, he keeps an umbrella in his bag, and when it rains, he doesn't open it to dry like others when he enters the office. He always puts it in a plastic bag and then puts his umbrella in his shoulder bag.
Who's going out in the office? It's raining and ready to borrow an umbrella, but he says no, or he doesn't say anything at all. Some colleagues borrow money from him, and he will say directly, don't write the debt, and remember to return it to me then.
On one occasion, a SF brother sent a courier in the office, and it paid about 3 yuan. At that time, the receiving colleague was not in. He told SF brother that you would send the payment link to him. SF brother said that this person would pay. Last time, I came to him for money. Why don't you pay for it?
Zhao youyun called directly and said that you had a courier and paid for it, so you helped him pay. As a result, this colleague didn't give Zhao Youyun money for several days. In those days, Zhao Youyun may have looked uncomfortable. It seems that the colleague can't remember the matter of paying by express delivery.
One day at noon, another express delivery arrived at the office. Zhao Youyun took this opportunity to immediately tell that colleague that you didn't give me the money by SF Express last time. When this word came out, the clear sky thundered, and everyone was eating at that time. The colleague heard it, and the air was frozen with embarrassment.
that colleague immediately said that he was sorry. I really forgot. I will forward it to you via WeChat. However, a few days later, a small note was printed on the glass door of the office, "Refuse to accept payment upon arrival". When everyone saw it, it was Zhao Youyun who did it, because he said in the office more than once that it was best not to let people do it for you. If people do it for you, they will give the money to others first, and everyone will be embarrassed in the end.
This sentence actually won the approval of many people in the office, because there are too many online shopping now, and express delivery is available every day. Many colleagues do it for me. Some recipients have no brains, don't give money to others, some are embarrassed to ask for it, and finally go away.
Zhao Youyun never takes part in all kinds of gossip discussions in the office. He leaves when he arrives, and he doesn't say humorous words, even smiling. He almost never smiles. He never calls anyone on his own initiative. When he receives a phone call, he always says "no need, no need". When he hears it, he is selling calls and buying a house and insurance.
Zhao Youyun, we all know that he has a living habit. Except that he doesn't like to travel, he doesn't drink or play cards, but only smokes. His smoking level is not low, which is above the level of 2 yuan.
But he never smokes. He goes to the smoking area of the office building and smokes his own. He comes back after smoking. It is rare to see him smoking for others, and others smoke for him. It is very strange that he pushes away all the cigarettes, whether they are good or bad, and over time others will not give them to him.
I don't want to be rude, but I think he has a quirk, that is, cleanliness, because he doesn't smoke cigarettes handed by others, and customers come to smoke for him. He always puts them on his desk, never smokes them, and may eventually throw them away.
He also has a habit of going to the first thing every morning, that is, squatting in the toilet for a long time. After work, he must fill the water dispenser with a glass of water, pour it into his middle-aged thermos, put it into his shoulder bag, and then leave after work. This habit has always made people in the office gossip.
It is often said that a fence has three stakes, and a hero has three gangs. Successful people have to rely on external forces to a greater or lesser extent. No matter how lucky they are, it is difficult to achieve great things by going it alone, and even the ordinary things are done badly.
Some people say that there are more friends, and they are all friends, and there are fewer and fewer friends in middle age. Others say that a gentleman's friendship is as light as water, and a thousand dollars is easy to get, so one confidant is enough. Some even say that, let alone one, half of them can't be found.
Zhao Youyun, who is 5 years old in our office, works as a personnel specialist, and he is not a management. He also came out to find a job with a half-way certificate of becoming a monk, and his life is calm, even in the office, even without friends.
In fact, when a person hangs out in the end, he doesn't have any friends. It's not anyone's fault, but his lifestyle is just like this. Some people like to be crazy, while others like to be quiet.
as far as people's social attributes are concerned, it's a pity that they don't have friends in the end, but it's not a pity, because in the end, how many people have friends who understand you?
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I am 49 years old now. I have no friends and no regrets. I feel very comfortable, go my own way, like to be alone, and feel that I enjoy being alone quietly.
you mean me? It's good. A real friend will be supervised by Yun Shiming again. Friend: I have a thousand words, so it's not as good as another sentence. Friend: Do you dare to have friends? Not as good as learn to be lonely, where there is not money, there are friends.
It's not a bad thing that a person doesn't have a friend in the end, and it can't prove anything. It's just related to his character formation, occupation and humanistic environment. Have you noticed that many outstanding and successful people are lonely and lonely? Many scientists and engineers engaged in the research and development of state-of-the-art science and technology are not willing to remain anonymous and unknown for decades. They are ambitious and noble in character, pursuing the feelings of home and country and the interests of the overwhelming majority of the people. Even if there is no friend around them in the end, can you say that their life is a failure and meaningless?
Friends are used to help each other, care for each other and encourage each other. The role of friends lies in spiritual comfort, support in career and life, sharing weal and woe when facing difficulties, and offering help in the same boat, instead of taking part in accidental amusement in social communication, pushing cups for a change and making noise on the wine table scene, which is the icing on the cake on the road to career success.
When a person looks down on everything, understands people's minds, or gradually moves away from the world of mortals, or when Huafa is reborn, Ran Ran is old, or loses the value of using and being used, whether or not he has friends, and how many friends he has, is no longer his consideration. People came to the world naked, and eventually they had to leave the world empty-handed. Even if there are more friends, I'm afraid there is nothing they can do to help. Don't believe me, if you ask a grandfather who is still working in the fields in his seventies and eighties, he will definitely say that it is up to him to depend on the sky and the ground, and it doesn't matter if he has friends or not.
Of course, as a young man who lives in the workplace and strives for survival, having many friends and good popularity is also a resource and a skill. There is a reason why it is easy to have more friends and more contacts. Personality is too withdrawn, weird, or lack of passion and romantic mood, which is really not very likable. But the career, the most important thing is to rely on your own hands, talents and character. In the face of fame and fortune, many friends become friends, and there are more times when they are cheated, so they have to be wise and cautious.
a person's energy is limited, so he should concentrate on one thing, achieve something, keep a pure love, and sometimes have to give up some unnecessary contacts and friendships. It depends on one's own determination and cultivation. Living a true self is a life without regrets.
In the past, I was sure that it was this person's own problem, but now I feel that it may not be. Apart from this person's poor character and morality, he can't make friends. It is also possible that this person is too honest, too dull, and useless, and others have no profit from him, so he has no friends.
of course it's my own problem. This person is mostly a penniless person who just wants to take advantage of others.
People say that no matter how bad a person is, there are several he is my brother. This man gets mixed up in the end and doesn't have any friends, which is equivalent to a dog pulling shit on the roof and not making any friends.
Of course, it is also possible that this person has a strange temper, can't tolerate anyone, and is rude to anyone. Of course, no one wants to make friends with him.
It is also possible that this person is introverted and always stays at home. Of course, he has no friends.
Or this person has autism, only lives in his own world, has no intersection with others, and certainly has no friends.
or this person is ugly, has no self-confidence, and is ashamed to contact people, so he doesn't have any friends.
or this person is too arrogant to associate with others, so he doesn't have any friends.
the above is just my personal opinion.
At first glance, there is nothing wrong with this question. After careful consideration, I find that I am still standing on the commanding heights of the secular world, and I have a little invisible resentment and questioning, as if I should or must make friends. If I don't make friends, there is a problem?
what's the problem? What does it matter to you whether others make friends or not? Why should you interfere in other people's lives with secular eyes?
Everyone has his own way of life. As you get older, you will gradually find that no matter how many friends you have, it is better to have a blank sheet of paper. That's what I do. Now I hardly attend friends' parties. Every time I invite them, I politely refuse.
what's the point? Hardly. Drinking tea, playing cards, bragging, or drinking, playing cards, dance halls, whether drinking or drinking tea, are almost always a matter of parents' short stories, one after another, making fun of others, entertaining the public, no serious fart matter, and this way of treating guests is almost in turn.
tea, self-cooking, self-tasting, smelling the fragrance, looking at the romance of the sky, and thinking about the love of the world; Wine, self-pouring, splashing ink after drunkenness, playing the sword and making martial arts, Yunian Qing and my poor work; It's so good, why pretend to be false and hide the truth.
people who have no friends must be those who are immoral, talented and incompetent.
those who are intimate with each other are called bosom friends; Those who ask for each other's voices and instruments are called bosom friends.
A person, no matter how powerful and brilliant his achievements are, only by maintaining your relationship with others will everything have lasting significance and life be full and interesting.
No matter how old you are, people live in the crowd and can't get away from people. The key point is to associate with people with mature personality and reliable conduct. Gentlemen and gentlemen are friends with the same people, and villains and villains are friends with the same interests. That is to say, you must get along with the same people. A person in a bad circle of friends is hard to gain the respect of the world.
To know a friend, you need to see the truth when you are in trouble, poverty, bumps and troubles. Knowing each other all over the world, we can know many people, so we need to be cautious and cautious in choosing friends. The person who can speak frankly with good words is your best friend. When you meet a true friend, you can always listen to good words, which can just improve your realm, expand your pattern and cultivate your virtue.
of course, it's your own problem. Don't believe it? Think back on the roads you have traveled, the things you have done, the people you have been in contact with, and the various problems you have dealt with, and slowly feel it, and you will know whose problems ended up without even a friend.
Actually, it's very simple. When the scenery is brilliant, a person is generous and generous in money, which is of course surrounded by friends. However, when you are at a low ebb, it is like a tree falling and a bird flying separately. There is also the principle of "falling trees", so that the true nature of human nature is exposed! It can better show the effect of life. Therefore, if a person doesn't have a friend in the end, then this is the blessing of that person. Therefore, we can know who is true and who is false. Therefore, it is the real reality because of the rare blessing.
There are only two kinds of people in the world who don't have friends, and one kind doesn't want to have friends. This kind of person is a person with high business interests. They only do what is beneficial to them, so they will have friends whenever they want.
another kind of person is a person with low double quotient, or at least low emotional intelligence. They want to have friends, but no one wants to be their friends. The old ginger in our unit belongs to the latter!
The biggest characteristics of old ginger are complaining, complaining about the society, complaining about the unit, complaining about the leader, complaining about relatives and friends. Then there is contempt for one's own country and policies, social phenomena, and even leaders, colleagues, relatives, and even strangers who have nothing to do with him, and can say a few words of contempt.
Lao Jiang is a retired dean of a hospital and was hired by our unit. His two salaries add up to more than 1 thousand yuan, but two daughters are laid off and one son is not dating. Therefore, Lao Jiang strongly attacked some national policies, saying, "I earn nine people a month, and I have to earn money when I am over 7. My daughter comes to eat when she is laid off, and my wife loses 18 yuan when she buys food ..."
I have listened to this for more than ten years, and he has been complaining about it since the day when her child was laid off. Can't your child work with a healthy brain and developed limbs? Haven't we caught up with the reform and opening up and laid-off workers? Why don't we rely on our parents ... What a strange theory!
A few days ago, the street organized a vaccination campaign, but one hundred and twenty old ginger refused to go anywhere. One day, waiting for the bus at the bus stop, he shook his head and said, "Who's calling? Who knows what it looks like? People give money to things in other places, so we don't give anything, but let them get vaccinated. Isn't that a waste of time ... "
An older aunt next to him couldn't stand it, and said to him," You are an old comrade, aren't you? Why do you say such things? How good our country's policy is now, you don't spend money by car, and your salary is older. Let's talk about the current epidemic. Didn't you see how many people died abroad? In anniversary in the past 1 years, 1, people did not wear masks.