"My First Half of Life" has recently become popular. The plot can be described in one sentence as an urban reality emotional drama about a housewife who regains her confidence to face life after her husband's affair and divorce.
Luo Zijun, a woman who succeeded across classes in the first half of her life, successfully fulfilled her mother's wish and married Chen Junsheng, a man with a decent job and a prosperous life, and together they nurtured the fruit of their happy marriage. The ups and downs of life are always caused by a lot of force majeure, such as the force majeure that Chen Junsheng was attracted by Ling Lin, who was calm on the outside and scheming at heart. For example, his best friend and boyfriend He Han went from being a happy enemy who always bickered to being a boyfriend in the end. The force majeure of love and concubine, as well as the force majeure of the breakup of best friend Tang Jing and her boyfriend of ten years He Han, so many force majeure turned out to be important clues to promote the development of the plot.
A mediocre woman who reaches out for money arrogantly controls everything in her life. Just because she has the strongest family relationship in marriage, she can make the world stable and peaceful for years to come. She does not even think about danger in times of peace. consciousness. Watching her husband's work every day, there are beautiful threats from other young girls. When he sees Ling Ling, a colleague who is dressed simply as a passerby, Zijun, who is preparing to build a united front for national cooperation, thought he could get rid of foreign troubles and stabilize his family. He didn't even realize that he was facing the enemy directly.
Compared with marriage and family, education is nothing worth mentioning
Zijun, who could say such words, was already blinded by anger. At this moment , What I just want to save is my family. Compared with face and external comments, these are no longer important.
Compared with the mistress Ling Ling who was publicly scolded by her mother-in-law, she spoke plausibly and was not confused. There is no pride belonging to the winner, but it seems to have the next tactical strategy. A stable marriage with legal recognition and social certification can be so fragile that it trembles under the pressure of moral judgment and public criticism when a third party forcibly intervenes, and is so angry that it makes no choice but to talk and wallow, and uses social pressure to think that it can be exchanged for the lover. It’s okay not to want this kind of love that is obtained by force.
The real thing is to have a long-term plan for love and marriage. A life is built with one vegetable, one meal, one tea, one meal, and day and night companionship and care. When cracks appear* Only with the same trust can we get through every period of confusion.
The problem is not the uneducated and rude way, but that the person in front of you has completely lost loyalty to the marriage. These countless uneducated moments and Ling Ling's gentleness, consideration and understanding make people not tired of getting along with each other. Getting along harmoniously and comfortably is like termites eating away at the marriage palace that was once envied by everyone.
Being truly high-class will never show off, because your high-classness is reflected in your behavior, conversation, and gestures. People who deliberately use external brands and trademarks and go to high-end clubs to flaunt themselves are easily fooled. People can tell at a glance.
I still remember that in "Ode to Joy", the turtle who was on a blind date with Guan Guan Shuzhan coolly showed his dining style to the three girls, from the selection of ham, the combination of ingredients, and the taste of red wine. , and even the tourist destinations in foreign countries, and the humanities and geography there, he can talk about them all. Moreover, there are a lot of English vocabulary mixed in. At first glance, it feels really high-end, but the pronunciation is not standard and the showoff is pretentious. It can only make people disgusted, but makes them feel very low. This kind of arrogant way of exalting oneself is disgusting, as if no one has ever had a big meal.
How to tell that Zijun is not a citizen at heart. When she was proud of her glory, she faced the contempt of her sister's poor marriage and the accusations of her brother-in-law. When I was wearing shoes, I still looked arrogant and arrogant.
So being able to say such lines is indeed in line with the character.
In today's world of bow-headed people
Chatting and not using mobile phones is not only a form of politeness, but also a form of respect.
The following are some basic etiquette for raising children
1. Do not smack your mouth when eating, hold the bowl while eating, and do not point your chopsticks towards others.
2. Don’t cross your legs when sitting, but keep your legs together.
3. When picking up food, try to pick up the food in front of you. For rotating dining tables, you usually observe that others are not picking up food and then turn it yourself.
4. Do not grandstand or make loud noises in public places.
5. No matter how much irritation you face, you will not easily vent it to the people around you.
6. When squeezing in the subway, faced with a large crowd, I said I was embarrassed to borrow it.
7. Venting emotions cannot be solved directly through national abuse.
8. Never ignore others or take advantage of others.
9. Be considerate of others’ hard work and do not add unnecessary trouble.
10. Before handling official business on the mobile phone, I will say "Sorry, I'll answer the phone or send a message."
11. Don’t use mobile phones when chatting.
I think there are too many cases of being educated, but education comes more from the kindness of humanity in our hearts, respect for others and gratitude for life.
Educated people feel happy at first sight, but still feel stunned after a long time.
CA_HEENIEM
Post-90s
Self-media writer
The people beside you are like the moon, and the bright wrists are covered with frost and snow
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