After walking a few miles, you complained that you were cold again, so I had no choice but to stop the car and keep giving you hot air, rubbing and warming my hands. I also picked up two plastic bags from the roadside and put the cuffs of your coat on. Tie it up to keep warm. This trick is very effective. You no longer complain that your hands are cold. But not long after, you complained that your feet were cold again. I told you to come down and run for a while to warm them up. So you ran in front, and I slowly followed behind on my bike. In this way, we ran for a while, walked for a while, and rode for a while. By car, it usually takes an hour, so I walked for about 2 hours that day. Since we didn’t know the price of crabapple seeds beforehand, after we bought 1 pound of crabapple seeds and 1 technical book on cultivating fruit trees, we only had enough money for a meal of steamed buns for the two of us. Even though we had no money on the way home, You sound like a pauper, but we are all very happy in our hearts. You seem to be full of freshness about this cold journey, and I am already looking forward to the fruit-filled orchard in my hometown in a few years. The apples you eat when you go home now are from us. It’s a credit to both of you! In the blink of an eye, you have reached school age. The principal of the elementary school nearest to us is my father’s former colleague. It's up to me to choose, and I said you should just look at the arrangements. They said that you would be placed in the class of Mr. He, who has the best class teacher and teaching. This is really a surprise to me. The surprise is not that they want to arrange a good class for you, but that I have known Mr. He before. We met at the re-employment seminar for laid-off teachers in the education and training center. When I went to sea to practice stalls, I met Mr. He. Her sister was a neighbor who often helped each other. How could she be considered an unqualified teacher in one school and become the best teacher in another school in the blink of an eye? ? Actually, Teacher He is really good. It is extremely ridiculous to lay off good teachers, it is simply the most ridiculous thing in the world!

You have hardly caused any trouble to us since you grew up. I rarely scold you or scold you, but once again I made an exception. Not only did I scold you severely, I even beat you. That was when you were in first grade. When you understood that money is a good thing and can buy a lot of delicious and fun things, you secretly took money from home and went out to spend it. It might be one, two, three, or five yuan at first, but we didn’t I noticed, but one time I found that there was a 50 yuan note missing from my pocket. After thinking about it carefully, no one would borrow it and it would not be lost if I didn’t spend it. So we targeted you, little guy, so we talked to you. Divide by two and you will do it. I ask you where the money is and you say you have spent it. I don’t believe you spent all the 50 yuan in half a day. I will ask you to make a shopping list. You will make a list of more than 40 yuan in a while. , and most of them are food and some gadgets. At first I thought you were deceived by the store owner because you didn’t know how to count. You said you did buy things and divided them among your classmates. It turned out that it was in the comment written by the class teacher. There is a saying "You don't care about the group." If you understand the teacher's words and take the initiative to build a good relationship with your classmates, you are much better than your father! That time I told you a lot about not taking family money behind the back of adults. It makes sense, you seem to be listening carefully and saying that you won’t do it again. Not long after, you committed another crime, but this time the amount was smaller. You said you couldn't guarantee it in the future, so I said it was just a matter of three, and I would never give you a lenient sentence if you commit another crime again! However, it finally happened for the third time. I couldn't bear it anymore and lost my mind. I kicked you in the butt. This was the only time I hit you in anger. You knew you were wrong and didn't dare to cry. Tears I cried in my eyes and said that you couldn't stand anymore, but in the end I had to stand at the door for half an hour, watching us eat in silence during our lunch break, and at the same time help us check the time and wake us up on time. work. Time passed month by month, and everything returned to normal. It seems that you have really changed this time, and your parents are happy for you.

A few months later, we discovered that we were wrong. We usually locked the money in the box, but the key was placed in an undefended cabinet as you know. One day when I went to the box to withdraw the money, I discovered that it was The binding strips of paper were loosened, and I guessed what had happened. Sure enough, there were a few missing after counting.

I talked to you after school. This time I didn’t scold you, let alone beat you. Naturally you refused to admit it at first. I told you that although we are not rich, we do not lack money for your schooling, food, clothing and pocket money. But every dollar is earned by your parents who work from dawn to dusk. Not only do they have to support you, but they also have to send some to your grandparents and uncles and aunts to go to school. When you use your parents’ money, you must tell us and agree. This is not only for your dad. Your mother's respect can also help you develop a good habit that everyone likes. Even taking your own money is stealing. If you steal other people's things, it is against the law. No one likes such a child. If he does not change, he may be imprisoned. Go to jail and never see your parents again. You listen carefully, you seem to understand, but if you understand, we are not done here. In order to fundamentally solve this problem that has caused us a lot of headaches, my parents decided to ask your class teacher for help after many discussions. , ask her to come forward to help solve the problem. We also know that doing so may have a negative impact on you, but this is a last resort. We don’t know how the head teacher came to talk to you, how you felt at the time, maybe our repeated The education is effective, maybe the head teacher's words are effective. From then on, you began to be really sensible. You would not take any money you left anywhere at home, even if it was only a dime. No matter how much you spent, you would give it to your parents. We are sincerely happy for your progress.

As the saying goes, people who are over thirty do not learn art. After my father was 30 years old, he left school and entered the company due to occupational diseases among teachers. At that time, college students were everywhere. In order to keep up with the times, he did not After being eliminated, he left home and went to Beijing to study for a master's degree on the job. After several months of intensive study before admission, my English level has rapidly improved from college level one to or close to college level four. To get a master's degree, my English must reach, be equivalent to, or even exceed college level six, and there is still a considerable gap. For this reason, I must learn to sleep every night. I usually fall asleep in a few minutes after lying on the bed, even if there are people playing cards and watching TV next to me. But at this time, I have difficulty falling asleep at night, and I don’t want to rely on sleeping pills to solve the problem. Problem, I would go to the school playground and run two kilometers every night at midnight. When I returned to the dormitory, I would soak my feet in hot water and listen to audio tapes. This really worked and solved the troublesome problem of falling asleep.

One night I had a dream: I dreamed that a river was seriously polluted, and a thick layer of foam floated on the water. Suddenly, I vaguely heard someone shouting for help, so everyone came from all directions to help. But when I got to the river, I was dumbfounded. The foam was too thick and I couldn't see the position of the person who fell into the water. What was rescued later was a goat, and then this goat turned into your sister-in-law for some reason. People often say that you have thoughts every day and dreams at night. It turns out that I studied an English text a few days ago, which was similar to the dream above. A person drowned in the Thames River that was seriously polluted decades ago. The rescuer eventually died. The foam was too thick and the person who fell into the water could not be found accurately in time. However, the story did not end here, and something even stranger happened later. The next night I called my mother and you, and my mother said on the other end of the phone that you fell into the well the day before: Mom will take you to the unit. , you were playing around with your younger sisters, and accidentally fell into an uncovered, smelly manhole in your unit. You were soaked to the skin, and even after you changed your clothes after taking a shower, you still smelled bad. Is this a coincidence or are the father and son connected?

Dad has worked in Shijiazhuang for more than a year, so he took you to school. Before that, you had completed the first grade of junior high school in the four-year system in Jiayu, so you naturally had to go to the second grade of junior high school when you arrived in Shijiazhuang. There is only the second grade of junior high school in the three-year system here. Because you have not learned part of the math content and your math score in the pre-entry exam was poor, the school wants you to continue to the first grade of junior high school. Of course you quit, saying that you would be worse off than that. When I went back to the second grade of junior high school, my father heard that you were so determined and confident, so he told the school that I was a middle school mathematics teacher, and we would make up for this as soon as possible. What was the result? You actually ranked first in the class in the final exam. Not to mention how happy we are, the teacher and class teacher are also very happy.

The age of eighteen marks that a person has become an adult in the legal sense. It marks that a person has begun to mature, think independently, study independently, and live independently. He must also bear some responsibilities commensurate with his age. . While you are studying away from your parents, your father, based on his own experience and the experiences and lessons of others, reminds you that you must pay attention to the following aspects based on your actual situation: first, pay attention to personal and property safety anytime and anywhere; second, Keep exercising, adjust your psychology in a timely manner, and maintain physical and mental health. Don’t work to earn money, save money and keep records, and live a relaxed and orderly life; thirdly, set ambitious goals, know that time is running out, and concentrate on studying; fourthly, learn every subject seriously classes, especially basic English mathematics courses and professional courses; fifthly, extracurricular social activities must be appropriate, the sea of ??books is boundless without losing the direction, and elective courses and extracurricular books must be centered around the goals determined by oneself.

Dad, Mom spent a few nights and a weekend writing the above text. The purpose is to share the happiness of the past with you and look forward to the progress in the future. The suggestions are for reference only. There are no inappropriate comments. Negotiable.