I introduced my husband through a friend. My parents both work in institutions, and their income is relatively stable, so the family conditions are ok. My husband comes from the countryside, and there is only one old mother at home, and he has no job yet, so the conditions are almost the same.

We have known each other for about half a year, and we fell in love. Later, when we got married, I didn't ask for a bride price because of the poor conditions in my husband's family, and my parents were very reasonable people and obeyed my wishes.

after I got married, I found that my mother-in-law was very frugal. She didn't buy a dress for months, and she had to bargain every time she went out to buy food. Until the end, she never paid. On the first Mid-Autumn Festival after marriage, I discussed with my husband that I wanted to give my mother-in-law 1 yuan to buy some clothes, but my husband disagreed, saying that her mother-in-law was too old to buy clothes.

I really couldn't figure it out at that time. My mother-in-law was his mother, and she wouldn't even give me a thousand dollars. Later, I learned that my mother-in-law was her husband's foster mother and was married when her husband was 16 years old.

after learning this reason, I advised my husband that although her mother-in-law was his foster mother, she had brought him up after all, and could not treat her like this, but her husband said, "She brought me up, but she only provided me with food. I also provided her with food now, and I didn't feel sorry for her." I think my husband said so, and I won't persuade him.

A few days later, I bought some clothes for my mother-in-law without telling my husband, and then tore off the trademark and said it was left by my mother. My mother-in-law was very happy to see the new clothes and praised me for my filial piety. I asked my mother-in-law to try them on, but my husband saw her just after she put them on. He came up to me and slapped me directly.

I was directly deceived at that time. I asked my husband doubtfully, "What are you typing?" . The husband said angrily, "Although our family is poor, I am reluctant to buy clothes for our mother, but don't bring the rest of your mother's clothes. Are you looking down on me?" .

I think my husband is a little unreasonable. I want to buy clothes for my mother-in-law, but he doesn't agree. Now he feels ashamed to let her wear leftover clothes. What does he mean?