If you want to make a man obedient, what scheming should a woman have when getting along with him? 01: Xiaoyan, 28 years old, has to be flexible when having sex with a man.

Talking to people is an art. There are actually many ways to talk to men. There are many things in this world that are beyond our control, especially the hearts of men. They change when they say it, and leave it when they say they want to give up. Such things are commonplace. When women are having sex with men, they must know how to be flexible. They don't have to be stubborn and don't go all the way to the end.

My husband and I have a very happy life after marriage, and he also takes me very seriously. Sometimes it all depends on my own flexibility. I used to complain that he couldn't do this well and that he couldn't do that well.

Now I think about it, everyone has advantages and disadvantages. He's not very romantic just because deep down he's a dull person. No way, I only get romantic surprises sometimes. I can't cook, but he is very tolerant of me and cooks for me every day.

In the past, I often argued with him over trivial matters, such as having shoes scattered around when I got home, smoking in the living room, etc. I told him that you have to put the shoes here and there, but you have to bear the responsibility of the door. The environment is clean. Smoking in the living room is okay, but you can only smoke in the living room once a day and only smoke one cigarette.

This is my compromise and workaround. If you know that there are some things that are caused by his attitude and cannot be changed, there is no need to hold on to a problem and always contact him to complain. If you make some adjustments, you can get by. Only in this way will men listen to you honestly! 02: Ms. Chen, 35 years old, has to know how to be satisfied when having sex with a man.

The old saying goes, "He who is content is always happy." This is definitely a saying of great wisdom. If a person does not know how to be satisfied and always has unsatisfied desires, he may live a very tiring life and make the other person feel tired as well.

I have made some stupid mistakes for a while. I had only been married for a few years at that time, and I saw that young women in the company also had many friends around them, all carrying luxury bags and wearing big-name clothes, which cost thousands to tens of thousands.

I was blinded by my love for vanity. I asked my husband to buy me many brand bags and clothes. I also wanted better skin care products. I felt that I could not live worse than others. .

Actually, I didn’t consider the actual financial situation of my family at that time. We were all ordinary working-class people. Sometimes it would be enough to invest in one or two luxury brands, but no one could afford to buy them frequently.

In the end, my husband was short of funds and owed many bank credit cards, and he could hardly repay his housing loan. He told me that it wasn’t that he didn’t want to buy it anymore, but that if he did, we might not be able to live anymore.

At that moment, my differences suddenly became clear. It turned out that I was blindly pursuing the so-called high-quality life. I had to buy everything from well-known and luxury brands, and blindly compared myself with my friends in everything, but I did not face myself. income.

In fact, although luxury brands or expensive things have their own value, ordinary people do not need to think about improving themselves by buying luxury goods. If you buy one, you will buy the second one. If you are economical, If you are not allowed to develop your strength, you should live an honest life, otherwise your desires will only become more and more inflated.

Okay, my husband didn’t mention divorce or anything to me at that time, he was just tolerating me. He tried his best to meet my many stipulations and even unreasonable demands. Fortunately, I realized it immediately, otherwise the marriage might have fallen apart.