But you have to remember who you want to complain about.

If you take a brother to the stadium to chop people up.

Then you stand at the gate of the stadium and say, brother, the man I want to cut is in there. Go in and have a look.

Your brother won't scold you to death. There are so many people in the damn stadium. Who do you want me to cut, the good guy or the bad guy?

The above is purely a metaphor. ...