Many people have not experienced the feeling of relaxation and stability for a long time. Life is always filled with miscellaneous things. Either you are worried about this thing or anxious about that thing, and you cannot have a moment of peace in your heart.
The advancement of science and technology has brought about a more superior life, but people's mood is becoming more and more impetuous and empty.
What exactly causes us to be impetuous? What can we do to feel the long-lost sense of solidity and peace?
You can see people everywhere on the Internet making 50,000 yuan a month, or driving luxury cars to show off their wealth. There are also many people online who teach you how to easily make over 10,000 yuan a month. Look at yourself again, with a monthly income of 3,000, can you not be impetuous?
Many people are dazzled by the information on the Internet and think that making money is easy, but they have no way to make money themselves. It is this huge gap between feeling that it is easy and actually doing it that is difficult, which leads to impetuousness in people's hearts.
Don’t be fooled by the appearance of things. In fact, those people who show off their wealth on the Internet don’t have much money at all. They can only make money because you watch them.
They show off on the Internet just to attract people’s attention, attract more traffic, and make a living from it. The wealth-showing videos you see are all carefully planned, taking advantage of people’s psychology of hating the poor and loving the rich. The truly rich people all make a fortune in silence, how can they show it off everywhere?
So, don’t get restless when you see other people showing off. Those on the Internet who promote making money easily or showing off their wealth are either scammers or do it deliberately to gain Internet traffic. You should stay awake and not be charged an IQ tax.
Many young people are influenced by the concept of advanced consumption and have opened a lot of credit cards and borrowed money for consumption. However, you have to understand that the loan needs to be repaid, and it is not free money given to you.
In order to satisfy my temporary greed and vanity, I took on tens of thousands of loans and had to worry about repayment every month. How could I not be impetuous?
Loans are like a pair of invisible locks, locking up people’s opportunities to give it a try and binding you tightly to your job, without daring to ask for leave or resign.
In the first few months of starting a business, it is difficult to generate revenue. If you have been carrying loans, you can't even afford to be unemployed for a month, let alone quit your job to start a business.
Therefore, you need to be sensible and not be brainwashed by the concept of excessive consumption. Only with fixed deposits can you have the confidence to cope with future variables. Unnecessary excessive consumption will overdraw your life.
To build a high-rise building, you must first lay a foundation. If the foundation is not strong, the building will collapse when exposed to wind and rain. Similarly, people also need confidence.
Only those with confidence can possess the extraordinary magnanimity of "letting the wind and waves rise and sit firmly on the Diaoyutai". People who have no confidence are like duckweeds when they encounter setbacks, not knowing where to go.
Where does one’s confidence come from? It comes from your own skills.
Many people will stop taking the initiative to grow after working. They will do whatever the company asks them to do without deliberately training their abilities. If you can persist in strengthening your skills, you will definitely be able to surpass most of your peers after many years. At that time, you will no longer worry about work issues. If this company is not working well, just find another one.
If you have a skill close to you, you will naturally have more self-confidence, and you can stay calm when encountering things, and you will not be easily anxious.
Many people receive information without thinking about it in their brains. It can be said that they "pass through the knowledge without leaving a single leaf behind."
For example, you spent a lot of time reading some books, and when you look back, you don’t remember anything.
Mistakes made in the past will still be repeated next time because there is no summary of experience.
If the information you receive is not refined and summarized by your brain, it is equivalent to a waste of time. Having read it does not mean that you really understand it. Only by extracting your own things from the complicated information and summarizing your own unique insights can you truly use the information for your own use.
In the face of all kinds of information, if you can distinguish right from wrong and look beyond the surface to see the truth, you can be aware of it and face everything calmly.
If a person has many things on his mind and is tense all the time, he will become nervous and anxious. Maybe you are busy, maybe you are in a hurry to do things, but overwork will not improve efficiency, it will only be counterproductive.
Because there are too many things on my mind, I cannot concentrate on the tasks at hand. This is an unwise act of seeking the far away at the expense of the near and losing the big at the expense of the small.
No matter how many things need to be done, the brain can only handle one thing at a time. If you can arrange things according to their priorities and complete them one by one in an orderly and focused manner, your heart will become more at ease and your efficiency will increase accordingly.
If you feel tired, take a 5-minute break. 5 minutes is a short time and will not cause much delay in your work. However, it is enough to relax your brain and save enough energy to cope with the next high-intensity work.
In order to catch up with the schedule, you must endure exhaustion and overtax your body. In fact, it will not be of much help to your work. It is more about moving yourself. Combining work and rest, allowing the brain to maintain enough energy and focus on the work at hand can really help you achieve your goals faster.
Watching complex things being completed in an orderly manner will calm your impetuous heart.
Practicality is the opposite of impetuosity, and steadiness and impetuosity cannot exist at the same time. If three minutes of enthusiasm is a kind of impetuousness, then sticking to one thing for a long time will make you practical.
Sticking to the right thing for a long time may be more important than you think.
Things are often not independent of each other. Different things are inextricably linked.
If a sailboat is traveling eastward, then as long as the angle is adjusted, whether it is a southeasterly or a northeasterly wind, it can be used by the sailboat.
If life is a voyage on a boat, then insisting on one thing for a long time is equivalent to pointing out the course for you. In the future, you may encounter setbacks, take detours, or feel depressed and depressed. This is equivalent to encountering strong winds coming from different directions. However, as long as your course is correct, strong winds in any direction can give you the strength to continue moving forward.
For example, you have been playing basketball for a long time. Playing basketball well is not a skill that only comes in handy in basketball games. In terms of personality, it will make you more optimistic and confident; in love, it will add points to you and help you attract more favors of the opposite sex; in terms of social interaction, it will help you meet more people who like to play basketball. Friends, expand your network. When you are in a bad mood, playing basketball can make you happy; when you lose hope, playing basketball can restore your confidence; when your heart is dead, playing basketball can make you reborn.
Persisting in a positive thing for a long time can benefit you in many ways. An improvement in ability will lead to a person's overall growth. You know, a butterfly flapping its wings may cause a storm.
A calm and peaceful life is a kind of enjoyment. An impetuous and anxious life is a kind of suffering. Therefore, being down-to-earth is meritorious, and being impetuous is sinful.