My daughter wants to watch a movie, but Changjin Lake is a bit bloody and she doesn’t dare to watch it. The killer is not very calm and has a bit of black humor that I can’t understand. The Bear is too cartoonish and childish, so I chose to accompany her. A movie starring the childhood star Yi Yang Qianxi.

To be fair, this is a very good movie. Putting aside the deliberately inspirational elements of commercial films, just in terms of its depiction of poverty, family love, struggle, friendship, money, and reality, even if I watch it The low-level literary youth who loves to criticize cold-bloodedly and is always aggrieved by whatever he watches is still greatly touched on several occasions!

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The film opens with Jing Hao asking about his sister’s condition in the hospital. Dr. Liu has a kind face. Although he understands that Jing Hao has no money, he still tells him helplessly and compassionately: The child Get treatment as soon as possible before the age of eight. Surgery for congenital diseases costs 200,000 to 300,000 yuan. Go back and collect the money! Especially the sentence "Go back and collect money" instantly made my heart churn.

My father-in-law suddenly suffered a recurrence of cerebral infarction in the summer of 2016. His breathing was normal, but he was paralyzed and unable to move. The doctors at the county hospital were indifferent and ignored him. They gave up diagnosis and treatment and asked him to go home to prepare for the funeral. Not willing to give in, we asked our classmates to help us and went to the First Affiliated Hospital of Zhengzhou University, which is known as the largest hospital in the world. We were admitted to the ICU in an emergency on the same day.

At the door of the ICU, my classmate, who is the attending doctor of the Shinnai ICU, told me to be mentally prepared. The best result of treatment for the elderly is to stabilize the current state. It will be impossible to have the ability to move again in the future. , just spend some money and have peace of mind!

Although the truth is often difficult to accept, no matter what, at least big hospitals are willing, and there is still a glimmer of hope! But after spending tens of thousands of yuan a day on treatment, I finally understood what it means to spend some money to buy peace of mind. My wife and sisters all emptied their money, and I even used a credit card. When my classmates saw that our situation was unsustainable, they could not ignore reality for the sake of filial piety, so they strongly gave suggestions to the department despite the objections of their colleagues and doctors, and finally transferred my father-in-law to a general ward.

Although many years have passed since this happened, and my father-in-law passed away after two years of being in a vegetative state in bed, I still remember this kindness from my classmate.

The adult world is sometimes so rough and simple, it seems that money can solve all problems, but your only problem is that you have no money!

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Jing Hao was kicked out by his landlord and lived on the street because he could not pay the rent. In the dead of night, he took his sleeping sister to the nursing home where Uncle Liang worked for help. At the risk of being scolded by the boss, he took them in for two nights.

Although the poor at the bottom are as humble as ants, people still have the beautiful quality of caring for each other and keeping each other warm.

When I was a child, I stayed in the countryside. Although the villagers would quarrel over trivial matters, no matter which family had a major event, everyone would flock to help you make suggestions and help you. Get through it!

Unlike living in a cage made of steel and cement now, even if your family beats your children until they cry and howl to death, no neighbor will come to ask about the situation. If you can kindly call the police, it may be because of the excessive noise. It made a big noise to them.

For a lot of time, we seem to be living in this city, but we seem to feel that this city is far away from us, so far away that we can’t find a sense of belonging, so far away that we can only feel the alienation of drinking alone without any close friends. This is generally the case with the indifference of the world. , so some little people’s support of the group shows the warm and glorious side of human nature.

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Jing Hao and his sister were homeless, so they had to build a bunkhouse in the corner of an electronics factory (more like a simple warehouse than a factory).

But even in such a predicament, my sister's eyes were still as clear as green lakes, full of innocence and hope. The tender moment when the brother and sister were playing, tears kept rolling in my eyes, and I finally held back. Didn't fall off.

After family changes, he dropped out of college and raised his young sister alone. Jing Hao, who is also both a brother and a father, used his bravery and fearlessness to shield his sister from the invasion of the world. Even if he was bruised and broken, he could only lick the baby alone. Licking the wound, stubbornly put away the desolation, greet my sister with the most sincere smile from the heart, and protect her from the wind and rain of the world!

Rather than saying this is a man’s responsibility and responsibility, it is better to say that he is using selfless love to melt the hard and difficult world, and using the passion and optimism of spring breeze to light up a huge light in his sister’s life. 's beacon.

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When Jing Hao was desperate, he braved the typhoon and rain to stop Manager Li's BMW. Manager Li was arrogantly playing with his mobile phone in the car, coldly and ruthlessly rejected Jing Hao's request for help, and even taught Jing Hao the so-called elite social procedures and rules with all his kindness!

To be honest, Manager Li is not a bad person, he is just a representative of many refined egoists. In their eyes, except for the weak and the strong, everything else is nonsense. No one will pay for your so-called morality and ideals. The biggest bargaining chip you have in negotiating with this society is how much benefit you can bring to the other party!

Although it is naked and hard to accept, this is the operating logic of the entire society, at least the elite society. Ordinary people want to swim against the current and jump over the dragon's gate. There is no better way than making themselves stronger. way!

After watching this movie, I have been recalling and reflecting after I came back. Life is not easy. Although the world may not be so beautiful, or a little cruel, it is those things that make you heartbroken. Experience has prompted your still ignorant mind to grow step by step. The process is hard. However, we are fortunate to have a family, relatives, friends, and a love that is worthy of your life-long struggle! This love is like a light that never goes out, always illuminating the direction we are going, driving our feet to move forward on the muddy road!