It has to be said that with the urging of social progress, the ideological concepts and consumption level of the older generation are still far from those of the younger generation today. In the past, children were easy to support and didn't require much, so it was relatively easy to be self-reliant.

In today's society, the elderly are afraid that their children will be eaten by themselves. Their children don't want to rely on their parents' help, but they are always wandering, and their lives and work run into difficulties everywhere. Finally, they have to stay at home and eat their parents' food.

Chinese people have a deep-rooted way of educating their children. Many foreign children let themselves go as soon as they grow up, and go out to work alone. China is not so confident about children. As long as he is with his parents, he is a child, sheltered too much and can't experience setbacks.

"NEET" can't do without their own factors. They don't work hard, they don't struggle, they can't eat bitterness, they quit easily, they don't go home to find their parents when they have something to do, they want to go home when they are wandering in an affair and frustrated, and they want to return to a safe harbor, and they don't worry about food and clothing, and others still feel pain.

On the one hand, it is out of helplessness. On the other hand, it is that if you don't work hard, you always leave yourself a way out, so that the Jedi can survive. When you encounter difficulties, you will think that you have parents at home, so you will go home if you have to, and you won't push yourself to the wall. Chicken soup is right. You don't even know how capable you are.

Old people who are bitten will only worry about their children. When they are around, they can take care of their children. What should they do if they are not around? Both sides don't think much, but the reality is very helpless. The love of parents, their own disappointment, the development of society can not keep up.

It's time for the old people to wake up. Parents have limited time to support. If they can't support their parents, don't let them work hard for themselves. No matter whether their parents have money or not, their own efforts are king.