Female gambler's fate

Female gambler's fate, addiction to gambling will cause great social and professional problems. When a person has this addiction, the consequences of not stopping gambling are devastating. Understand the dangers of gambling, and quit gambling sooner rather than later. Let's take a look at the fate of female gamblers. Female gambler's fate 1

Online gambling is regardless of age, occupation, gender and status ... To put it bluntly, as long as you are a normal person, can play mobile phones, have money or can borrow money, the platform can kill you.

in the banker's eyes, there are only gamblers.

At one time, I thought gambling was nothing to entertain, and I would never play again if I lost thousands of dollars, and I never thought about getting rich at the poker table ... As for women, I thought it was impossible to indulge too deeply in online gambling because the process was nerve-racking ... Later, I found that there were actually many women in online gambling, and even some women had crazier experiences than male gamblers. Online gambling is like a knife that kills people without seeing blood!

Xiaomei, a young woman/gambler

"I was looking for a job online a few months ago, and suddenly I saw an advertisement for a part-time job, so I clicked in and talked with the customer service for a while ... only to be caught by the fake customer service during the chat. Because I was originally short of money, plus the rhetoric of fake customer service and a false and tempting picture, I was moved. "

"I thought it was just a tentative exploration, but I didn't expect to fall into the abyss and couldn't extricate myself."

"Recharge, recharge again, I can't remember exactly how many times I recharged, and even the exact amount I lost is vague. I always want to win it back in my head, and my heart can't be calm at all ..."

"I regret it, I really regret it. If you are not an online gambler, you will not feel the pain at all. "

Student/female gambler Xiaomi

"There is a girl in the next class in the dormitory. Her boyfriend is addicted to online gambling, so she is also influenced by it ... Every night, she screams from time to time with her mobile phone and buys a lot of cosmetics when she wins money ..."

"After a long time, several people in the dormitory play along, saying that she has a team and a plan, and she loses less and wins. I recharged my living expenses for one month with uneasy heart ... I really lost less and gained more. Slowly, I fell in love with this kind of life and indulged in that state ... I often stayed up late, and I often didn't have the heart to study in class ... "

" Finally, one day, the whole dormitory became poor, and even a few people owed online loans. And I, who lost all my living expenses, secretly owed tens of thousands of dollars to several relatives and friends ... "

" Youth, school, gambling debts ... what a painful realization. "

Online gambling is gender-neutral. I have seen female gamblers who have lost hundreds of thousands, millions or even millions. Perhaps it is often said that a man who lost his family gambling is sorry for his wife and children ... and it is exactly the same misery and pain for a female gambler who lost his family gambling. There are no more good times, because there are too many men, women and children in heaven and hell because of online gambling, too many … I thought women's hearts would not be big, and they would be more calm than crazy men. Facts have proved that there is no distinction between men and women in online gambling ...

Online gambling is a knife that kills people without seeing blood!

Only by staying away from gambling can you live a healthy life. The end of female gamblers 2

How gamblers return to normal life

First, stop robbing Peter to pay Paul's borrowing behavior. Let all your debts break out, and credit cards and online loans are completely overdue without the financial ability to repay them. Some people will ask why they did this. I don't know if anyone has ever experienced it. They won the money with great efforts, paid off the loan, and then borrowed it again when they lost money. Some people even confessed to their families and paid their debts. Then gamble again. There are loans. This should be experienced by all my brothers. So if you want to quit gambling, this step must be done. Although it will make it difficult for ourselves, it is the most effective.

second, download the national anti-fraud app on your mobile phone. Now the function of the national anti-fraud app is beyond your imagination. Once you browse or download the online gambling platform. Or the platform will contact you with the number starting with 8, and the anti-fraud app will monitor it at the first time. Then someone will contact you. Let you stop online gambling. Seriously, you will be summoned to take a statement.

Third, find a proper job and enrich yourself. Get used to normal people's lives, put aside the debt problem and answer the call normally. It will be uncomfortable. But this is also made by ourselves, so we can only bear it ourselves. If you are wrong, you must admit it. If you are beaten, you must stand at attention.

Fourth, increase revenue and reduce expenditure, and negotiate repayment with lenders when you have a stable income. At present, all major lenders have provided a humanized negotiation plan for up to five years and sixty periods. Don't be too greedy for liquidated damages and interest. When the repayment is finally negotiated, only the principal can be negotiated. (State-owned banks and borrowing banks have little relief, so when they have the ability, they will give priority to repaying state-owned banks and Alipay.)

Fifth, strengthen their beliefs, work hard and make more money. When you can't hold on, think about what your previous gambling scene was, and when you want to gamble again, you want to take a chance. Think that the money in hand is out of proportion to the money lost before. I used to be able to lose so much money, but now I have enough of these three melons and two dates. The end of female gamblers 3

The best way to quit gambling 1. First, decide on a certain day that when you wake up, you won't gamble. Decide that for this, one day you will not gamble. If you have to do this, in an hour's time, this is normal. Sometimes you may need to do it for a minute at a time. This is normal, because you are hopeful that you won't gamble at a certain moment. Arrange your day in a very structured way so that you don't have much free time. This can really help, because you won't have time to gamble.

2. Find your interests and replace your gambling activities. Exercise, go shopping, go out with friends, or do some cooking. You can also rent a movie, listen to some soft music or do some reading. What? I mean what? Don't go back to gambling. Your goal is to quit gambling, or at least start to reduce the harm of gambling.

3, remember the feeling of losing money in gambling, when you lose a lot of money in casinos or online casinos or through sports lottery. Think about how bad it feels when you lose a lot of money. Please remember this feeling and make yourself feel depressed when you have second thoughts about gambling. Sometimes, these feelings can imitate what you feel after the carnival of gambling. This can really go out and bet to stop you.

4. Learn as much as possible about gambling addiction. Educate yourself about different types of gambling, gambling and your participation to understand what kind of gambler you are and whether you have a special type of gambling problem and have crossed this invisible line. Are you a gambler, an escape or action gambler? Find out some of your triggers because it can help a lot.

5. Books or courses for self-help of gambling addiction, or books just for the regulation of gambling addiction. In addition, the gambling problem of self-hypnosis has also proved to be helpful. In addition, join some gambling addiction/gambling online forums, or if you don't join, just read other people's stories.

6, you may want to participate in the support of your recent gambler anonymous meeting group. There is also the so-called "online self-help scheme intelligent recovery" if you are not in step 12. The 12 steps are not suitable for everyone, but that doesn't mean you can't join other support groups. Having the support of other gamblers who want to get better can be an important piece of your recovery.

7. Have a close family member to handle your money. If you don't have money, you will be less likely to go out impulsively and gamble on this money. This may be difficult, but it will be an important step in your recovery. Besides, don't let yourself enter ATM or credit card. As long as you keep a small amount of cash with you, you will not be tempted to gamble with the money you spend.

8. Making a question about how you list gambling has affected your life in a negative way. You can constantly publish your gambling experience, the inconvenience that gambling has brought to your life, and the great changes in your life and spirit after quitting gambling. You must stick to it and write it in order. Don't feel that you can't quit gambling. In fact, this is an effective method.

9. Imagine that you have great energy, and the gambling debts in front of you are easy to handle. For example, you can speculate in stocks to make money, work to make money, and find a quick way to make money that suits you, so as to reduce the financial pressure and find out how to solve your financial problems. This is very important, because of the economic pressure, you have to get rid of the gambling addiction debt and can actually drive you back to gambling if it is not solved. This is the most powerful and powerful consequence of this problem, and there is useful help.

Please be sure to use the help of a non-profit debt institution, not one for profit. Remember that gambling is the cause of the current gambling debt, and we should not fantasize about paying off debts from gambling, which can only increase.

1. Look for ex-gamblers who have quit gambling. You need as much support as possible, such as telephone calls, emails, forum questions and answers, and face-to-face exchanges. Without good guidance, you will have a nervous breakdown.