But in real life, one party often owes foreign debts in its own name. Should we check whether the other party knows about this debt first? If the other party knows this, it can usually be regarded as ordinary debt. But if the other party doesn't know, it depends on whether the debt is used for husband and wife to live together or run together. For example, if one party owes a credit card, but the credit card is used for daily consumption, daily necessities or common business expenses, even if one party owes it, it is also a joint debt, and the other spouse will also bear the responsibility.
If the credit card in this account is for personal use, it is behind your back, which is beyond the understanding of normal people. Like waving a credit card to gamble. Then I think a wife should handle her husband first. You should go to this man. Is your life worth living together? If you forgive him, don't regret it. Then I think I should leave when it is time to avoid more debts in the future.
Ruined your life. Because the debt between husband and wife is difficult to define in law, it is usually shared by both parties. If the consumption is for the family, and with the consent of the wife, if the husband can't repay in full, the wife must share the debt. As a husband, before spending, we should also consider our financial situation and whether we can repay our debts. Wife is hard to prove, isn't it? In reality, if you sue, your wife will definitely lose! Except incompetence.