Some people may say, raise children to prepare for old age. If you are really worried about having no one to support you when you get old, go abroad. As for foreign countries, some countries provide free medical care. When you retire, part of your pension will be withdrawn, and then a caregiver will take care of your food and daily life. The disadvantage is that when you are young, you pay high taxes. After all, in China, many do not pay taxes. If you have a child, it can indeed provide some financial assistance when the child grows up to support himself. But I think that is minimal, because when the children grow up, the economy at that time has developed well, and the money we had back then is no longer valuable. Most children now still need assistance from their families before they are thirty years old. Including getting married, buying a house or a car, life, and all other aspects. If he doesn't have any skills, he will end up chewing the old people. So raising children to provide for old age is a lie. After all, it is impossible for children to take care of you when they are making money, but an old man cannot move on his own, so what he actually wants is not money, but someone who can take care of himself.
If it were a daughter, would she take care of you? A girl who has to work will not take care of the elderly. Some people may say that it is because the man your daughter married is not good, but the question is when it comes to love, can you guarantee that the man you like must have that ability? If not, the result is that you sacrifice your love for the care of a man who is not so reliable. Then he will most likely abandon you in a few years, and you will still be an old mother with a child. According to Judicial Interpretation 3, she has not received much property. It is difficult for housewives over 35 years old to find a decent job in China. If you stick to your job, then naturally there will be no one to take care of the elderly at home. If the above events happen, you will have to come back to eat your old age. Even if you find a job, it is physical labor and very hard. There is also a child here, how much time does she have to take care of you? Is it true that you went to help her take care of the children?
If you give birth to a son, can you guarantee that he will be a rich man in the future? If he were not a rich man, would he come back to eat his old age? Maybe you said that he will find a job. In the same way, he has a manual job, which may be very hard, so he will not be able to take good care of you. Maybe you have to take care of him, or there is another possibility that he If you decide to continue working hard and go to a big city, then if he is not by your side, it will naturally be impossible to take care of you. Maybe you will say that I live in a big city, so you are lucky because he is by your side no matter what, but how much will he take care of you after work? Also, how many people can have such luck? Not everyone lives in big cities like Beijing and Shanghai. Then you may need to start working hard now so that he can be born in these big cities and not go to other cities. However, I believe that many people born in Beijing and Shanghai will go to work in places like Hong Kong or abroad. ! So the same principle continues to exist, unless your son has no ability and can only stay in this city.
Because the people of that era, deep down, responded to the call of the country and obeyed the party organization, so she will tell you that the country said it is better to have only one child. It means you have to give birth to one. The state does not say you must give birth. This is their ideological consciousness: having children is patriotic.