Title: People really have to live up to their own expectations. Once you achieve something, the whole world becomes happy. --Yishu

In the past few days, I have been following a few episodes of "Beijing Women's Illustrated Book" in my spare time, and I was very impressed by the role of "Chen Ke" played by Qi Wei. This TV series mainly tells the story of "Chen Ke", a girl from Beijing who came to Beijing to work hard after graduating from college. From her, everyone can more or less see the shadow of themselves.

The aura of first-tier cities is a huge temptation for many children who grow up in rural areas.

Chen Ke, a girl from an ordinary family, came to Beijing to make a living after graduating from college, just like all young people with dreams.

However, reality gave her a hard slap. With her undergraduate diploma, she could only find a front desk job in a company in Beijing for her first job, earning a salary of two to three thousand a month. , living in a basement shared with roommates.

This kind of life is incompatible with the "glitz and glamor" that Beijing gives people.

She is arrogant and understands that this kind of life is not what she wants. Trying to change his destiny by finding a rich boyfriend.

However, in real life, finding a rich man is not as easy as imagined. After dating for a period of time, she and her colleague in the company broke up because they had different views.

Later, in order to satisfy my own vanity, I reluctantly swiped my credit card to buy myself the LV I had longed for, trying to squeeze myself into the upper class.

I also changed my job and made some achievements in the sales position. And because of work, he got acquainted with Yu Yang, a big customer and rich second generation.

When she had lived a prosperous life provided by her boyfriend, she thought that the good days of falling in love, getting married, and settling down in Beijing were about to come true. Who knew that her rich second-generation boyfriend Yu Yang had not married her? plan.

Shortly after breaking up with her rich second-generation boyfriend, I received news that her rich second-generation ex-boyfriend was marrying the daughter of a wealthy family. In the face of reality, she was once again thrown cold water on life. She finally saw the face of life clearly and began to work hard on her work. Her career reached a new level, from the unknown "front desk" when she first came to Beijing. "She transformed into a strong woman in the workplace, "Mr. Chen."

"Chen Ke", played by Qi Wei, has too many shadows of Beidiao girls. They all long for a beautiful love, a decent job, and a stable home in a big city.

As Chen Ke’s female boss said to her, "Everyone wants to live more comfortably and get more. Everyone thinks so."

However, in reality, Life is often crueler than we imagine. So, how can ordinary girls live decently in big cities?

Perhaps we can get some inspiration from Chen Ke and from the experiences of all the girls around us wandering around:

Competition in big cities is often more intense, but in the workplace , has always adhered to the law of "survival of the fittest". If you don't work hard, others can easily replace you.

What kind of salary a person can earn in a company depends on how valuable you are to the company.

What kind of life a person can live depends on your monthly income.

What kind of circle a person can recognize depends on your own level.

When you become good, you will find that the world is much better than you imagined.

However, when you are not good enough, you will find that no matter how many people you know, it will have no effect on your life at all.

"The right match" applies equally to love at any time. Instead of spending time and energy to find the prince charming in your mind, it is better to settle down and improve yourself.

There was once a survey on the Internet, what kind of girls do good men like? In the end, the top picks were nothing more than these: good looks, good family background, high education, good personality, interesting...

Therefore, if you want to meet the love in your mind, you must first Give yourself the qualities that make a great partner.

In a big city, you face rows of oncoming high-rise buildings, colorful neon lights, and colorful life. Which girl wouldn't be moved? However, behind the fierce competition in big cities, in the face of opportunities, everyone has the possibility to realize their dreams.

In a big city full of gold, it depends on whether you can get your own pot of gold.

In big cities, you can see the stories of ordinary girls around you who have made a fortune by relying on their own abilities; you can see young people working overtime with the lights on at two or three in the morning; you can see Many new things and industries are emerging around you... In short, there is nothing they can't do except what you can't think of!

You still have to have dreams, what if they come true?

Postscript: Every ordinary girl who wants to live a decent life in a big city often needs to work harder than others. They don’t have the opportunity to become rich overnight, they don’t have the support of their wealthy parents, and they don’t have strong connections. But fortunately, fate has left them a way to fight for themselves!