In fact, marriage is like a wide and long road. We can trample on it and be careful of it.
Because a little carelessness can make our marriage a child's play. But marriage is not a child's play, and we can't squander it at will.
Couples in marriage are basically based on love, so since they have fallen in love, they should continue their love and sweetness in marriage.
It is often said that marriage has become a romantic idol drama, but after all, it is several couples, most of whom are busy with daily necessities. How can they care about romance?
In the real marriage life, there is no so-called romantic love, only a plain life with a long stream of water. Some marriages will go downhill after years of changes.
When a marriage begins to have a crisis, it proves that there is something wrong with the two people who run the marriage. At this time, we should dig the root of the problem as soon as possible. When problems are found, they should be remedied in time. If it can't be cured, it can only end in divorce.
He Hui and her husband are college classmates. They have been married for nearly ten years. At the beginning of their marriage, they were still in love. The change of marriage, that is, two or three years after marriage, began to change. This change is not a good change, but a change that undermines marriage.
In fact, He Hui's problem is not big. The biggest problem is her husband. At first, her husband was self-motivated, knew his responsibilities and could fight for a better life for them.
However, gradually his motivation has been declining, until later, there is no motivation at all. Men began to indulge in games, addicted to the internet, and left their marriage behind.
This marriage gradually became the marriage of He Hui alone. She is not only busy at work, but also takes care of her family and children. A woman, like a desperate thirteen-year-old, works day and night just to make her family on the road to happiness.
However, marriage and family are not supported by one person's ability. No matter how powerful this person is, she needs a helper. But she has no helper, and her husband has no eye for her and this family.
Inadvertently, she found that her husband had several credit cards and often played games to buy equipment, all of which were credit cards. He Hui is not very clear about the middle process. All she knows is that her husband finally maxed out his credit card and refused to pay it back.
In a rage, He Hui offered to divorce him. The man even said shamelessly, "Wife, help me return my credit card before the divorce."
He Hui is going to be angry with him. At the same time, she hated that her eyes were not bright enough and chose such a hopeless husband. She said, "Are you afraid you didn't wake up? How dare you say that? "
The man is really, without any guilt, and has the cheek to ask her to return the credit card. In the end, there is no doubt that their marriage can only end in failure.
The reason why He Hui's marriage failed was not her, but her cheeky husband. A man, first of all, lost his corresponding responsibilities in marriage. What's the reason to survive in marriage?
In marriage, husband and wife are a community, and all responsibilities and obligations belong to the title of husband and wife, not the personal responsibility of either party. Therefore, in marriage, each of us should know what we are doing.
When you are in a marriage, you have no fighting spirit and ambition, which means that your marriage is not far from failure.
Marriage is not playing house. Don't play if you don't want to. Marriage is a lifelong commitment and a lifelong responsibility. Since you chose marriage at the beginning, you must always be responsible for it, and you must never give up halfway.
I hope that both men and women in marriage are aware of their heavy responsibilities and work together not to leave the other half in the middle of marriage.
Since marriage has entered our life, we should cherish this hard-won fate. Take marriage seriously, manage it with heart, treat the other half sincerely and serve it wholeheartedly. In the future, marriage will bring you a lifetime of prosperity.