I think this kind of behavior is shameful, because sometimes "lying down" is not done willingly, but because you are forced to do so. Faced with soaring prices, high work pressure, and expensive garages, what can they do if they are only in their 20s if they don't "lay down"!

I am 27 years old this year, and I am also one of the "lying flat" people among some people. But do I really want to lie down? My answer is "No, I really don't want to", but I really can't change the status quo.

I was born in a rural area and have two children at home, my brother and me. My parents relied on farming and doing part-time jobs to support their family and my brothers’ education. In the eyes of outsiders, my brother and I are very "competitive" and excel in studies.

Originally, our parents planned to let one of us study well, while the other drop out of school and work to support the family. But seeing their two children working so hard, they relented and "tightened their belts" so that my brother and I could go to school.

My brother was admitted to Tianjin University with excellent results in the college entrance examination, and I was later admitted to Zhengzhou University. Because we knew our family was poor, we lived frugally when we were in college and took part-time jobs to make money when we had time.

I am not afraid of everyone laughing when I say it. Before I graduated from college, the most expensive shoes I wore did not cost more than 100 yuan, and my clothes were all sold on the street. However, I paid for my living expenses and tuition in the past four years through my own efforts. Earn it. Maybe it's because "children from poor families become parents early", and we can better understand the unbearable feeling of being "poor".

After graduating from college, my brother joined a major Internet company in Shenzhen. The salary was very good, and I also successfully entered a state-owned enterprise. But when faced with buying a house, a car, or marrying a wife, we can only choose to "lay flat." Because we have only been working for a short time, we have no money, and we are even more unwilling to let our parents bear a lot of "debt" to provide for us to enjoy life.

Some people around me will say, "Young people should do more, be motivated, be brave, and not lie down." But haven’t we, the younger generation, been working hard? I haven’t relaxed myself in more than 20 years, and I am very self-disciplined. Study hard, work hard, and strive to become "the child others call you." But I also get tired, and I also long to be understood.

I am 27 this year, and I bought a house in the county town (I paid the down payment myself. I have never had the extravagant hope of a house in a big city, because I "don't deserve it". This is probably a self-deprecation of being powerless) . My girlfriend knows that I have no money, so she rarely asks for material things from me. She said that the most important thing is for two people to be happy together. She also said that she believed that I was a potential stock.

Having said so much, I just want to say that we young people have never "sit down" when it comes to life, but we can only choose to "sit down" when it comes to economic pressure.

Every young person is afraid of being looked down upon and said to be worthless, so he wants to make a difference. So when faced with the sufferings of life, we will not choose to lie down, because that is shameful. But in the face of financial pressure, I think it is shameful for us to choose to lie down. After all, there is really nothing we can do.

I also hope that this society can be more understanding and tolerant of young people. Finally, I quote a classic line from the popular anime "Fights Break the Sphere": "Thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi, don't bully young people into poverty."